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random note left to me
Ok so my name is Tilly and I came in late for biology class. I look in my chair and there was a note with my name on it..I opened it and it said "Tilly, will you go out with me-your secret admirer"..obviously, they were joking because it was written very MESSY and..if i wanted to say yes/no..how could i tell them? so i was being mocked and embaressed..should I get over it? I wanted to cry so bad..this made me feel even more horrible because people have been calling me ugly for 5 years!
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Aw, man...I'm sorry this is happening to you. The exact same thing happened to me growing up. It kills ya...BUT you have to find someone to talk about this stuff too. That was my mistake and well, I won't tell you my life story.
Try not to dwell on it...try and keep yourself as busy as possible.
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WOW!!! That happened to me a few weeks ago! well i talked around and eventually found out who did it...i did the same thing...i wrote them a REALLY mushy love note and slipped it into there locker. to even it out more i had my bestest guy friend rewrite it and i had it photo copied as it "was" wrote to me and gave it out to people at school.
but:
i dont advise doing what i did...just drop it one day your going to go to a party or a bar...or some other social gathering and your going to famous and sucessful while they are alone and washing dishes at some restruant...while they are sitting alone (even though you may not figure out who did it) they are going to know how big of an asshole they were.
plus in the book of life its like one sentence...a sentence that you could easily "white-out" or "erase".
~hope i helped
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***funkymunky***
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im sorry :'( i know how that feels..people consider me a "weird person" in my school,because i like different things,they call me ugly and try to pull me down to boost them selves up,or just get a good laugh.But they will get no where in their lives like that.Find people to mock you and make fun or you for reasons.I would be very upset.forget them.Once you get into high school,friends really..they matter some,but its not your priority,its focusing on studys.are you in hight school? if you are,they are being immature.I think this person who did that wrote with the hand they dont write with,so its messy.I dont think anyone is really ugly,they are trying to make you sad.Forget them.Dont pay attension to them and stay strong.Who ever did that obviously didnt realize how smart you really are,and you know how stupid they are.Never think of getting embarrised,laugh it off,or just think "this will be over soon" no bad thing ever lasts forever.:( stay strong
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rissa
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I know it's very hard to deal with. I have had similar things happen to me. You are not the only one who has ever been humiliated, and I'm ever so certain you are not ugly. It's OKAY to cry. Crying is not a weakness, though sometimes it can make your ears hurt. And it's okay to hate those people, just as long as you don't hurt them. Just hate them quietly, to yourself, and be nice to them on the outside. I'm not going to tell you to get over it, because it's really difficult to get over this. So don't get over it. But don't curl up in a ball and die, either. Use it to make you a stronger person. Prove to them that they cannot squash you!
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I think Mariah Carey has the best adice for this one.....'SHAKE IT OFF' dont worry about those jerks!!!
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Yeah that's true whoever did wrote that letter is a jerk!Don't listen to all those mean people because i believe they are just jealous because they are jealous bout your style,they want something you have,or they just wanna wast there time and be jealous.I have been teased and call ugly at least 90 times in my life so far so dont feel left out because whoever rote that stupid letter has been picked on and wanna be pick on somebody else so they can take it out on you.So just get over it cause we all know people are losers and i mean you and me!(in a good way!)
Your beautiful in dome great way!
Have fun,
Kristine♥
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whoever wrote that is a total jerk!! just forget about it and move on, and ignore anyone that makes fun of you and stuff.
it always helps to tell someone about your problems and just let it all out. just talk about this kinda stuff to your friends, and she'll comfort you about it.
and remember, if people've been calling you ugly for a long time, just don't worry about it. because it's what's on the inside that counts!! and if no one will REALLY ask you out, then that means that they just care about what's on the outside! soon you'll find someone that loves you, and that not only cares about how you look but cares about the inside, and how nice you are!
but if you want to look pretty or something, then striaght layered hair that's about 5 inches below your shoulders looks good. (most boys just like it when a girl's hair is down.)
and also, if you want to wear makeup, then don't overdo it. just wear some eyeliner and some lip gloss or something, because if you overdo it then it'll probably look really bad!
**good luck!!**
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Hey, whoever did that is an ass. Don't listen to what other people have to say about you. I bet you're pretty. Maybe they're jealous of you for some reason. People can be very sick minded and love to hurt other people for their amusment. So don't listen to them. And remember, looks arent everything, it's really about the personality. It shouldnt matter what people look like, it's the inside that counts. And you're beautiful in your own way. And I still say, I bet you're pretty, and they're just jealous bitches. So I hoped this helped some, and if you ever want to talk to me about anything you're going through, you can ask me a question on here or you can e-mail at xxsmileychickxx@yahoo.com I'll be happy to talk to you whenever you need someone to talk to.
ttfn
<3 Zoe
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Wow, whoever did it is a jerk. I'm not trying to be mean or anything but I also think it was a joke because at my school someone did that just for the fun of it. I know people feel bad, and no one should do that. You never know though, it might not of been a joke. Just forget about the whole situation. You don't have to say yes or no because if someone was nice and brave enough they would tell you who they are. I bet you're not ugly and just don't have low self esteem. You're much better than that!
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forget about that note. people can be assholes. they have no life so just pretend this never happened. maybe try to comment back when people say ur ugly. if they say: ur ugly. you should say: well, have YOU looked in the mirror? or just keep ignoring it. good luck.
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I'm not saying that you should get over it because people grieve in different ways and if i told you get over it you probably wouldn't know how to.You should look past thios and try to move on. You should have acted like the note didn't even phase you while you were in front of everybody else. THis shopuld be a sign that you should try to boost you confidence more because if you get hurt everytime sumone calls you ugly then you waon't even think that your pretty yourself. If you've ever heard the saying" don't believe everything everyone tells you" then you should take this into great consideration in this situation.
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Hey,
How do you know it was a joke it might not have been. Don't think so negative of yourself.
Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2
P.S.Write back and tell mme how my advice was and how it went.
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Hey hun ignore the note who ever did that has no life.
I'm sure you are a very pretty girl.
Don't let any one get to you and if people do tell you mean things just ignore them.
It is not important what they say and it should not even matter.
If you need anything else or just would like to talk IM me anytime or drop one in my inbox.
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Just try to ingnore it, don't let other people bring you down just laugh it off. Who cares what other peole think of you the only thing that matters is what you think of yourself. If that happens again just throw the note out and if you really do have an secret admirer some day they will get enough courage and tell you. I know how much its hurts to be put down but you cant let them people get to you.
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Well maybe you should.......ugh......ignore them and just be the better man.
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