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ok so my birthday was like a month ago..i started planning my sweet 16 but couldnt do it the date i wanted because one of my good friends is having hers that day. I was ok with that and decided to wait until June because my aunt who works there said i can get a deal this one weekend. I checked with everyone to make sure i didnt interfere..my one good friend is having hers the day after mine..im having mine on a friday. Today she asked me if i can change mine because she was talking to her mom and her mom doesnt like the idea because she said it will be hard for people to go to to parties in one weekend. She asked me to change mine because she cant change hers. I was like WHTA? her dad works at the firehouse (thats where shes havin hers) and i know she could probably change it if she feels that way. Every weekend there seems to be a sweet 16..i have to wait 2 1/2 months after my actual bday to have my party..so i think ive sacrificed enough. I dont mean to sound stubborn or anything..its just im sick of accomadating others...plus i can get a good deal on the catering that friday night..and i have double header softball games on saturdays..between everyone elses parties,plays for the schools,and talent shows,this is my open date and i dont wanna change! do you agree? how should i say this to her (link)
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Okay here's what i think you should do.....
tell your friend " I have waited 2 1/2 months to have my birthday and i dont think i am gonna wait another week to have mine if at all i think you should postpone yours!"
hope I helped
~*SAYLOR*~
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Ok, this past week, I went to Disneyworld to march in the parade with the band. (yes, I'm a bandgeek...) Well, my really good friend, Nicole, was sitting with me on the busride to Floriday (24 hours, yuck!) and the way there and the 1st few days of Disney were fine, but then she started getting on my nerves. At the time, I didn't think she was a lesbian at all. She was just NOT giving me my space and was hanging around me A LOT. She basically wouldn't leave me alone. And from then on, she started acting really weird. I'm gonna tell you the things that she did, but they're not gonna be in order lol. Well, for one, we were at Epcot and playing in the fountain like 4-year-olds, but hey it was fun lol. She kept picking me up and trying to get on top of me. And then, long after we dried off, she had wet spots on her boobs. So disgusting. On the bus ride home, I'm like, trying to sleep, and every time I look, she's watching me. Then later, I woke up later that night and her butt was pressed against mine and if I'm not mistaken, it was moving up and down. Then on the monorail, she has all this room, but is like, on top of me. So I move over, and she moves closer, and that kept happening. Just a lot of that kind of stuff. So me and my new friends Kelly and Molly and my other friend Amber ditched her at Magic Kingdom, and yeah, we're not talking (not that I care). But now, I'm just really freaked out. I told my friends, and we thought about it for awhile, and a lot of stuff she told us before was all starting to make sense and we really think she's bi or a lesbian. So what should I do? I don't really want to be her friend anymore, and I'm just really freaked out. I could probably say more, but I don't want this to be too long, so if you want more details, IM me on x HappyBunni16 x. Sorry so long, but I'm really scared.
P.S. I have nothing against lesbians, just when they hit on me and my friends. (link)
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Well first confront her, ask her if she is a lesbian and if she is bisexual. And if she says no then just walk away but if she says yeh then tell her your not that way and you want her to stop hitting on you that you dont like it a bit!
hope i helped
~*SAYLOR*~
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k well i want to get a lipring. i dont know how it will look though, so i was wondering if theres a way to get a fake lip ring (that actually will stay on my lip) so i can see how it looks...i dont wanna go thru all that pain for something that will look tacky. any help or suggestions is appreciated! (link)
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You can go to claires to get a fake lip ring. they have ALOT of FAKE jewelry i know that because that is where i go to get my belly button rings except the real belly button rings are in a different section you will probably have to ask where it is!
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Does anyone have a good idea as to what I could get my boyfriend for our 6 months? I want to do something semi-creative (as in not trite) and semi-romantic.
For Christmas, I made him a book of pictures and magazine cut outs that said sweet stuff.
I need some ideas. Good ones are appericated.
I'll rate. (link)
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I know this probably wont help none but make a cake (heart-shaped perferrably) with strawberry icing on it and let it say ( i am just gonna use 2 names)
Amanda
-N-
Justin
4-EVA
I think it would be so cute but i dont know that is what i would do. Oh or you can both go to the movies! Watch a romantic movie, that would be cool!
hope i helped!
~*SAYLOR*~
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theres this guy, my boyfriend. sometimes i feel like i like him and other times i feel like i dont. he is crazy over me. i feel like i want to dump him but i dont want him to be upset. (this guy also gave me chocolate 4 no reason and we have been going out for about 3 weeks) i need help!!!!! il give 5's and feedback to the first 4 good answers i get! PLZ HELP!!!! (link)
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Okay i have been in the same situation, heres what you need to do:
If this guy has a nice personality then that is probably the reason you think you like him. Cause when i was going out with this boy he was ugly but i liked him for his personality except he was perverted that is why i dumped him.
If you like him for his personality go with him but if he is perverted i would dump him but i am going to leave that decision up to you just dont dump him cuz he's ugly stay with him if you really love him. Send feedback maybe i can help u a bit more!
~*SAYLOR*~
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My best friend is really rich and she always likes to brag about her $3.2 million mansion and how mine is only worth $1.2 million. I never really had a problem with her being so "Oh mine is better than yours" because shes done it with our cars, our clothes, etc. But its beginning to bug me because she wrote me this really long email about how she went to Hollister Co. and bought $3,000 worth of stuff. She began listing it one by one. 37 logo shirts ($721), 7 pairs of capris ($276)...and she listed it all the way to underwear, flip flops, mini skirts, shorts, bathing suits, and fragrance. Is that just a little too much? Because I think so. See my family is rich, but we like to save our money. But her family, blows it all on stuff they dont really need. Her $3,000 wardrobe will be thrown out when spring/summer is over. The email really bothered me...I'm not jealous. I can go to Hollister and spend a lot of $$ too. But, how can I teach her that money is not everything...and tell her she can save money while still looking great in all the latest fashion and styles? (link)
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Well first you need to tell her that money isnt everything. Then if she doesnt believe you and goes off somewhere and blows $3000 on clothes that she could have spent $400 dollars on then take her to places like American Eagle and Kohls. Their clothes arent that expensive. And if she blows over $500 i am really sorry but their is no hope for her.
~*SAYLOR*~
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I'm a female in my early twenties. My brother-in-law has a wife, who he married last year. I was jealous of everytime he was in a serious relationship. Now, he's married, I'm even more jealous. Now he's having his second child with his wife, whom I'm not comfortable accepting yet. My husband and I are also planning to have a child as well, but I am not pregnant with my second child yet. Sometimes I hate it when people do better than me. Especially people I don't like. My brother-in-law doesn't really talk to me and his wife I don't really like, yet I have to learn to accept her. Is it normal to be jealous of other people's good news? I'm acting like my brother-in-law is my blood brother, or something. I also came from a small family where I was always put first, and when someone has good news that happens to them, then it's not all about me anymore. Does the way I was raised have something to do with this? I love it best when I was the ONLY daughter-in-law in the family. (link)
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Yeh the way you was raised has something to do with it. Just be happy for your Brother-In-Law and one of these days he will be jealous of you. You just need to calm down and live your life as good as you can you never know... he might be jealous of you right now and nobody knows!!! =)I really hope i helped!
~*SAYLOR*~
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there's this guy that i like and i haven't told him that i like him but i'm not the kind of person that really does that. Well, over spring break the guy went on a cruise and today he had pics of these 2 girls that he met that were drop dead gorgeous. He kept talking about one of the girls and how they were gonna take him on a cruise next year and how he might move to indiana to be with one of them and i know that he can't have been serious because he only knew them for a week and i know he was just trying to get me and my friend to be jealous but then he kept being all like a jerk and it pissed me off. But i still like him. Its so hard because i really like him but he can be such a jerk sometimes. He can be a showoff and stuff but he's my friend. I don't know. I don't wanna tell him i like him because then he will be like all weird and maybe be disgusted. I don't know. Help me! (sry its so long) (link)
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Okay TELL HIM he wouldnt be acting this way if he didnt like you even the least little bit. If you dont have the guts to tell him have a friend to, and if your friend dont want to write him a letter. Letters are always reliable..... unless another person gets the letter which i doubt would happen just sneak it into his backpack, math book or notebook!
I really hope i helped
~*Saylor*~
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OK heres the dealio
i HATE showers...they just seem like a waste of time for me. Does anyone know any ways that will make showering fun?? no sarcastic answers please. Thanks (link)
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Well you can:
sing
dance
make up your own songs
think aboout boy-friend/girlfriend
think about what your going to do tomarrow
and thats all i can think of.
Oh and try not to slip on the soap bar while your dancing! =)
~*SAYLOR*~
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Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react? (link)
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Well when i was at my couzins house i started and i hollered at her and said brandi do you know what every girl goes through and she said yeh why and i said i am goin through it now and she stayed alnight with me that night and told my mom! it isnt nothing to worry about!
~*SAYLOR*~
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oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks! (link)
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Well i can tell you one thing you cant do..... let the boy come between your friendship if you do that you have no hope!
~*SAYLOR*~
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okay im 14/f.
i started babysitting at the beginning of the school year. the lady who hired me said that she needed someone she would be able to rely on. she pays really good money but recently her hours got changed and i'm working 3:30 to 6:00 when usually i only did 3:30 to 5:00. i don't even get to eat with my family. and when i get home all i wanna do is just go to bed.
the kids are fucked up. they get disciplined but their mother just laughs when she yells at them. they're really spoiled and get their way all the time.
the other day i was watching them and i was swinging on this swing. well their dog attacked me for no reason. when i told the mother she said "oh sometimes you just need to hit him" he even ripped my pants! there's a small hole in the pants and there's a HUGE bruise on my leg from where he bit me.
when i got my paycheck their was no money for the pants that the dog ripped. i'm really sick of them and i wanna quit but i don't know how to say it. if the dog bites me again i'll have no problem but what should i do in the mean time? i was thinking of giving her my two weeks notice but chickened out. what do i say?
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Walk up to her and tell her that you cant take it that the kids are bratts and the dog bit you and that there was no money in the check for the pants and tell her on the spot that you quit and walk away!
Hope i helped
~*SAYLOR*~
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hey! im doing a project for school and i need to collect some data about things some teens do that they realy dont want to just to fit in. if u could tell me all the things that u did just to fit in, it would help. thanx
ps: annyone who ansers will get a 5 rateing unless they r joking or being rood or whatever (link)
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smoke (i have never did none of these)
Drank
cursed
ditched classes
there is WAY more i just cant think of them
hope i helped
~*SAYLOR*~
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hey everyone! ok, this is going to be so lame, but me and my friends are trying to find this one site and its' one of those website quiz things- it's the one where it says like " number 1-11" and like 'put someone of the opposite sex on #3" and then "put a song on #11" and like when you're through it'll give you the answers and will be like "the song title in #11 is what describes the opposite sex person in #3" do you know what i'm talking about? any help would be appreciated! thanks! (link)
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I think your looking for www.funnyjunk.com well i hope i helped you find it because i have taken VERY similar quizzes on that site!
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i am 13/f and i have a boyfriend even though i'm not really supposed to. anyways my little sister who is 10 found out and now she is threatning meand i don't know what to do.i don't want to break up with him. i tryied talking to her but that made it worse! what do i do? (link)
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tell her that you have broken up with him and if she still buggs you tell your parents that she has a boyfriend it works i have did that before. But your parents probably already know because thats how they operate
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My best friend and I got in fight like a month ago and it awas the stupidest fight ever I cant even remember what it was... well we kinda lost communication cause she just started ignoring me(and what sucks is we hang out with the same ppl so I will be standing next to her but we wont talk) and then like last week i was aim and we started apoligizing and got everything worked out... but at school its like we still arent friends cause i will be standing right next to her and we wont say one word... it feels really awkard... but i miss her so much and I dont know what to do I mean Ive told her how much I miss talking to her... I feel like Ive been replaced... I just want my best friend back and I dont know how to do it? I have cried so much just because of the fact that i cant talk to her and tell her everything anymore... it hurts me so much at school to be standing next to her and not talk... i cant really tell anyone how im feeling cause I just want to cry... I am trying to make my self realize that were just not bestfriends anymore but its way too hard... i need advice do I need to make myself realize were just not the same or do i gotta do something and get My BF back and if so HOW???
PLEASE HELP!!!
SIGNED:I WANT MY BF BACK! (link)
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well first you have to talk to her. Ask her if she is really your friend and that you miss her alot and you miss her talking to you and if she still ignores you talk to her first!
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Wet Seal has been my favortie store for a very long time, but recently they just shutdown a whole bunch of them, including the one in my area. Does anyone one know of any cool stores with fashion/clothes like Wet Seal?
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I dont know if you have heard of these but:
American Eagle
Kohls
Goodies
JC Pennys
_________________________________________________Hope I Helped
~*SAYLOR*~
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okay well i was friends with someone online for a few months and we got really close - we told each other like everything and stuff. I showed her like one pic maybe and my face wasn't showing that well and I'm not really comfortable showing pics online anyway because I knew that she saved them on her computer. Well, we grew apart, and then a month after we did I found out that she was even bisexual. the problem is.. she ims me every once in a while and asks for my pic, saying that she has all these pics of her friends saved. am i wrong for not wanting to give it, or feeling that im only imed so she could see my pic?
[ 15 / f ] (link)
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Okay I have been in the same situation if you really dont want her to ask to see your pic every time she im's you then tell her that you arent comfortable showing your picture to people that you dont know very well for all you know she could be a he!
Hope I helped
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Hi! Okay i am a really thin person....i am NOT Anorexic i swear! I eat actually alot, i just dont gain the pounds as fast! But my hands in the winter they will like turn colors...like in gym they will trun purple and red and stuff. And if you squeeze them they will turn red! Is this normal...my one friend said it could be a blood clot! Help me (link)
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Don't listen to your brain dead friend. It's not a blood clot. It's perfectly normal. Nothing's wrong with you. And as for the being very skinny and eating loads, feel lucky to be naturally skinny, stock up on your food before you have to starve yourself for the body you want. By the way, don't starve yourself.
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14/f
summer is coming up and i am going to be swimming ALOT. i got my period at the very end of last summer so i didnt have to worry about swimming. but now that this summer is getting closer i am considering tampons so i can swim whenever i want. my questions are what brand of tampons are best and should i start now so i will be more confortable or will it matter?
thank you. (link)
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Tampax are probably the best brand. Getting used to using a tampon may take a while depending on you and your body, it's probably best to try them out for a while before you start swimming so that you can swim easily and relax more. Totally up to yourself though.
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