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wat do you do, wen a friend tells you she cant talk 2 you about certain things anymore, and rather call someone else? we are like sisters, tell each other everything, and i mean everything, and the reason i smile is b/c she makes it happen b/c she helps me so much. please help!
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Hey, well I dont really think that she thinks you guys are like sisters?! so maybe you need to find out why she said that?!?!
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I have like 6 best friends, and they are all wonderful. But, I don't tell all of them everything. Not because I don't want to, but because I feel like someone else understand where I'm coming from better and can help me more. She probably thinks of you as a sister too, but doesnt' think you are the right person for the problem and that's okay. Talk to her about. That's good that she helps you. Don't take it offensively, she will probably tell you what's up eventually. But, if it bothers you that she isnt' talking to you about stuff, talk to her about it. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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have a long talk with her asking her wuts up with that and stuff..talk to her in person
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It seems to me that either she doesn't trust you on these issues or she's simply embarassed to talk to you about them. Also, she may feel that you don't have experience with the issue and is needing someone that does.
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you have to talk to her and find out why she wants to go to someone else, this is probably the only way you will ever find out the true and real reason. hope i helpd ~*~Lucee~*~ plz rate me :)
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owch..that would sting me hard if i was in your place. well what you can do is to ask her WHY and tell her everything you told us. Maybe if you open up to her about something like a latest crush or some secret..she will feel more comfortable. if no matter what you say or do doesnt help the situation, you have to accept the fact that shes being weird and things are changing. Ive had things like that happen with friends and its definately not an easy thing to deal with..but as long as you dont just sit there and do nothing..you have no reason to be mad at yourself.
i hope what i saidd helped
-melisssa-
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