ok.. so there's this guy that i hang out w/ at school and stuff. i didn't think he liked me, but then he asked me out. he's the sweetest guy ever, and all my friends say i should go out w/ him... but i don't like him. i don't like anyone else, but i still think i should give him a chance, but i'm not sure. his ex is my good friend, and she really really wants me to say yes, and all my friends think i should 2. i mean it's really not that big of a deal, cause i'm only 13, but i just want to know what to say! thanks alot! i rate high!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MiZzY answered Sunday September 11 2005, 10:38 am: It's what you want not what your friends want.
If you like this guy then yea by all means go out with him. There's no point wasting your time on someone who you don't even like. It's best to tell him straight how you feel or he will start to believe that you really do like him and it will get into a mess!! But if you really want to make things work out with him then go for it!
You can either tell him:
That you just want to be friends and nothing more and or you can give him a chance and get to know him and find that you have lots in common with him..
soccergurlie1220 answered Sunday September 11 2005, 10:11 am: I think you should say yes! It's not going to hurt you. You and him go to movies all the time talk bout stuff! Give eacher other presents lol I really think you should say yes and not break his heart! Hope i Helped [ soccergurlie1220's advice column | Ask soccergurlie1220 A Question ]
laura0141 answered Sunday September 11 2005, 9:51 am: If you don't want to go out with him (for whatever reason) then don't. I know it's hard when your friends all think you should but don't go out with him just to make them happy.
oxshortstufffxo answered Sunday September 11 2005, 9:47 am: tell him you just wanna be friends for now and get to know him. if hes as great as your friends say, you'll probably start liking him:-) if you go out with him now it might be a little awkward ya know??
good luck! -Andrea- [ oxshortstufffxo's advice column | Ask oxshortstufffxo A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday September 11 2005, 9:17 am: you say all your friends say you should date him? haha what do YOU want you never mentioned if you liked him? well if you do like him give it a go if you dont like him dont play him thats not fair just ummm let him down gently :) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
CApeach93 answered Sunday September 11 2005, 8:36 am: ok here i go! give the guy a chance. maybe you will find something about him that you haven't found out before. he might be a really good guy on the inside once you get to know him. give one good solid chance. it will work [ CApeach93's advice column | Ask CApeach93 A Question ]
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