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im 13 i have never kissed n i dont no what to do!
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okay calm down -believe me when i say IT COMES NATURALLY. honestly, that is the best advice i can give. just follow his lead. since you are a beginner, let him come to you. kiss him with your lips SLIGHTLY apart, and if he starts to use tongue then just go with the flow!
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ha my first kiss was with a guy named tyler back in the dayy like 5th grade ha memories.. i dunno my first real kiss i felt rele nervous i told him that i didn't have as much experiance at kissing and he said it's okay and he understands.... juss talk 2 him b4 youu do it say that your scared and you don't kno what 2 do that's what i did and he taught me and it was awesome! or you could always juss kiss em and then say i'm not very good at this sorta thing.. i dunno i can't rele remember that far backk `♥//
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the right moment will come to you gurl.. its fine and normal. do you have a boyfriend?? ♥HAiLEY
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Don't worry about it. I got my first and only kiss at 16 (I'm 17 now, and this is so pathetic, I had to tell him to do it. Gaah!) When it happens you just go with it, don't worry you'll know what to do. If you mess up it's no big deal because you get better with practice.
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A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The first thing to do when kissing is RELAX. Think about nothing at all but the kiss you're giving. Start with lips either just slightly parted or closed. No tongue! Relax your lips, but don't let them mush up. Allow yourself to feel like you are completely confident in what you are doing. It makes the world of difference. Kiss like there is nothing you would like to do than be right there with your love kissing them. Just be comfortable, and the faith of your kiss is really up to you & your love.
good luck & hope i helped!
xo0x- Kata
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If it's what you really want and if the opportunity comes the way that you always imagined your first kiss to be, you could bring this about too if you want to, then you should do it. Just consider the fact that this is very meaningful although it may seem as " a kiss" of no significance to others at all. Try to hold fast to what you have always imagined what your first kiss would be like. Then of course, when the opportunitu comes by, at the right time, then definitely go for it. At the right time for you and when you are comfortable. Comfortability matters. Especially with the guy that you want to share this significant moment with. Take with a lot care when it comes to this and be sensible. Don't do foolish things that you will regret.
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This isn't a big deal. why do anything?? But if this helps you feel betteR: I have many fRiends who aRe 20 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't eveR had a Relationship befoRe!!!! Honestly, theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because some of youR fRiends might have done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You'Re only 13, Hun - you have PLENTY of time still. TRuthfull, it's NOT as big of a deal as you might assume. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. It's just a good ice bReakeR, you see? And even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship at the moment, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too.
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