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hey thanks for your advice but i wanna know, what do i say to my boyfriend? about the sex thing cos i dont know what to say to him, he might think hes done sumthing to change my mind. Please Help, WHAT DO I TELL HIM????
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just be honest with him. be like,"___, i really don't feel comfortable with having sex with you yet. and if you really love me like i love you, you'll respect my decision and just wait for me until i'm ready. it's not you, you didn't do anything or say anything that made me change my mind. i just thought about it last night and felt i wasn't fully comfortable with doing it. i'm sorry."
you should only have sex whenever you're ready mentally and psychically 100% and you're safe and you do it with the one you love.
and if he is the good boyfriend he should be, he should understand and everything'll be good. but if he gets all mad and doesn't talk to you and possibly breaks up with you, it just sounds like he might've been wanting a hook up, which, i don't think is the case.
i hope i helped.
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what the girl said behind is true.dont bee mean but all nice adn sweet. tell him you love him adn that you are not ready. if he loves you back and respects you he will listen to you adnw ait for you until you are ready.
♥ steph
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I would just say "babe i'm having doubts about the whole sex thing, i don't think i'm ready and it has nothing to do with you i love you so much but i know im not ready for this stuff yet and if you love me as much as i love you you will respect my decision and i promise to let you know when i feel comfortable about it." and if he asks more questions just say you don't want to take the chance of getting pregnant. if he understands you know hes a good boyfriend, but if he gets mad at you or leaves you, then he was using you all along.
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