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so I have a good boyfriend; we've been going out for a little over 6 months. well i used to have this other boyfriend; we were on and off for like 2 years. he was a jeerk and i don't even know why i liked him. we don't even talk anymore and i have no feelings left for him. but today i look at his gf's myspace and there was a picture of them together kissing. my stomach flipped and i kind of god sad. it was so weird; because i know i'm over him. why did this happen?? is it just because i used to be her? i don't want to be jealous like this ; do you have tips to not be anymoree?
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its a common reaction, i had a similar one when my ex found a new bf, even though i would never ever take her back. its something that doesnt last too long, especially if you get desensitized to it by seeing it often.
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i think that element might just be there because she now has something that was once yours. i used to get that way about my ex boyfriend too and sometimes still do even though i have the most loving boyfriend on the world now. he still talks about his ex girlfriend and seems to have those moments too. id say that its normal and dont worry and try not to think about your ex, look at his myspace or his girlfriend's. forgetting is a powerful healer.
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Just don't go to his myspace anymore. And if you decided to, just don't look at his pictures. I mean, it's alright to be a little jealous. He used to be your boyfriend and you guys probably had some good times and it just got to you. No girl really likes to see their ex-boyfriend kissing some other girl even though they could be completely over them. You just have to remember the reasons you broke up and that he was a jerk and how you're glad you're not still with him. But like I said, I wouldn't even bother looking at his myspace anymore. I hope I helped. <3
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