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ok..theres this guy i like named anthony and he is goin into 9th grade and im goin to 8 ((hes gonna be in a diff school whichs sucks)) and he says im cute and he likes me alittle but since he got left back hes 15 and im 13 so he said it would be weird and im like ok but can we be friends and hes like yea so the year ended and the last day of school the 8th graders had a bbq so i didnt see him to get his sn or # turns out he didnt have and sn and i got his # from a friend of his but its not the right # anymore!!
i really miss him i mean like i no how gay this sounds but i really love him!! what should i do ? should i get over him? (link)
obviously he doesn't rele wanna deal with you anymore so why bother? try reverse physcology.. act like your not interested in him .. he might get jealouss and then want you. if you ask me i think you should get over him..hope i helped `♥//


im not over weight but i have extra fat i really want to get rid of i mean im 13 year old girl who weights about 105 lbs and is 5 feet 1 iche but i really want to get rid of my extra fat around my stomach and "love handels" (link)
start exercising more and change your eating habit.. i have a website that is helpful for weightloss... http://www.toneteen.com/ it rele helps i use it and i lost 4 pounds in a week. still gotta lose like 5 more pounds =/ i'm working on it ha juss try it they have tips and everything `♥//


im 13 and goin into 8th grade i have really bad acne and i was wondering what i should do i have persripion medication and i wash my face 2 times a day!!! (link)
well toothpaste always works for me but it doesn't always work 4 everybody so i dunno..sorry it's late and i'm tired i hope i helped a little `♥//


He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do? (link)
ask his fine ass out girl!! haha aww he was playing like little kid ways i love when guys act like that its cutee `♥//


well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?

no dumbass answers please

ill rate 5s if you give good answers (link)
losing your virginity isn't like losing your keys or something this is rele big! if you want 2 talk about it juss call him and talk 2 him about it. youu should ask him all these questions.. and if you ask me i think trojan is the best protection plus they have diff. colors/flavors/glow-in-the-dark/ ect. so youu can experiment of course not on your first night. you can usually buy condoms at supermarkets and drug stores those are the easiest places. `♥//


what is a good weight for someone who is 15/f and is about 5 feet tall. Even for how much exercise i get i always feel fat and over weight. Alot of my body is muscle even though you cant really tell i have real muscular legs and stuff. I always here people being like 5'5" and only 100 pounds and ive always been over that. I dont look fat by any means but im not like super skinny either. whats a good way to loose weight too. I dont want to look grossly skinny but i dont want to be just sorta average like i am now im not chuby but not really really skinny youknow? i eat ok but my parents wont let me eat anything other for dinner than what they make which isnt always the healthiest and in the summer i exercise like nonstop and i do what i can in the winter.
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average weight for you would prolly be around 120-145 something like that..yeaah i hear ya about really really skinny.. eww haha. juss keep doing what youur doing & you'll loose the weight i'm doing the same thing trying 2 loose like 8 pounds cuz i rele like this skirt from abercrombie and 4 me 2 get into i need 2 loose weight haha so i hear yaa. tone your muscles and loose the body fat & you'll look great `♥//


are there anyother really good sites like myspace & xanga? besides livejournal. any good diaryish sites & stuff like that, besides those ones? im just curious! thanks! ♥ nicole (link)
there is also.. a greatestjournal http://www.greatestjournal.com/ its rele similar 2 livejournal tho `♥//


You answered my question,what vitamins help hair growth,and i was just wondering if you used vitamin E to help your hair grow,do they work? (link)
YES!, it works great! my hair grew about 3 inches in about a month!


im 13 i have never kissed n i dont no what to do! (link)
ha my first kiss was with a guy named tyler back in the dayy like 5th grade ha memories.. i dunno my first real kiss i felt rele nervous i told him that i didn't have as much experiance at kissing and he said it's okay and he understands.... juss talk 2 him b4 youu do it say that your scared and you don't kno what 2 do that's what i did and he taught me and it was awesome! or you could always juss kiss em and then say i'm not very good at this sorta thing.. i dunno i can't rele remember that far backk `♥//


my friend steph is pg her baby's dad is 27 (chace) he thought me & steph wer 18 but we're only 16 when steph met chace he put a knife to her but didn't hurt her he wents to jail came back chace had no place to live so steph's family(mother,little bro,aunt & grandmother) he was very abusive to steph she slept with himgot pg
he found out steph was only 16 he stayed around for about 1 day and fled to flordia she hasn't herd from he since

ali (link)
wow this seems like a story and not real.. but wuddevaa if its real i would try and keep the baby and put it up 4 adoption.. but wow if this is real then i'm hott lmao! and we all kno i'm not.. `♥//


my guy friend that i like a lot and he likes me back. the problem is that he got a girlfriend and i got a boyfriend(well had not anymore) but i know he likes me because he is always askin me to hang out and i think like i lost my chance because when he was single i didnt ask him out but it was only because i just meet him. do guyes think i lsot my chance. but he keeps telling me he dont care what his gf says bc what she doesnt noe wont hurt her. what should i do? i am confussed. (link)
he's a liar.. because what she does kno (when she finds out) will hurt her! juss imagine youu were her.. that would hurt. well i think youu guys should juss be friends and if that time comes when yourr both single youu should go for it.. but not when he's not single thats juss wrong. `♥//


last summer i met this guy..he came to missouri(which is where i live) cause he was visiting his grandma! well we met and had a blast together and i really liked him..only downside was he lives all the way in washington! well ever since we've met we have talked all the time on the phone and internet and hes been saying for quite a long time that he loves me and wants to be with me..i also feel the same way..i just dont know because he lives all the way in washington so we wouldnt really see eachother all that much! he said that him and his friend are coming down here this summer for a week to a week and a half and he wants to spend the whole time with me so im pretty excited about that! and hes talked about after he graduates and goes to college for 2 years coming here and living here so we can be together..he always says he feels like we are suppose to be together and i feel the same way i just dunno what to do! please help! sorry this is kinda long! (link)
its okay its long i love giving advice.. okay well what you should do is try and spend all the time youu can with him.. and try and make the relationship happen.. or youu could always put ur relationship on hold until he does move out here when he graduates.. get every chance youu can with him hon. so goodluck `♥//


i don't know what to do because my boyfriend got grounded and he says he's going to sneak out to see me but last time he did that he got caught and got grounded for even longer. I've been trying to talk him out of it but its not working. what things can i say to him to try to talk him out of it because if he gets caught then we won't be able to see eachother for even longer. (link)
tell him that if he comes over youur house then you guys will break up lmao kidden!! okay seriously i think you should lie 2 him.. saying that if he comes over then you'll get in huge trouble and you'll have 2 break up with him by parents orders.. i dunno something like that or be the boss and say if i dare see yourr ass on my property it's over bitch.. stay home youu ass ur gonna get grounded even more and then we won't be able 2 be with each other when ur off groundment haha! `♥//


I recently broke up with my boyfriend who is 16(I'm 14), because he didn't want a relationship and I did. All he wants is friends with bennefits. I told him I wasn't going to do that with him, and he said that was ok. He asked if we could hang out today, just hang out. so I said yeah, and I told myself that I wasn't going to do anything with him and then he came over, and the next thing I know, im straddling him (fully clothed) and making out with him. It got carried away and I ended up giving him a hand job. He thinks it was just friends with bennefits and I'm a piece of ass. I don't want that, and I want to know if I should just cut off all relations with him and stop talking to him, I dont need him as a friend. or a boyfriend. what do I do!? (link)
i'd ditch his ass in a second if i were youu.. he seems like a huge asshole so juss 4get about him `♥//


Does shaving your legs make your skin rough and make the hair grow darker? I've been using many other products like exfoliators that don't work, and my parents refuse to buy me a hair removal cream because of the excess of chemicals. I want to shave my legs, but I don't want the hair to be coarse and dark. Is this a myth? Should I shave? My hair is already really dark, because I have black hair... (link)
well it can make it rough but after shaving youu should apply skin lotion 2 make them softer. yeaah the hair will grow darker and longer.. but you have 2 keep shaving them. like at least shave once a week make it a routine. if you don't like shaving juss wear clothes that will cover it.. but i suggest you shave it. `♥//


whats a dildo? (link)
rubber penis


is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false? (link)
yeaah actually it's rele bad 4 youu i don't drink it. it's so acidy and has so much sugar that makes ur teeth yellow and uhh it juss sucks. i'm on a diet also and i recommend water not diet soda.. you'll loose more weight. maybe try flavored water.. you kno like propel or fruit20 it actually tastes good! `♥//


Does it bother anyone else when the members of this site give smartass answers, like "Well that sucks", "Your dumb", "I have no idea". This website keeps getting more and more of these users and personally it bugs me. Anyone else agree? (link)
lmao actually i find it rele hilarious!! but i ain't one of them.. `♥//


is there any way you can determine when you have your period when youve had it for a year? (link)
my advice is just get a calendar and the day it comes on just write "P" and the day it goes off just write "PO" meaning period off. then do that for a few months and you will know when it will come on (give or take a two days) and when you need to pack some pads or tampons!!


I'm 17/f and ive never had a bf. Everytime i like some guy, and he ends up liking me back..I get really uncomfortable and scared away. I dont do it on purpose, it just happens everytime. What could be the reason Im subconciously doing this? (link)
i think the answer it that you think to much about having a bf that you scare yourself. what i mean is you may not like to take risks or you just dont know what to do when you get a bf. thats how i am. i dont like taking risks and i get nervious when a gut like me cuz i dont know what to do if a boy asked me out. so thats your problem you just dont know what to do in a relationship.




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