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boifriend troubles sorta
i don't know what to do because my boyfriend got grounded and he says he's going to sneak out to see me but last time he did that he got caught and got grounded for even longer. I've been trying to talk him out of it but its not working. what things can i say to him to try to talk him out of it because if he gets caught then we won't be able to see eachother for even longer.
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Explain to him he got caught before and it's going to happen again. Tell him it's better not to take chances. You could also say if he really does love you he'll respect your opinion and his parents. Tell him if he gets grounded it'll just make it worse and you can't bear not seeing him for even longer and you can't bear seeing him in trouble. If you disobey your parents it'll just make it worse and you'll dig yourself into a bigger hole. It's easier to just wait it out and then be completely out of trouble. Explain that to him. Sorry if nothing works...I guess it's his fault he's so in love with you and won't listen to anyone (even you!) lol. Good luck!
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Well da first thing is do you love him because obivously if hes sneakin out for you he more dan likes you. Next thing if he does you simply tell him baby if youlove me as i love den you wont make dat decision because i dont want you in gettin caught and get punished even longer. imma still call you. please just wait... blah blah blah.. if u dont love him you simply say baby i can wait on you im always here even wen your off punishment. He should feel like you really care and you dont want anything to happen.
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Say to your boyfriend, Listen I'm happy that you want to see me but you've got to use your head. The more you sneak out the longer you will stay grounded. Say i need you to stay in Do it for Me Do it for our relationship. I hope that will make him think about sneaking out. Hope i could have been a help. Tell me how it goes and Send me any advice you need.
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Hey,
Alright well this is what i would tell him:
"I understand that you want to see me. i want to see you too but we're going to have to hold off on that. you know your gonna get caught if you try to come and see me so why bother. you'll just get grounded longer and we will have more of a wait until we can see eachother again."
Ok well i hope it helps.
**mucho love**
kayla xo
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You could try to persuade him with the facts about what happened the last time when he tried to sneak out of the house and got caught. Tell him how you felt then and how you feel now and give him sensible things to think about. Try to use things that appeal to him such as sports or some other thing that interests him . You could use his interest to say something like," if you get caught, it'll be longer for you to sports." Or whatever he is interested in. What you should focus on is the fact that you have and should respect his decision to do whatever he choses to do when it comes to this. You may not LIKE his decision, but if you want the relationship to be steady and stable, try to understand it and him. This doesn't always mean to submit to his will, it justs means that some support would do the both of you some good in this position.
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Tell him that you love him and you don't want him to get in trouble and if he really loves you he won't do it.I think that would work.
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tell him that if he comes over youur house then you guys will break up lmao kidden!! okay seriously i think you should lie 2 him.. saying that if he comes over then you'll get in huge trouble and you'll have 2 break up with him by parents orders.. i dunno something like that or be the boss and say if i dare see yourr ass on my property it's over bitch.. stay home youu ass ur gonna get grounded even more and then we won't be able 2 be with each other when ur off groundment haha! `♥//
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lol, the first answer to this question made me laugh. great idea. but MY advice is.. that you should tell him what you said right here "if he gets caught, he wont be able to see you for even longer" && that you wont go along with it, because you dont want him to get caught. if that doesnt work, say your busy anyway, && for him to call when hes not grounded anymore. && dont see him till then! =) hope i helped!
♥ nicole
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Tell him that you're not even going to be home, you'll be at your aunt's house out of state, so it's totally useless for him to sneak out anyway and he should stay home and watch a movie with his family.
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