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ex vs. bf
so i have been dating this guy since mid-july.. and i really like him.. we had been hanging out since june and i had had a crush on him since may. so its not really a new thing that just happened spur of the moment. anyway.. i dated this other kid who goes to a different school than me for like 3 months last october-jan and we broke up, but both had feelings for each other cuz the break up happen because of a silly fight. at one point tho, i think he liked me more than i liked him.(he brought me roses on v-day and we weren't even dating) i see him the most in the summer, so once summer started, i started to like him again. i wasn't sure if it because i was seeing him more or if it was because he was getting alot of attention from other girls lately and i was jealous because i used to be that girl. so then we started talking about it and he wasnt sure what to do and neither was i.. so we just kinda flirted alot. (which is normal for us) but we still talk alot and he is one of my best friends.. i feel comfortable tellin him anything. i think that i hurt his feelings by dating someone else, which made him tell me things about the girl he "supposedly" likes, who is also and ex of his, which hurt my feelings. that shouldn't but it does. i'm not sure if he is telling me the truth about this girl, or if he is just trying to cover up the fact he still has feelings for me. i just don't know if i'm letting someone really good go that is meant for me by dating someone else.. and what i should do. i love my boyfriend, but i don't know how long its going to last. help on this extremely long matter would be appreciated. thanks.
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aw well if you are having mixed feeling it's better to fly solo andd figure out what you want. andd if your boyfriend really loves you. or likes you a lot he'll let you take time off. just ask for a break andd if that friend comes back to you then take that chance. cause i can tell you like him betterrr or else you wouldn't be asking for adviceee =] you knew what you needed to do. buttt you just dind't want to hurt your current boyfriend
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never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love, and then you are left with no one.
in almost all circumstances i advize againse getting back together with an ex. it is almost always a bad idea, becuase if there are still feelings there, and there usualy are, then all you can remember are the good things, but as soon as you get back together it becomes apparent why you broke up in the first place.
it really doesnt matter too much wether or not he is telling you the truth about the other girl. you are friends now, and if you start a relationship again, and then break up again, it will be almost impossible to be friends again. if you are willing to risk that, as well as hurting your current boyfriend then i suppose you can go for it, but i wouldnt recomend it.
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