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___ in every ___ girls that has sex will get pregnant.
can someone fill in the blanks for me??
im talkin DEFINITELY usin a condom & maybe on the pill as well [although i wouldnt be on it for that reason]. but still protected in some way nonetheless.
im 15 and a virgin no im not plannin on havin sex soon im jus wonderin for future reference! thx (link)
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without protection, its quite high. with protection, as the other person said, the pill is 99% and the condom is 98 (i think it might be a little higher, but its better to under estimate than over estimate) so, this means, assuming you do everything correctly you have a 1/100 * 2/100 chance of getting pregnant, aka 1 in ever 5000 girls that has sex will get pregnant. unfortunately, this number is actualy a lot higher, because alot of girls end up not using birth control, or using it incorrectly.
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ok so i cant look at this one persons profile/away message. my computer always says "Please Wait..." does this happen to anyone else and do you know what's wrong? thanks. (link)
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well, if it isnt a trick, or just hte person telling you wait for them in their away message, it is actualy possible that whatever they put into their profile is simply too much to handle for your computer. that is difficult to accomplish, so it is most likely just them telling you to wait. try to highligh the "please wait" if you can, then that means they simple wrote it.
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Ok my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I don't think that our relationship is sex based but sometimes it does seem like it. Everytime I go to his house we end up having sex. And he tells me that it is part of the relationship. Now don't get me wrong. I want it as much as he wants it. And we both try to hold ourselves back but it obviously isn't working to well.I just don't know how to avoid it other than just avoiding him as well.We both love each other very much and we promised to marry each other after college. And we already have promise rings. Please help me. I don't want this to just be a sex based relationship. But how can i avoid it and IS this a sex based realationship??
I would love any advice good or bad. (link)
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first off, i highly doubt you want it as much as he does, because if you did then you wouldnt have had time to write this question because of all the sex youd be having. secondly, just because you have a lot of sex, that doesnt mean that your relationship is sex based, but, why not talk to him about it? say you want to hold off on sex for a little while and just get to know each other better. to help make the month better, you can always still allow oral sex.
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What is that website you can go to to find out if a rumor going around in emails is true or not? (link)
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i usualy just take the key sentence out of the email, or the persons name who is supposedly dying of cancer and will get 10c if i forward it, plug it into google and click search. the first result is usualy a hoax checker site that will say if its true or not
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Hi. My boyfriend just recently left for college.. It's 2 hours away and I don't know whats going to happen. I don't know what to think. I am just really confused about everything. Please help me out if you have been to college and know what i am talking about. or if your in the same situation. (link)
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true long disctance relationships rarely work, but two hours really isnt that bad. assuming of you can drive, and if your bf is going off to college and isnt a pedophile you should be over 16, one of you probably can, youll probably be able to see each other at least every weekend. that should be enough, and remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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In high school, do most people carry around their bookbag? Or locker when they need to? I'm just scared that my class will be like across the school when I need to locker. (link)
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yeah most people, especially guys, carry their backpacks. one word of quick advice, do not get a roller backpack, it is the epitomy of uncool.
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I really want to 'sort of' come out, but my mum thinks that I shouldn't because our town is full of biggots and homophobes. I would only come out on my myspace, by putting bisexual on the sexuality, just so someone might see it. I don't know how to convince her that I sould be able to do so, and I really don't want to do something so big without havin her agreement. Could someone please tell me something to help convince my mum? (link)
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well heres an idea, compromise. put "no answer" for your sexuality. and then, you can tell your close friends, ones you know wont be biggoted about it, that you are bi.
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okay, i have a question. So i've been dating someone for 4 years now. i, no questions asked, love him to death right. He was my first in everything but i wasn't his first in bed. After all these years he won't tell me who he first slept with. If i really think about it really it makes me a bit mad. He says he wants to at least keep something to himself. What do you guys think i really think i have the right to know, it makes me mad that i don't know. I rate well. ;) (link)
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you have the right to ask, he has the right not to tell you. the past is past, typically, older relationships arent really discused. you have no point of reference, but i can tell you its typically odd for a girl to ask her boyfriend about old relationships, with me, aside from my last girlfriend, none really asked, except for some general stuff, but tehre were no specifics. i recoment just dropping it.
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ok so my computer guy told me to delete limewire because it makes alot of viruses. what else is there that i can download music and videos and is free like limewire. help is appreciated. (link)
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its not the programs themselves that carry viruses, its the files you download. so it really doesnt matter what you use, you will get viruses at roughly the same frequency. i use kazaa lite k++ its a relatively popular one, and at least a couple meassures to protect you from viruses, and is also completely free from adware and spyware (make sure you get lite, regular kazaa is choke full of adware). from experiance with a few programs, i like kazaa lite the best, bit torrent is good, but its best for movies, and episodes of tv shows youve missed, for music soomething like kazaa lite k++ is best.
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so I have a good boyfriend; we've been going out for a little over 6 months. well i used to have this other boyfriend; we were on and off for like 2 years. he was a jeerk and i don't even know why i liked him. we don't even talk anymore and i have no feelings left for him. but today i look at his gf's myspace and there was a picture of them together kissing. my stomach flipped and i kind of god sad. it was so weird; because i know i'm over him. why did this happen?? is it just because i used to be her? i don't want to be jealous like this ; do you have tips to not be anymoree? (link)
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its a common reaction, i had a similar one when my ex found a new bf, even though i would never ever take her back. its something that doesnt last too long, especially if you get desensitized to it by seeing it often.
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How reliable are condoms? what are the chances that they will break during intercourse? (link)
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the numbers the other people gave you are typical use effectiveness, which means they take into account people who do stupid shit like wearing two condoms at once, or otherwise use them incorrectly. when used correctly, condoms are on average 98% effetctive.
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i've been friends with this for like 3 years and we've always been close because we saw each other pretty much every day. now we're both in different classes and we never see each other i just feel like i wanna cry because i just miss her and all that we've been through together and i really just don't wanna lose her as my best friend. has anyone else been in this situation? if you have can you tell me about it. and how can i get my friend back. thank you soo much. (link)
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if you think you are gonna lose the friendship just because you are in different classes, then you werent very good friends to begin with. there is always lunch, after school, clubs, and such anyways.
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13/f I dated one of my best friends for like five days about 2 months ago. When I broke up with him, he took it really hard, he wasnt himself for weeks and I felt awful. About three weeks ago, I started liking him again and I told him and we started going out again. I now really don't like him like that, but I just can't brake up with him. I can't bear to hurt him again, plus all my friends would hate me. When we first started going out they all were like you better not hurt him again. I don't know what to do. The guy is like so in love with me it's not even funny. What should I do? (link)
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see this is why i tell people not to date their exes. hey you can alway try waiting till you like him again... or you can try making him not like you anymore by acting stupid and gross and stuff. but seriously, breaking up with him now would cause less pain than breaking up with him later.
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well this is your typical, boy falls in love with his best friend. i have loved this girls since high school, and out friendship is the strongest friendship anybody could have. we are like exactly the same.
well, i never told her how i felt, i believed that i had no chance with her. she was always with someone with someone else, and she seemed happy. certain things happened , and i had to tell her how i felt. we had to stop talkin for a couple of years, but we are now talking but keeping our friendship very private and hidden.
i have been in love with this girl for like 6 years, i know it could never be, but something inside tells me that she is the one. :-( i am aware of my situation, i know i should let it go, but i cant. every day i am more and more convinced that she is the love of my life, and i can't do nothing abou it. i really dont talk about this , i have these intense feelings and yet i must pretend that i dont feel anything, so it would help to hear form others. has anyone been through this? (link)
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yes i have, and still am. well close. i have yet to tell her how i really feel. i dont really plan on ever telling her, because i value our friendship, and if i did tell her it would be ruined. either right away if she doesnt feel the same way, or a few months down the line when we break up. feelings, almost by definition, can not be controled. the best advice i can give you is to try to focus on someone else. i know it seems hard right now, but you will find someone, someone who sparks a little intrest at first, and as you get to know her, and focus more on her, you may find that you have true feelings there. friendships tend to last a lot longer than relatioships. and you are in an even worse possition than i am as far as telling her goes, because youve already told her once and been rejected. just try to be satisfied with friendship.
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I had my boyfriend over one day. We were watching a movie. And I can't stay still during a movie... that's not of my interest.
And besides that, my dad suddenly got into a discussion with him about speakers.
And it seemed like they're rather talk alone... So I left the room for a few minutes to go on the computer.
Later, I found out that offended my boyfriend. He wanted to hold me and when I suddenly left to go on the computer. He somewhat felt the computer was more important than him.
What I did ... was that really rude?
I apologized, but I don't know...
What else could I do?
He means everything to me.
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why did he want to be all up in you while he was talking to your dad? thats just weird.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now. Are relationship is normally awesome. But lately he has been accusing me of cheating on him with my best friend who is a guy (who is really hott) His looks has nothin to do with our friendship. But I am completely dedicated to my boyfriend and only him. I tell him that time and time again. But the only way our relationship is going to last is if he accepts the fact that my best friend is going to always be a big part of my life. So if anyone had any suggestions on how to get my boyfriend to understand it would be really appreciated. (link)
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you have to ask yourself why your boyfriend is so crazy over this issue. chances are, its because he is thinking something along the lines of "if i had a really hot friend, id probably cheat". friends are part of who you are, a big part even, and he has to accept that. most of my friends are girls, and its never really been an issue in my relationships, im up front about it. you just need to sit down, and have a talk about it with him, explain that youd never cheat, but you are not willing to choose between your best friend and your boyfriend, and he shouldnt be trying to force you to. boyfriends come and go, but bestfriends are for ever.
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so i have been dating this guy since mid-july.. and i really like him.. we had been hanging out since june and i had had a crush on him since may. so its not really a new thing that just happened spur of the moment. anyway.. i dated this other kid who goes to a different school than me for like 3 months last october-jan and we broke up, but both had feelings for each other cuz the break up happen because of a silly fight. at one point tho, i think he liked me more than i liked him.(he brought me roses on v-day and we weren't even dating) i see him the most in the summer, so once summer started, i started to like him again. i wasn't sure if it because i was seeing him more or if it was because he was getting alot of attention from other girls lately and i was jealous because i used to be that girl. so then we started talking about it and he wasnt sure what to do and neither was i.. so we just kinda flirted alot. (which is normal for us) but we still talk alot and he is one of my best friends.. i feel comfortable tellin him anything. i think that i hurt his feelings by dating someone else, which made him tell me things about the girl he "supposedly" likes, who is also and ex of his, which hurt my feelings. that shouldn't but it does. i'm not sure if he is telling me the truth about this girl, or if he is just trying to cover up the fact he still has feelings for me. i just don't know if i'm letting someone really good go that is meant for me by dating someone else.. and what i should do. i love my boyfriend, but i don't know how long its going to last. help on this extremely long matter would be appreciated. thanks.
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never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love, and then you are left with no one.
in almost all circumstances i advize againse getting back together with an ex. it is almost always a bad idea, becuase if there are still feelings there, and there usualy are, then all you can remember are the good things, but as soon as you get back together it becomes apparent why you broke up in the first place.
it really doesnt matter too much wether or not he is telling you the truth about the other girl. you are friends now, and if you start a relationship again, and then break up again, it will be almost impossible to be friends again. if you are willing to risk that, as well as hurting your current boyfriend then i suppose you can go for it, but i wouldnt recomend it.
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ok i have verizon wireless.
with the txt and picture plan where i have unlimited to verizon users and 500 to outers. its 10 dollars a month.
i was wondering.... what about aim on my phone??
i went on it and it said reminder: if you send to many ims on aol, save now and get the txt plan.
so does that mean i can use aim on my fone without being charged extra???
because theres this guy i talk to online.. and im not supposed to talk to guys.. so my parents check my computer... so if i go on my fone.. tehy cant see it. so i was wonderin if it did??? (link)
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im not 100% sure, but i think that IMs are seperate from text mesages, as in you get charged, because i remember seeing an option to sign up for unlimited IMs on my phone for 7$ a month, and it was seperate from the text messaging plans. i have cingular though so it might be different
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ok i have a question. i was suppose to start on the 17th or 18th. well on the 16th i had sex with my boyfriend and he cumed in me. i haven't started my period yet. could the reason why i haven't started be bC of the fact i might be pregnant or is there another reason that i haven't started yet? (link)
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you might be, you might not be. next time use protection. and next time, dont do it right before your period because that is when you are most fertile.
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ok so like 3 days ago i was with this boy and we somewhat had sex but he didnt really stick it in. i mean i didnt want him to get hard cause we had no protection so he didnt and he barely stuck it in. we left. then yesterday there was a couple dots of blood down there and this is that time of the month for me. then i put a pad on and i have not leaked i mean its clean. completely. everyone keeps asking me if im pregnant and i say no but i dont know what to do. (link)
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well i dont know if you did get pregnant or not but "just sticking it in soft" is no substitute for protection. its pretty unlikely, but it is still possible.
and by the way, if your bf can get that close to sex with you without getting hard, he might have a problem
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