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last summer i met this guy..he came to missouri(which is where i live) cause he was visiting his grandma! well we met and had a blast together and i really liked him..only downside was he lives all the way in washington! well ever since we've met we have talked all the time on the phone and internet and hes been saying for quite a long time that he loves me and wants to be with me..i also feel the same way..i just dont know because he lives all the way in washington so we wouldnt really see eachother all that much! he said that him and his friend are coming down here this summer for a week to a week and a half and he wants to spend the whole time with me so im pretty excited about that! and hes talked about after he graduates and goes to college for 2 years coming here and living here so we can be together..he always says he feels like we are suppose to be together and i feel the same way i just dunno what to do! please help! sorry this is kinda long!
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heyyyyyyyy wow well first off congratulations!! not everyone is so lucky to find a person that they feel that they are ment to be with thast just fantastic! hmm well its a drag that he live in washington and you in missouri!!! wellts good taht you talk online and on the phone but i know that it would be hard to keep a relationship!!! if he's coming down this summer though and possibly moving out here theres a great chance that you could be seeing eachother enough! i mean i beleive that if you love him than you should be with him! people travel and people go into the army being married and things like that and they make it cause of their love! just remember you gotta do what you gotta do and therse all that is to it! i say go for the relationship even if your 1000 miles away! hope it all goes well! x0x0x
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How old are you? I have a friend in MD with a BF in Alabama (they aren't exclusive meaning she does see other people and so does he) but they only see each other once a year. they are both 20 though, you may not be old enough to handle a long distant relationship. sorry. and no matter what you think, you will get over this one guy. but if you really feel like that MAKE IT WORK DAMN IT. don't ask us for help. take it into your own hands. get ur parents to meet his family so they know.trust each other. have it so you can visit every few months and have your parents in on it and plan it so your not like running away. if you cant introduce him to your parents-mebbe he isn't a great guy/ trust me. i found a "great" guy... but my parents hated him n wouldnt let me see him. turns out he was a reaaaal jerk. if he's graduating college... how old are you? honey. 5 years isn't a bad difference, when you 23 and hes 28/ but if your like 16... i think you should let it go.
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its okay its long i love giving advice.. okay well what you should do is try and spend all the time youu can with him.. and try and make the relationship happen.. or youu could always put ur relationship on hold until he does move out here when he graduates.. get every chance youu can with him hon. so goodluck `♥//
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Look inside your heart, what does it tell you to do? If you both feel you should be together and you both love each other then go for it.
Wish you the best of luck and hope I helped
twistedteen25
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Well..If you two truly loved each other, then being so far away shouldn't matter. And if you are patient enough, the two years he has in college will fly by and you two will be together before you know it. And if he does come to visit you for a week or week and a half, just enjoy the time you spend with him then. Also, if it is possible, perhaps call him or e-mail him when he is away.
Good luck to you two!
I hope this helped XD
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Well, I'm glad that you've found somebody you caRe so much foR, but I don't see youR EXACT question heRe. ARe you asking if you should date him?? Well, not befoRe you see him this summeR, in my opinion. Will you even be able to see him often?? Long distance Relationships aRe indeed veRy tough, but 110% possible if BOTH paRtneRs aRe willing to give it eveRything they aRe to keep it togetheR.. I've always fiRmly believed that if something is meant to be.. it WILL be; in due time.. it WILL be... ♥
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