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do i tell her?
okay i'm 13/f and i think i really like this guy.. he's like the sweetest person ever, and he's always flirting with me. i've hung out w/ him out of school a few times, and i have a great time, and i just can't stop thinking about him. the thing is that my BEST FRIEND is in love with him and i know he likes me more than he likes her. she's always like "why doesn't he like me?" and i feel bad for her and stuff, and i want to hook them up, but he really only thinks of her as a friend. i tell her that he's stupid not to like a great girl like her, but it's hard b/c i like him too! i told her that i sort of like him, and she told me that i shouldn't. wut do i do?
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It's funny, because when I was that age I was in a group of friends, and we all liked the same boy, and we all knew we liked the same boy. While we were in competition with each other, we kind of respected the girl who got chose (we actually kind of passed him around) and it wasnt that big of an issue to us because it was just girls liking a boy. Sorry for that trip down memory lane lol but maybe if you could talk to her like that you guys could get something like that! But anyway, if not, it sounds like to you're friend that she would be really offended though. I'd say tell her there are plenty of boys out there that actually DO like her, and it's not doing her any good being stuck on this guy that doesnt like her. Help her get out with other boys and then when she starts liking him less take the chance with the guy and go for him and then she'll be less offended because she might have her own boyfriend. Then you can look back on it and laugh!
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I have been through this too. I made the wrong choice and went out with him but luckily when i told my friend she didn't get mad at me or anything. I know i have a wonderful friend.But one thing I do know is that you have to choose which one is more important, your "boy-friend" or your BEST FRIEND??????? For all you know he could end up being a terrible boyfriend in the end.
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