|
i met a girl who i started to become friends with and then i found out that i really hate her because she treated me like crap...then one of my best friends started becoming good friends with her but the person started treating her a lot nicer because my good friend is really popular at our school [we all go to the same school] part of the reason why i think my good friend is friends with her is because her parents are divorced so she has trouble geting places [movies,mall,etc] and the person's mom would drive them anywhere
so my good friend asked me one day if i liked the person and i said no and shes like why and i said because she treats me like crap
so then one day online the person asked me do you talk behind my back and i'm like no then shes like if you do and tell me i wont get mad so i said do u talk behind mine she said no
a day later...i was getting a bit angry with my good friend for another thing so i went on her screen name and read her mail one message was from the girl and she said that i am such a liar then a day later i checked it again and it said that my good friend wrote back saying i no shes such a liar...i'm tempted to change my friends password so she cant get back online..wut should i do about everything else though? will rate high
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Wow, complicated. I wouldn't change her password because legally i doubt that's right. But i would say for you to just stay away from both of them for a couple of days. Then sit them BOTH down and talk to them about what has been going on. Sounds like this didn't just start over night. If they dont want to talk about it, maybe start hanging around some other people,can't hurt. If your good friend is willing to talk about you behind your back, then she isn't being a good friend to you at all. You deserve better so make some better friends and go from there!!!
4Him, Disciple (plz rate me if i deserve it)
]
the changing her password is clever, I like it! If I were you I would see how two-faced my friend was. First I would ask her if she's talking about me behind my back. Then if she said no, I'd say the key to a good friendship is honesty and you just ripped the key out of the door of friendship, SO our friendship is over unless you and the other girl stop talking about me behind my back!
]
alright..ive learned that keeping feelings bottled up only leads to more anger..so if you let it all out, you will feel much better. Tell the friend who is being used that the girl is using her and everything..and tell the other girl your feelings on her..how your being treated like crap, etc. get it all out and out of your system..and then..mmooove on from the drama. find a new group of girls and hang with them..becase a drama free life is a happy life.
thats what i would do.
hope this helped?
-melissa-
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question
| Next Question >>>
|
|