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Uh oh. Am I cheating? Do I get a divorce?
My husband and I have never really been to close since we got married, mostly because I'm starting to find him boring and inconsiderate. While I was his girlfriend, I was a lover. Now that I'm his wife, I'm his slave. Anyway, he's has in the army and away from home for the past year. I got lonely so I started hanging out with some friends (both guys & girls mixed). I ended up starting a semi-romantic relationship with a man who had just lost his wife during her labor. So I helped him with his daughter and we just leaned on each other for support. Then my husband came home unexpected one day and caught us sharing one of the few kisses we've ever had together. So now my husband is fuming and wants a divorce, plus, he thinks the man's daughter is my child! He won't believe a word anyone says! Do I just divorce him and take it as a blessing in disguise, setting me free, or what?
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first i would try counceling and see if you can work out your differnces and get things straightened out because it seems like niether of you are happy. Then if all fails i would get a divorce, its not worth wasting your life if you aren't happy with him
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I think you should just get the divorce.I mean come on you dont wanna be with him so just take advantage of the situation=]
(p.s.Omg ur husband is tripin i mean he wasent around and you werent gonna wait for him 4ever!)
hope everything works out!=]-
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i would just divorce him. if you're not happy with him and feel you're not happy, then leave the relationship. but you can't leave without at least proving him wrong. i would go and have a DNA test taken and show him evidence that the other guys' daughter is NOT your child. i would sort of take this as a bless in disguise. it's a chance for you to get out of the relationship you DON'T want to be in any longer, and possibly begin a newer and better one with the other man. and you asked if you're cheating. well, since you kissed another man [ i'm assuming on the lips here ] while you're still married, then yeah, it's still cheating. but if it was just a harmless, friendly kiss on the cheek, then no. i hope i helped. <3
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if you are not so into him anymore then yea but before you go to all of that i would prove myself right about the girl not being your daughter. go and get a DNA test and show him that you werent lieing. and in the end be like i need a husband that will trust me, love me, and believe me.
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