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really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do

and now the person that i found out that she thinks there is something going on between me and him
i don't know what to do and she's always saying how they are moving to california after her degree.

help i am hurt, confused (link)
im sorry to hear that,

but your "so called friend" is not reall your friend if she has done that. Friends dont usually
stir up rumors like that. So get another friend and start a new friendship. But as far as the boy is concered tell him everything you told me, and how mean your "so called friend" is!

i hope it works, if not forget both of them!
---from hot-amerindian---


Does anyone have any cute DIY belt ideas? I'm wearing a white and blue shirt tomorrow if tht helps. THANKS SO MUCH! 5's (link)
Well you could take some long strips of fabric and twist them together, or you could braid them together. Or you could just take one thick strip and just tie it or whatever. If you have time and you feel like it you could also sew buttons where you would tie it. I think that would be cute.
I hope I helped.


this may seem silly but i may already no the answer to my question just need quildance. Im currently flirtin with a lad at work whos 4 years older and hes bit of a ladys man although i total fancy him i did some over time starting early where it was just me and him and having sex talk hes often tryed to get me in bed although im shy im not a virgin just a big girl and hes fit i dont wna have a one night stand and get everything told at work where my mum also works hes confessed to me that he often gets bored in realtionships and hes was open euff to tell a few younger girls about him breaking up with his ex . im been day dreaming about gettin him somewhere close and having him undo my shirt and feel my newly pieced nipples just as a bit of a tease i dont no what i wnt to happen plz help (link)
nah it's not silly at all hun! A problem is never silly unless you make it out to be!

Anyway, Right you mention he is a lady's man? bad sign #1 #2 he's four years older! and older lads are only after one thing.

He sounds to me as if he's seeing how far you'll let him go.. which is not good!

Sure if you like the gay play around a little I guess but make sure you are in control you are the player NOT the played! don't have sex unless you are ready oh and use protection... lady's men have been around alot you know....

any more help email me


Hey everyone.
I want a new screen name but I can't think of any. I want it to be the title of a song or something that has to do with a song. I wanted it to be BEAUTiFULxDiSASTER but it's too long.I also like American Eagle. Please help if you have any ideas. Thanks! (link)
Beautiful dizaster

AE disaster

pretty in AE

AE 4 ME 4 life

BEAUTiFUlDiSASTER

thats all i can pretty think of much now

ill add more when i think of more :)


ok i like this boy so much and so do like 5 other girls and he likes 3 of us so what can i do too get him too notice and like me more

Jo Ann (link)
you cant make a boy like you more.

if you have the same interest's talk about them.

it will have him have you maybe in the #1 spot because you have interest's of the same.

good luck!

♥ kiss me


OK. I'm 16 and I'm male. I made myself throw up twice about a week ago, and got a killer sore throat. Never doing that again.
Anyways, is it possible that my stomach shrunk because of it? Because I have found that less food is needed to make me full. I used to be able to eat 3 slices of pizza, but I'm getting full after 2, and today, I got full on 4 mozzarela sticks. Is my stomach shrinking, not allowing me to eat as much? Is there something I should know?
Thank You!

-PS: I am NOT throwing up ever again, it was an awful experiance. Please don't critisize it or anything, it is done and over with. (link)
its bad for you to make your self to throw up. try not to do it again.

your stomach jkust shunk for like about a week or 2 weeks becasue it took some stuff out that you needed and now its just porcessing it again


Ohkay, please no stupid answers. But one of my guy friends said that "there is nothing better than to hear a girl moan when ya finger her". does it come natural to moan or do you jus do it to make the guy happy? (link)
depends...if they are actually good at it then you moan but if they arent...well then you fake it...


What age is normal for girls to start masturbating or wanting to or getting horny? (link)
In my opinion it's when girls/boys start puberty which is anything from the age of 10-19 :)


ok so ive had sex quit a few times and with different people but ive never orgasmed!! ive been with my boyfriend a few months now and hes getting really upset that he cant make me orgasm! i dont know what to do. i would fake it but we promised each other we'd always be honast about everything and he can tell when im lying! so is there any way i can help myself to orgasm? is there anything i can do??
please help!!
any advice is wanted!!
i'll rate high!! (link)
If you have never had an orgasm, or want to experience stronger orgasms, here are a few suggestions to get you started:

1. let him explore your genitals get to know them better in different ways


2.Get turned on! Explore your erotic mind by reading sexy fiction, watching explicit movies or writing a fantasy of your own.


3.Experiment with different strokes or rhythms.

4.Relax. Overall relaxation helps in the beginning--you are looking to build up sexual tension, so set aside the tensions of daily life. Banish thoughts about the dishes in the sink or how your mutual funds tanked last year. Take a warm bath, or do whatever you need to do to feel completely at ease. This will help you be present in your body and attentive to its responses.


5.Make noise. Don't be afraid to move, rock, grunt, scream, and cry during sex. You are seeking total release, so get used to reactions you might have when you lose control. Be silly! Be loud! Let yourself go.


ok.. so there's this guy that i hang out w/ at school and stuff. i didn't think he liked me, but then he asked me out. he's the sweetest guy ever, and all my friends say i should go out w/ him... but i don't like him. i don't like anyone else, but i still think i should give him a chance, but i'm not sure. his ex is my good friend, and she really really wants me to say yes, and all my friends think i should 2. i mean it's really not that big of a deal, cause i'm only 13, but i just want to know what to say! thanks alot! i rate high! (link)
you say all your friends say you should date him? haha what do YOU want you never mentioned if you liked him? well if you do like him give it a go if you dont like him dont play him thats not fair just ummm let him down gently :)


Okay.. Some friends and I decided we wanted Tattoos. So we used a needle and Permanent Marker to do them. We scratched/poked the skin a few layers deep.. just enuff to make it almost bleed. Then put layers of marker over the design we carved into ourselves.


Will these Tattoos stay on .. and for how long will they be there? (link)
it's just marker so it'll wash off eventually, but you can get skin cancer from it, and you're gonna have a scar there for like the rest of your life...


one day i just woke up with this bump kinda thing on my lip. its sensitive and really annoying. today i think it popped or sumthing but idk wht to do about it. easy 5's for wht it is and how to get rid of it (link)
its probally a coldsore

go to a pharmacy and get coldsore cream or something. you it'll be gone in no time


my dog was 10 yrs old n he died yesterday n i cant stop crying wut do i do to get over this? he ment so much to me! we were bffs (link)
aww im sooooo sorry!

when i lost my pet cockatiel, i bought him myself, i raised him my self. ofcourse, when he died of low-sugar- level i couldnt stop crying for days. i was really depressed and became emo. he was my life to me.

we were learning about birds- in school a few years ago, i was about in 5th grade. and then we turned into a page about cockatiels, and i bursted out crying because we had to make a book on our pet(s) and i had to explain what happened to him. it was very upsetting and everyone was upset because he was friendw with all of my friends. we kinda had a little coffin for him. but anyways.

just think about how much you loved your dog and how much he loved you. its okay to cry, its perfectally normal.

atleast you have a human best friends. its not like you are alone.

dont buy a new pet right away buy one when the time is right (about a couple of months-years)and also dont fine one that you think will fill youyr dogs part of your heart. no dog will ever be the same.

good luck and sorry

♥ kiss me


ok i asked this really beautiful girl. and well i asked her out on a date to the movies. but the problem is that well she is going to be the first date i went on with a girl. also its her first date too with a girl. and i wanna know how i cant stop my self from being so nervus and what can i do to make sure i dont screw up this date i really like this girl and i mean alot!

p.s. 14/f and my name is joanne (link)
are you gay?.. lol k w/e. well she's probably as nervous as you are, and the same things that you're thinking right now are probly going through her head at the same time. just be yourself, but don't push it and try too hard. don't worry, you'll be fine!


My ex boyfriend was cheating on me, so I kind of exposed the truth about him cheating on me to all my friends and now hes really mad at me. I feel bad that I dumped him and exposed his "secret" because the truth is, i still like him. But don't you think i have the right to be mad at him? Because he cheated on me, lied to me, called other girls behind my back, and blew me off in the hall last friday....

I'm so confused. Should I call him? (link)
yah you had the right to dump him and tell everyone about it, because it's his fault that he cheated on you. if he still loves you too, then tell him that you still love him, but you're also still a little mad about him cheating on you. just give him one more chance, but if he cheats on you agian, then it's not worth it, because he'll obviously cheat on you the next time. so just tell him that you'll give him one chance, but if he cheats on you again, it's over.
~good luck!~


hi.
i dont really know you but i need to ask someone for advice.
im considering suicide.. ive been thinking about it for a long time. i have no true friends and i always feel out of place.. i also can never keep a relationship.
should i just end it.
(link)
No, you should not anyone could live life with no friends. example...my brother, he has really no true friends hes doing fine.

dont commit suicide,life will go on its easy.

love


I'm 15 (almost 16) and female.

A certain *someone* constantly complains about my naps. I take naps because I get tired.

In the past I used to sleep extremely late (we're talking about from 2-4 AM or later) during school nights. However, I would also get half of my other sleep during the day when I got home from school, since at night I was busy with homework. I couldn't resist taking a nap once I got home from school because I'd be way too tired to concentrate on homework anyway if I didn't nap.

This is probably a question for high schoolers and up, because those with a large homework load will understand why my sleeping schedule is this way.

Now back to what I first said. According to that *someone* naps are horrible and it's totally killing my health. Okay, I understand if I don't get enough sleep it is really bad for me. But I do get enough sleep. Not to mention I don't sleep that late anymore, I try to sleep as early as I can (latest is 1 AM so far because of homework).

What I want to know is, are naps really that horrible? If you don't get enough sleep will your health be really bad? If you sleep enough, but part of your sleep is at night and part of it is in the afternoon is that bad in anyway? What advice would you give me in order to help me sleep earlier? I understand that *someone* cares about me a LOT, but it gets really annoying to always be nagged about when honestly I already am trying my best to get a normal sleeping schedule and it is really hard to NOT take naps.

Thanks a lot! (link)
yeah

you should be going to bed earlyer.

or you might have limes desiese that maked you really tiared.

i had that

its a tick thats too small to see on you thats sucking up all of your eneergie

so try going to bed around 1130 or so

and wake up like 20 mins befor school sstarts

was your face &&/or take a shower

it should help alot

use a cream softener on your face you lift it up and it helps me wake up

drink coffee/tea/hot cocolate for breakfast
or stnad by the shower and put the water all the way on hot and let the steam get to you


ok so theres this guy and i really like him. hes in most of my classes. i want him to ask me out really bad! and i think he likes me. . .what do you think?:
-he makes fun of my name but just kidding
-he sticks up for me
-he always calls my name but then says stupid stuff, or pretends it wasnt him
-he always talks to me
-he flirts with me a lot but he flirts with other people to, but i think he gives me special attention that way ;)

does he like me? how much time should i give him to ask me out bee4 i give up/ask him out myself? (link)
im in the same situation,

personally i think the guy likes you

but thats my opinion

give him more time and see if it keeps

up and if it happen for a while go fur it!


Heyy .. well i'm kinda new at my school & there is this kid in my history class that sits by me & he always teases me but you can tell that he's just joking around & he always makes sure that he's looking me right in the eye & then he smiles at me.

His locker is right above mine & usually he doesn't talk to me but today after school he was like "come on hurry uppp get your stuff" & he was like kicking my shoes but you could tell he was just kidding. So I was wondering if you think he was just being friendly or if he might actually like me. Thanks for your help & I'll rate high! :)

(link)
he probally likes you!

i have the same thing
going on with me tooo!

but he was just telling
me to run run run so tht

i would win a race lol thn
staring at me during class

just like you! good luck


I really liked my boyfriend, but I just started school and everything, and I kind of want to see whats out there. I really don't want to dump my boyfriend, but I still wanna like fish around I guess. Its a new school year and I want to make the best of it. I am not really sure what to do. I don't mean to sound like I am using my boyfriend or anything. If you could help it would be appreciated. Thanks a ton, (link)
you should keep your boyfriend, and when you find someone, well when you 2 break up, you can go after that guy. heyy who knows what can happen?

but how would you feel if u were the guy, being dumped to meet new people?! iomagin that being your best friend, or your mom or dad. your mom or dad trying to find a new child!




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