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first date
ok i asked this really beautiful girl. and well i asked her out on a date to the movies. but the problem is that well she is going to be the first date i went on with a girl. also its her first date too with a girl. and i wanna know how i cant stop my self from being so nervus and what can i do to make sure i dont screw up this date i really like this girl and i mean alot!
p.s. 14/f and my name is joanne
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Just be yourself and relax. Try to think of it as just going to the movies with a friend; somtimes the label of "date" can bring extra pressure when there need not be any. If you're afraid of "screwing up the date" you probably will, out of nervousness. Do things to take your mind off of it, like conversing about things unrelated to romance. Just get to know her and there should be less tension.
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It's always hard doing something new but to make you feel better, think about it, it's new to this other girl and she's probably having the same thoughts as you.
There's no such thing as screw ups on a first date since none of you know what to expect but just hoping for the best. What i suggest to ease those nerves is think about how you want the date to go perfectly, think ahead about what you want to talk about and do. THat way you feel confident that you at least have a grip on what's going on.
On the date, be sure to let her know how you're feeling (excited), like any date compliment, and spend time after the movie to talk. After your date ends let her know how much fun you had with her and say something like "I can't believe i was so nervous about it this morning" and "wow, you're amazing". Anything else after that is totally up to you ;)
I hope your date goes well!
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are you gay?.. lol k w/e. well she's probably as nervous as you are, and the same things that you're thinking right now are probly going through her head at the same time. just be yourself, but don't push it and try too hard. don't worry, you'll be fine!
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Well just be yourself! Don't try to act all fake and smiley and gazing into her eyes. That never works. Don't force things either, just act like shes your friend and you're hanging out with a good friend. If you want to get close to her during the movie, don't rush things. Just maybe put your arm up on the same arm rest as her and she should get the idea. Good Luck!
~Johanna
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coming from a girl, i would be delighted if a guy asked me out on a date...trust me, you already passed the hardest part of the "date". i like a guy who is easygoing and knows how to make me laugh...be flirty and tell her that she looks nice...also make sure that you listen well to what she has to say...dont allow there to be a long silence cause that makes it occuard... just relax and have fun and you'll be fine!!
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Cool! You must be v. excited as well as nervous(which latter i understand-but that's just first dates , whether same or opposite sex). Have you, I wonder, been on a date before,with a boy. if so, then relax, cos girls are no different. It all comes down to personality, whether two people click or gel or whatever other horrid cliche comes to mind.
Just have as good a time as you can together and don't beat yourself up if it doesn't go great at first. Just give yourself, and her, all the time you need and take it from there.lol lucretiax.
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just be urselfs and try not to make urself look stupid. You said that its both of yours first date so theres nothing to worry about becouse i bet shes going to be nerveous as well.
being urself is the key, try to hug her in the theatre or something, be creative
hope i helped
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