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Who dies in the 6th Harry Potter book. Don't lie, please just tell me. (link)
Sadly Dumbledore Believe me i have read the book.




~*~SAYLOR~*~


theres this guy troy. i really like him and he likes me i think. we hung out today and he took me out to lunch and i donno we get along really good. and we were totally flirting. the only problem is..its my best friends ex boyfriend. their still friends a little..but she broke up with him...its notl ike he broke her heart...she treated him like shit. she doesnt know how lucky she was to have to boy like that! he drove to see her all the time, doesnt cheat, always called, and never canceled on her. hes soo hott too.and he met my mom today. and she likes him to. and were hanging out friday...and when he walked me back to my door today he gave me like the longest hug EVER...but hes my friends ex!! err idk what to do..help?

ps..when they broke up i told her shes going to regret it cause hes such a great guy...and she was like then you can have him..but she said it sarcastically...omgg i dont know.. :( (link)
ask your friend if its okay with her, and if she says it is, then you know what to do, but she says she will have a problem with it, ask her why and tell her how u feel about him and that you really like him, also talk to him, and tell him what the situation is, if he really loves you he will wait till ur friend really gets over him.


wat do you do, wen a friend tells you she cant talk 2 you about certain things anymore, and rather call someone else? we are like sisters, tell each other everything, and i mean everything, and the reason i smile is b/c she makes it happen b/c she helps me so much. please help!
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you have to talk to her and find out why she wants to go to someone else, this is probably the only way you will ever find out the true and real reason. hope i helpd ~*~Lucee~*~ plz rate me :)


okay my ex boyfriend (my first love) broke up with me about a month ago! supposably he doesnt like me any more. But every time i dont see him for about a day or two he is always flirting with me like grabbing my butt, asking me to sit on his lap, hugging me, and/or cuddling with me. Every one says to give him time he likes you he just wants to see if your the one so let him date other people and he WILL come back to you. i dont know if he is trying to get me back by this or what he tells everyone that he dont like me but everyone tells me that by the way he acts around me and the way he gives me special treatment! i dont know please help me (link)
i think that perhaps he is playing a little game to see how you react with him (seeing if you still like him) you should talk to him and find out the truth, if you really loved each other then talking cant really be that hard, and you will probably settle a lot of things that are going round in your head at the moment. hope i helped ~*~Lucee~*~ plz rate me :)


Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been into it last night and pretty much all of today. The thing is, I think I really get jealous too easy when he talks to other girls. Heres the thing. It may be long, but I need help. Alright he kinda cheated (what I consider cheating) on me with some girl at his church and I asked him last night if he had talked to her since we had gotten into it about that. He said that last SUnday she asked him a question in front of the sunday school class, and he didnt want to seem like an asshole to everyone, so he just answered her and carried on a conversation. The thing is, I just wanna know if I have a reason to be mad about that. Part of me just wants to think he was just being nice, but then again, why wouldnt he just ignore her or say "why do you care?" I really need help... and I rate 5s! Thanx (link)
well i think that he was just being friendly, im kinda like you in the fact that i get jealous too easily. i have managed to 'chill out' a bit more now tho lol. but yeah i dont think that you really have anything to worry about. perhaps you should talk to him again and just tell him how you feel about it all. hope i was kinda helpful
~*~Lucee~*~ plz rate me :)


I'm always looking around the house for candy, and chips and all that unhealthy stuff...so how do i stop myself from wanting it??? (link)
if you drink plenty of water you will generally find that you dont feel hungry and you will stay away from the sweets etc. another tip is to keep yourself active - if you do this you wont have time to even think about eating something unhealthy, there are a lot of people that just eat when they have nothing to do or are just plain bored. it could also be that you are tired and you need more sleep, your body will want sugar to keep you awake and active. hope i was some help
~*~Lucee~*~ plz rate :)


hey all i joined a site called myspace and im confused about how to instant message my friends on myspace it would be helpful if whoever answers this question has a myspace of there own that way they could tell me exactly what to do with out telling me the wrong thing.
i will rate 5's for reasonable answers (link)
Ok on the person you want to instant message's profile page go to under the picture and name and junk and where theres like 8 boxes which say add to friends,send message,forword to friend...etc go to instant message, but you and the person you want to instant message ahs toi be ONLINE on MYSPACE...then click it and wait for her to accept...hope i help


I really need to lose 20 lbs fast if anyone can tell me some ways please i will appreciate it
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first dont go anorexic it aint awesome nor fun and dont go bulimic you will get fatter in the end...you gotta watch everything you eat....eat healthy junk (oxymoron hehe)and you can exersise too...


Hey.............my older sister is having a baby but she doesn't kno yet if it's a boy or girl and she needs some cute names!! (Don't worry she's married and like 29 years old!!) Thanx!! (link)
i like these names and i hope they help. prease rate if u like them!

GIRL BOY
angel billy
dianna gabriel
brianna derick
joyce john
Zeanna jomar
lyndia kevin
lynn tevin
kathy will
priscilla jerry
jennifer doc
shondra brad
billy ann sean (shon)
denise danny
carol eric
roxie jack
roxan conner


how everyones mean to me and i rate them 5 because i think its funny when there mad lol!!! like.. people who said im ugly. i didnt mean it like im think im pretty i was being carcastic.

FREE 5S! (link)
thank you sugga.you rock!thanks for the free five! :-P


OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx (link)
most guys like big boobs. and you must remember that every girl is different. if you are really consious of the size you should like you are doing already stay away from padded bras because they only add to the size and make them look even bigger. your body doesnt stop developing or changing till you are about 18 and your breasts may stop growing sooner rather than later. but dont worry about it because whilst your body is changing your breast size may actually get smaller. hope i was some kinda help
~*~Lucee~*~ plz rate me :)


I have a problem with spots, mainly on my chin, nose and forehead (T-zone?).
I also have large pores + blackheads on those areas.
Anything anyone can recommend to help with the problem? (link)
use clearsil blackhead face wash. this works for me, plus if you buy some tcp (its an anticeptic - soz bout spelling lol) dab this over your spots once every 4 hours or so and it clears up spots really fast. if your face is really bad then perhaps you could go to the doctors and they might be able to recommend something for you type of skin. if you find that face washes etc dont work there is a new herbal tablet out that helps fight spots-you can buy this at local chemists and places like boots or superdrug. hope i helped
~*~lucee~*~ plz rate :)


Ok well i went over to my friends house the other day and we smoked a cigerrette. It was my first time ever b/c i was to scared to do it before. But at first i took a rele small breath and rele didn't taste anything, and then after i got use to it i took bigger breaths. I kno usually when sum1 first trys a cigerette they cough, feel dizzy, or wanna throw up. But when i first tried it i rele liked it and wanted more. So my friends lit another and i helped smoked that and i still wanted another one..but thats was ebough. So now it's the next day and i wanans moke again. im rele scared bc/ i wanna do it again rele rele bad but i don't wanna get addicted or get lung cancer. What should I do.. please help? cna't i smoke for like a couple more weeks then stop..i mean i'm a teen and wanna hav fun and not always be good. thanks (link)
all im going to say is that you can definatly have fun without smoking. it makes your teeth yellow your hands stink gives you so many different diseases etc and illnesses. i would strongly sugest that you stop. it is very addictive and you may say that you will stop in a few weeks but it will become a lot harder for you to give up at that point so you should give up now whilst you arent quite as addicted. plus you will find that boys wont be quite as egar 2 kiss you because of the nasty taste and smell. hope i was helpful in some kinda way
~*~Lucee~*~


Im 16 yrs old and starting shaving my pubic hair at 13yrs old. And for some reason it gets all pricky and when I shave the pricky lil hairs off I start to bleed. Anyone have any ideas on what I should do? (link)
firstly dont shave quite so often, let the soreness settle. once all the redness has gone try using a different shaving cream/gel etc. you can get some for sensitive skin this should help you. eitha that or you can get some hair removal creams these work just as good and last longer as well. hope i was some help
~*~Lucee~*~

ps, some removal creams are suitable. just make sure that you get one that is ok to use! make sure you do read the 'fine print' and you will generally see that some creams are very safe to use. xXx


O.K. I am 13/f and my mom hooked me up with this REALLY hot 16 year old guy named Wesley about 2 weeks before my birthday. We met while my mom's employee brought him to the store that my mom works at. About 2 days later, we were going to a restaurant and we found out that coincidentally, they were headed to the same place. So we ended up eating TOGETHER! Me and Wesley talked about EVERYTHING. I like him and I could TELL he liked me. Well, the day of my birthday, someone planned a barbeque thing for cancer and Wesley came. He told me happy birthday and stuff. Well, after the barbeque thing, we went to the movies. I invited 9 people but barely ANYBODY came except my best friend Becka, and of course Wesley came too. Well, before the movie, I was throwing popcorn in his mouth and he was throwing it in my mouth and it was the FUNNEST time. We were seeing the "Ring 2". When the movie started, we were being really loud and having a REALLY great time. We ended up holding hands. He put his arm around me in the car but what bothered me the most was that he was ALSO putting his arm around Becka, my best friend. I was too bothered but I scooted closer to him so he would know that I like him more than she does. He held my hand until we got to his house. When we got there, we got out and went in and took a look around. Then, we went outside and Wesley picked up Becka and ran around with her. He did the same to me.

A month ago my mom found out something about him that really made me upset. She found out that he had sex with a 47 year old woman. She was really fat and short, too.



I cried because I thought he really liked me. Hoe can I get over him? I miss him but I hate him. I hate him but I love him because he did that to me! Please help!

I'm depressed! What can I do? (link)
i can understand how you feel, but i think you should deffo forget him, he seems like a waste of time and that he is only interested in one thing... your still very young and you have years to fall in love and meet 'the one'. so i would just enjoy your childhood rather than getting involved with boys etc, especialy ones that treat you like that. hope i was some help
~*~lucee~*~


At camp there was this kid that really liked. He was so sweet and everything. Then, he started hangin out with these really slutty people and he turned into a pimp. He was even grinding with girls. He's only 12! Despite everything I still liked him. Because of the people he hung out with I was scared to tell him I liked him. On the last day of camp I said goodbye and I was instantly depressed. He was the perfect guy!! Any tips for now or when I go back to camp next year. SHould I just pick up from where we left off?? (link)
if you do both go back next year you may find that he has changed in many ways. he may have matured a bit more and could be really nice to hang around with, but on the other hand he could still be the same (pimp) as he was when you left. if/when you see him next time and if you still have the same feelings for him then go and talk to him and see how it goes, because you never know he might actually like you. hope i helped
~*~Lucee~*~ plz rate :)


i have the thickest hair in the world- and it's extremely dry, and it's all one length, and it reaches to the middle of my back, i wanna get it cut really bad- nothing too short- but i dont know what yet. any suggestions? also- i dont know what to do about my hair being so dry. ive tried all kinds of moisturizing this and that- but nothing seems to work. PLEASE HELP! (link)
if you want to make your hair thinner you should have it layered, my hair was long and thick and i have recently had it layered and i can really tell the difference. it is a lot easier to handle and you will also find that your hair doesnt dry out quite as much as it used to. if it still happens there is a nice dove shampoo that is very good for dry and brittle hair.
hope i could help
~*~Lucee~*~


I have a friend who is a cutter. She has been for as long as I can remember. Lately, we have become best friends and I felt like cutting, too. Not because I have a bad home life or because I have stress in my life or anything like that because I don't, but I think it's because I am best friends with her now. I did cut my legs up pretty bad just 2 weeks ago, but then I never did it again and now they are healed. I keep getting the urges to cut, and then I tell myself not to. But I still can't help but feel so influenced by her to cut myself. A long time ago I used to cut because I liked it, but that didn't last long and wasn't as obsessed with it as I am now. I love this girl with all my heart. She really is a GREAT friend that I had since pre-school, but I need help with trying to stop thinking about the whole idea of cutting all together. I must admitt that I did REALLY like it, but I know that it is unhealthy. But I STILL get those urges and they keep getting bigger and bigger .. HELP !* signed., helpless soul (link)
I know this aint that good advice but you dont have to cut because your best friend does...Its pointless for you to because you said your not depressed,your life is pretty good, i know you probably wouldnt like it but you should see a shrink (i call them shrinks you may call them something differant) they sometimes can help if you get a good one


i have this friend tht i have known for years and she always seems to beat me at everything music grades, instrumentsand she is better at everything than me such as sports (netball) snd she thinks tht ts a competition. should i dump her as a friend or tell her how i feel? (link)
well i think you should tell her how you feel.if she is a real friend then she should take it seriously and understand thant your life isnt a competion.
i hope i helped!
goodluck and tell me how it goes.
~*Brandi*~


get ready for a long one..please help!

ok well one day i met this girl online, jackie, she seemed cool..over time we became best friends and called eachother all the time and stuff, gave eachother b-day presents in the mail (( by the way i live in fl and she lives in Ny )) and yah well one day i scammed her favorite sn and jackie didnt know it was me..yes she has a verry good reason to dislike me!!.. so0o its been about a year and i told her..she hated me for a while, but we soon became friends. now on the othher hand, jackie has a friend named paige and she is always trying to break me and jackie up..well she finally did, paige hacked all of jackies sns and then changed the password to caroline,((that was the pw of the sn i scammed)), and made it look all like i did it but i didnt and jackie doesnt belive me, now shes leaving me nasty messages and mean calls on my phone and i didnt hack it i tryed to explain that to jackie, but i want my best friend back, please help me!! will rate HIGH
luv, x3 hannah
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well its hard because she lives for away from you an this is a tought situation but ... if you are really best friends tell her this .. what happen we were best friends an in that is trust.. your my best friend i have lost because you dont trust me on this situatioin.../ best friends trust each other.. i got mad at my friend because i thought she told the biggest secert n my life an i found out it was my other friend .. an i felt so horrible.. she yelled at me she had a right .. but ...she sayed some hurtful things that i didnt need ti hear.. but we made up .. but if yall were best friends ... yall will be friends again .. because best friends are true to each other they care ...they will be there till the end
=] i hope i helped ... let me know how it goes!




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