about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

this is very wierd and stupid.. but when you put on a condom and then you have sex, do you hold onto the condom while its on the penis? or you just leave it alone? because i dont want the condom to get into my vagina..

just leave it alond because if you hold it would kinda difficult to have sex and it would able to break alot easier.

♥ steph

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ok so i turned 16 in august and my boyfriend is about to turn 18 in december...so will that make us...like illegal?

it isnt illegeal to date but to have sex it is. my advice is just wait until you are 17. at least =)

♥ steph

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14/f well my friend just told me she is allergic to condoms(like the rubber or something) and i'm worried about her because she is in a relationship with this guy for a while and if they have sex or oral sex shes not protected. shes worried also but she doesn't know what to do. i want to help her but i dont know how.
if she touches a condom she gets a really bad rash and she has to get rushed to the hospital.

thanks in advanced

trying getting her some birth control and getting her different kids of condoms =)

♥ Steph

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How long does it take for birth control to become effective so that a condom is unnecessary?

to answer your question it is 3 to 4 days. and no matter what you should always use a condom.

♥ steph

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Is it true that if you drink alcohol on a regular basis- say, 2 times a week.. that ur body can handle more than someone who drinks only once every two weeks?

yes because when your body is used to it it can handle more then the other person that drinks less.

♥ Steph

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Hey um ima virgin 15 f md.Uhm well i wanna kno "When a girl is losing her virginity,does she bleed" and im askin does this happen to all girls.

it doesnt always happen the first time. sometimes you can pop ur own cherry adn iot wont even bleed when you loose your virinity. some girls if they never popped there cherry it will bleed but it all depends.
♥ Steph

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sperm cant travel through clothes can it?
like..if you "dry hump" with just underwear on it cant travel through the clothes right?

because i heard it could but i think its just a myth..

nope it can not do that. so do not worry.

♥ Steph

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hey thanks for your advice but i wanna know, what do i say to my boyfriend? about the sex thing cos i dont know what to say to him, he might think hes done sumthing to change my mind. Please Help, WHAT DO I TELL HIM????

what the girl said behind is true.dont bee mean but all nice adn sweet. tell him you love him adn that you are not ready. if he loves you back and respects you he will listen to you adnw ait for you until you are ready.
♥ steph

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There is this girl that is always saying "hey" to me when I come into my reading class. Does this mean she likes me?

its possible but you have to figure it out yourself by talkign to her.

=)

♥ Steph

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My husband and I have never really been to close since we got married, mostly because I'm starting to find him boring and inconsiderate. While I was his girlfriend, I was a lover. Now that I'm his wife, I'm his slave. Anyway, he's has in the army and away from home for the past year. I got lonely so I started hanging out with some friends (both guys & girls mixed). I ended up starting a semi-romantic relationship with a man who had just lost his wife during her labor. So I helped him with his daughter and we just leaned on each other for support. Then my husband came home unexpected one day and caught us sharing one of the few kisses we've ever had together. So now my husband is fuming and wants a divorce, plus, he thinks the man's daughter is my child! He won't believe a word anyone says! Do I just divorce him and take it as a blessing in disguise, setting me free, or what?

if you are not so into him anymore then yea but before you go to all of that i would prove myself right about the girl not being your daughter. go and get a DNA test and show him that you werent lieing. and in the end be like i need a husband that will trust me, love me, and believe me.

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i feel so weird because im 15 and i havent had my first kiss yet. is this normal?

yes everyone is different and do not feel left out.

♥ Steph

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i have a myspace
and i want to know how to put a picture
as the caption
ive done it before
but when i put the code from photobucket and tinypic all it does it show an X
does anyone know how to fix it or
a new site that will actaully let me do a picture as the caption?!
thanxx!

you have to type in < i m g s r c = "t h e U R L " > without the spaces.

♥ Steph

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I'm just entering high school (9th grade). I'm going to involve myself in Key Club, Ruritan, SODA, etc. I wanna look good to the teachers and counslors but I don't wanna seem like a suck up or a teachers pet. How shall I achieve this?

Also, there is this one guy who is 2 of my classes and I like him but he slightly likes me but not really friends. How do I become friends with him? I was friends wit him in the beginning but for one shallow reason, he decided to ditch. Should I even spend my time on him?

for your first question do not try to be something your not. be yourself. i am the kind of person who does wonderful in school work and i ahve never had any teacher hate me but my advice for this is do not try to hard. just do the work and eb yourself..=)

you have all year long to talk to him get to know him and be friends with him or even more.Talk to him and become friends. flirt is a big thing you should do in order to get this to work.

♥ Steph

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Last night was my last day of my sugar pill and me and my boyfriend had sex i was still on my period like a little bit. what are my chances of getting pregnant?

because you were still on it you will be ok. the pill stops working 3 days after you stop using it so there really isnt a chance that you will get pregnant.

♥ Steph

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If a gurl is 17 in her boyfriend is in his 30s is it still rape! Dont answer if you are not sure!!

yes because u r still a minor

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when someone is like tense and stuff or whatever, why do people say "he needs to get layed."?

well first u need to know what layed means which is having sex. so when they say that it means having sex will calm them down

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How do you send a text message? I know how to get into the create text message thing. But when I have to type who I'm sending it to I don't know whether you type in the persons number that you're sending to or do you type there name? And do you type in the area code??? Help!!!

you type the number with the area code. and then click send.

♥ steph

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so i broke up with my bf lastnight because when we first started dating he had these magazines and i told him i didnt like him having them so he "threw them away" he said he did that to prove he would do anything for me and that he doesnt like looking at anyone but me. well lastnight we went to his room and the pile of magazines were back again. so 1. he lied to me 2.im not the only one he likes to look at and 3. i cant trust him. was this a good reason for dumping him or was i just being stupid?

yea it is stupid what you did but i see why. you want to be the only girl he looks at and you want him to be hionest with. think of it like this guys are always horny. with or without a girl they need something to occupy themself with and keep them happy 24/7 at least 90% of guys look at porn. (probably more) just because a guy looks at porn doesnt really mean anything. it isnt like they can get with one of those girls. so i think you should talk it out with him and give him a second chance.

♥ steph

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My boyfriend got arrested but hes on probation and he has to be around a counselor. He told me he has a counselor because he broke a window. I thought you only have counselors around you if you had sex with a minor or rape?? Is he hiding something?

not nesserly. that isnt alwasy the case. i had a friend who had a probation officer / counselor
because she dtched class everyday and now if she ditches she goes to juevienlle hall. so it doesnt always ahve to be because of rape or sex.


♥ Steph

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Why are guys so embarassed to admit their virgins in like, highschool?

now a days when guys dont have Sex there arent really men because they cant get any..

♥ Steph

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