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IM 14 and i'll be 15 in january. I'm a freshman at Guyer High School. My favorite color of all time is REDD!!! (i like to spell it w/2 d's)I'm a very outgoing person and I'm thinkin of runing for homecoming duchess ( that's what the fresman winner is called instead of queen.)UMM I am a shopoholic and I love whip cream!!! My friends always say that they have never seen me not happy.I love boys so much they should call me a boyologist.LOL! My friends always come to me for advice so I thought i would give advice to any one who might need it.
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Age: 15
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Hey, can i put tap water in the bowl after i clean it or does it have to be bottled? Thanks!! (link)
I think you can put it in the bowl but to be perfectly sure that it's clean you should maybe get bottled water.


ok well i'm a 16 yr old gurl and i just recently started going out with a friend of mine like 3weeks ago on thursday and i ador him......my first question is, is it weird that i might love him already? like i feel so confortable with him....and the other question is......i want to have sex with him...but is it to soon? like he knows i'm a virgin and he doesnt care to wait but i want to.

plz help i'll rate high
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Whooa gurl it's way too early to be having sex with him!! You should consider the fact that he is cool with waiting that he wants a gurl that doesn't want to give the coochie away so fast.Plus if you don't listen to a little advice and have sex anyway then you should get ready for a shit load of pain down there. My friend couldn't sit down for 2 days after giving up her virginity.


i really want to go because i haven't gone before but i have no date and no guys wanna dance with me so i'm a loner..i can't ask anyone to go with me..i'd probably be rejected..if i do go, i will feel sad during the slow dances and shy with the fast dances..all my friends go there to dance and hang out..i can't just hang out..everyone has a date except for me..i'm sad and im confused..i don't know what to do..:( people make fun of me..esp. the guys (link)
You should go for you and to have a good time and try your best not to care ehat the gurs think b/c boys ar gonna be morons 75% og the time through out your whole life. Go with a bunch of friend and have the time of your life!!!! Forget the Haters.


Ok so my name is Tilly and I came in late for biology class. I look in my chair and there was a note with my name on it..I opened it and it said "Tilly, will you go out with me-your secret admirer"..obviously, they were joking because it was written very MESSY and..if i wanted to say yes/no..how could i tell them? so i was being mocked and embaressed..should I get over it? I wanted to cry so bad..this made me feel even more horrible because people have been calling me ugly for 5 years! (link)
I'm not saying that you should get over it because people grieve in different ways and if i told you get over it you probably wouldn't know how to.You should look past thios and try to move on. You should have acted like the note didn't even phase you while you were in front of everybody else. THis shopuld be a sign that you should try to boost you confidence more because if you get hurt everytime sumone calls you ugly then you waon't even think that your pretty yourself. If you've ever heard the saying" don't believe everything everyone tells you" then you should take this into great consideration in this situation.


People, I guess lustful teenagers specifically, like to get hickies. I don't mean everyone, but generally speaking. Guys like it when their girlfriend sucks on their neck, and girls like it when their boyfriend does the same. They brag about it. They show it off. But when they're in school, they try to cover it up! People make fun of them for it! I understand wanting to hide it from your parents, but it's like...you're ashamed of the thing you were just bragging about. Isn't this kind of stupid? (link)
Yes it is. But don't you notice that they only brag to thier friends or people they know won't judge them. They try to cover it up because thay know people will call them slutty or watever. They want to hide it from the people who will not be so considerate of the feelings or not care about the story of how they got it.


what is the difference between being a couple and just dating? (link)
there really isn't a diff. but if you want to get technical the dating is just going places together and talking. A couple is bf and gf and your xclusive about it.


I am 13 years old, about 5'8", and I weigh 156. Am I fat? My mom and friends say it's muscle because I ride my bike 5-7 miles a day and I play soccer. But I'm not sure if they are just saying that..

Thanks ahead of time. (link)
If you excersice the way you say you do then it probabl;y is all muscle.


ok so we are gonna be swimming in gym kind of soon and i wanna have a nice body to show off so i was wondering if anyone knows how i can get a six pack...and about how long it'll take? thanks! i rate~ (link)
You can you do crunches, sit ups and crunche on each side to get a six-pack. It should take about two weeks if you do it every day and all together do about a hundred. It doesn't take long to do 100 so don't freak out just do 4 sets of 25. Also belly dancing works out the abs really well.It's a proven fact.


What are some healthy snacks you can replace with junk food to not eat just a bunch of swets- but somethign actually nutricious! Lol please don't send me to a website to look b/c i hate it when they do that...
Thanks in advance- I rate high! (link)
You can eat yogurt. It has tons of flovors so you never get tired of it. There is also cinnamon raisin bread. It's buy SUN-MAID. It's really good toasted.Try some of your favorite friuts with some fruit dip.You don't have to use yogurt ,you can buy a tub of strawberry fruit dip that's really good. I think there are other flavors too if you aren't a strawberry fan. Hope I helped!


Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice. (link)
First it's "pre-marital sex". IT depends on your morals. If you believe in not having pre-marital sex it will seem stupid and slutty to have sex w/ you BF after only three months. If you don't believe in it then it probably won't seem like such a bad thing to have sex after three months. It might even seem like a long time to some people.


PLEASE help! how do you make freinds at a new school and also make guy freinds?! I RATE 5s for trying!! thanks and please answer fast (link)
You should maybe wait until calss and ask someone who looks friendly a bout the asignment or about the school. Just strike up a friendly convo. Then if she seems like she is friendly enough ask her what is good to eat for lunch and ask to sit w/ her.ost likely she will introduce you to her friends and you will be off to a good start.


There was this guy that I've liked since 6th grade(im in 8th now), and we've been off and on. We'll I madeout wiht him for teh first time a few fridays ago. So yesterday he told me I wasnt exactly trhe best kisser. Other people say I am, btu I was jsut wondering, what can make me a better kisser? Ugh, that sounds bad but I'm really desperate to know. Thanks in advance!
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You should go to www.myjellybean.com and go to the how to be a good kisser section. I think it's under advice.


okay i'm 13/f and i think i really like this guy.. he's like the sweetest person ever, and he's always flirting with me. i've hung out w/ him out of school a few times, and i have a great time, and i just can't stop thinking about him. the thing is that my BEST FRIEND is in love with him and i know he likes me more than he likes her. she's always like "why doesn't he like me?" and i feel bad for her and stuff, and i want to hook them up, but he really only thinks of her as a friend. i tell her that he's stupid not to like a great girl like her, but it's hard b/c i like him too! i told her that i sort of like him, and she told me that i shouldn't. wut do i do? (link)
I have been through this too. I made the wrong choice and went out with him but luckily when i told my friend she didn't get mad at me or anything. I know i have a wonderful friend.But one thing I do know is that you have to choose which one is more important, your "boy-friend" or your BEST FRIEND??????? For all you know he could end up being a terrible boyfriend in the end.


Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18. weve been together for almost a year. He was really sweet the first 5 months, but now he has gotten so jealous that we get in fights all the time over it. He doesnt like me talking to guys or even looking at them. He doesnt like me wearing slutty clothes. (he considers skirts slutty) We both work at the same place and when our manager tells me i have to work the drive thru with a boy, he gets so mad at me like i can help it. Ive broken up with him several times hoping that he will change, but everytime i get back with him, an hour later hes right back at it again. Each time i break up he calls me up or comes over telling me how much he loves me and i always take him back. He tells me often that i will NEVER find anyone who will treat me better, and that im lucky to have him!! I told him i dont want to live like this, but he doesnt seem to get it. If i accidentally piss him off he'll go and start flirting or talking to other girls to piss me off. He was like this with his first girlfriend, but it didnt seem to cause problems in their relationship like it has ours. Shes basically the same age as he is, so i dont know if that has anything to do with it. He was very sensitive to her needs, and would hold her if she got upset or mad, but i feel he doesnt care when i get mad. I do know that i dont want to be controlled! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! (link)
First of all I think on eproblem is that your younger than he is. He probably thinks that b/c your younger than him he can control you and that your suppose to obey him. You either need to set him straight and demand that you not be treated this way or break up with him and don't listen to his lies and don't talk to him when he call. Break all contact with him. He need s someone to control and if you let him control you it will only get worse.


If you have seen the exorcism of emily rose please help me undertsand this. Whenever she was in the field with the Virgin Mary, what did Mary ask her? Whenever Emily said "I choose to stay." Was the a good choice or a bad choice? Why did she choose to stay? Please explain. (link)
MAry tasked her did she want to stay and finish the possesion that won't leave her or she could go to heaven with a peaceful spirit. She chose to stay and that was a good but stupid choice b/c she had to finish sufering all the pain but everyone would find out that demons and the devil really do exist and anyone can get possesed.


i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc. (link)
1. Kissing 2. making out. 3.touching over and under clothes 4. any type of sex


ok well i want to get my boyfriend a dog tag for his birthday but i dont know what to put it on it.. any ideas?? and can someone tell me how much they are? and where can i get them at the mall?? thanks (link)
Usually you can get them at those stands they have in the mall. There are some stands that you can put a picture on the dog tagIf you can find one that does you should put your pic on it or have the both of you in the pic. If you can't find one like that you should put something thoughtful and simple on it.Like your names on it and a heart.


what are some good ways to bring up a past relationship when talking to your ex??
like for example if i want tot ell him that i still have feelings for hima nd that i miss him??..do i come out and just say it or what?? (link)
Well first if you and your ex are stillin touch you should call him and talk a bout sumthing nd then bring up sumthing funny from your past relationship together and then say that you miss thaose times with him. Hope it works


Heyy .. well i'm kinda new at my school & there is this kid in my history class that sits by me & he always teases me but you can tell that he's just joking around & he always makes sure that he's looking me right in the eye & then he smiles at me.

His locker is right above mine & usually he doesn't talk to me but today after school he was like "come on hurry uppp get your stuff" & he was like kicking my shoes but you could tell he was just kidding. So I was wondering if you think he was just being friendly or if he might actually like me. Thanks for your help & I'll rate high! :)

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It could be either one. You should wait and flirt a little more if he continues too flirt and talk to you everyday then he definetly likes you.


ok. my friend is making me so mad. she lost her cheereleading uniform and since the last place she was at was at my house, she keeps saying she left it here. so i looked and looked all over the place and it WASNT here and i never saw it ever. so like every couple days she blows up and starts these BIG fights all about her uniform. its so annoying because i seriously DONT have her uniform. what do i do?! (link)
Invite her over and tell her if she doesn't believe you about the uniform that she can look for it herself. If she doesn't find it she'll feel really dumb for blowing up in your face about it. But don't rub it in her face though.




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