Question Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 9:19 pm
I really liked my boyfriend, but I just started school and everything, and I kind of want to see whats out there. I really don't want to dump my boyfriend, but I still wanna like fish around I guess. Its a new school year and I want to make the best of it. I am not really sure what to do. I don't mean to sound like I am using my boyfriend or anything. If you could help it would be appreciated. Thanks a ton,
rikatree2375 answered Friday September 9 2005, 7:20 pm: Are you sure you want to give up your boyfriend to look around? I mean, depends on how much you really like him. If you have a serious relationship then i don't think you should give it up. But if it's not that serious, then just start looking around but nothing too much. And if you really get interested in somebody else, just be honest with him. But dont give him the impression you're cheating on him. Hope i helped and good luck!!!
orphans answered Thursday September 8 2005, 9:30 pm: you should keep your boyfriend, and when you find someone, well when you 2 break up, you can go after that guy. heyy who knows what can happen?
but how would you feel if u were the guy, being dumped to meet new people?! iomagin that being your best friend, or your mom or dad. your mom or dad trying to find a new child! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday September 8 2005, 9:25 pm: ok heres the thing:
i definately understand where your comin from and im not yelling at you..but think about your bf. is it fair to stay in a relationship when you dont want to stay committed to him ? (as in being content with him and not searching for anyone else..that sort of thing)
i dont think its fair to the guy you know? so think about dumping him..taking a break..whatever you two figure out definately talk to him about it..unless of course you decide to sstay with him. if you stay with him..you shouldnt be like fishing around...
i hope i helped
-meliss [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
BecauseYouLivex3 answered Thursday September 8 2005, 9:22 pm: Ok what I think you should do is keep your boyfriend. Yet just get to know all the other guys. And you and some guy could get to be good friends. You could have guy friends. But if you end up liking one than maybe you should dump your boyfriend. But since you really like him stay with him. Just get to know some guys and be there friend. hope I helped <33 [ BecauseYouLivex3's advice column | Ask BecauseYouLivex3 A Question ]
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