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this may seem silly but i may already no the answer to my question just need quildance. Im currently flirtin with a lad at work whos 4 years older and hes bit of a ladys man although i total fancy him i did some over time starting early where it was just me and him and having sex talk hes often tryed to get me in bed although im shy im not a virgin just a big girl and hes fit i dont wna have a one night stand and get everything told at work where my mum also works hes confessed to me that he often gets bored in realtionships and hes was open euff to tell a few younger girls about him breaking up with his ex . im been day dreaming about gettin him somewhere close and having him undo my shirt and feel my newly pieced nipples just as a bit of a tease i dont no what i wnt to happen plz help
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nah it's not silly at all hun! A problem is never silly unless you make it out to be!
Anyway, Right you mention he is a lady's man? bad sign #1 #2 he's four years older! and older lads are only after one thing.
He sounds to me as if he's seeing how far you'll let him go.. which is not good!
Sure if you like the gay play around a little I guess but make sure you are in control you are the player NOT the played! don't have sex unless you are ready oh and use protection... lady's men have been around alot you know....
any more help email me <3
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Oh blimey! Yes, I think you already do know the answer. Don't do it! Unless , of course, you really are only after a bit of casual sex (and there's nothing wrong with that). But you say that you "don't know what you want to happen. Very dangerous with casual sex, as it suggests that the pure high, the body rush, isn't quite all that you're after.
If you could catch yourself dreaming about any kind of future with this man you could be in trouble. I got caught that way with my last date, who while not quite as blatantly irresponsible and sex focused as yours, was still fairly wild. It becomes more difficult not to pin your hopes on someone, however unsuitable, after you've slept with them. The physical sharing of sex fools our bodies into thinking we've poroperly bonded with someone, and our bodies, in their turn, fool our minds and hearts. Just nature's little trick to continue the species. Keep this man as a fantasy and wait for someone better who really likes YOU and doesn't just want to score.
The best of luck and feel free to consult me again! Lucretia xx.
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