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There is this guy from work who started showing an interest in me about 8 months ago. At first he flirted really heavily with me and would go out of his way to talk to me and rub my shoulder. Then he cooled off for a while. Around mid february he started being flirty again after i told my boss that i thought he was cute. This one day he even asked indirectly if i was on my own, meaning if i was single. So then i flirted really heavily back one day which seemed to freak him out although it was clear he enjoyed the attention because his face lit up and he got this love sick look but then he looked embarrassed. Now he initiates more conversations with me and acts more like a friend and he doesn't flirt anymore although it's very obvious by his body language and eye contact he's super attracted to me. So back to my original question, what excactly are he and i? (link)
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Well, since you haven't officially ever gone out on a date or anything like that, I'd say that you're friends. He may be attracted to you, but since he doesn't flirt as heavily as he used to, it is possible that he decided you would be better off as friends. That could be why he cooled off with the flirtation. He may want to know that you're as interested in him as he is into you. He could be waiting on you to make a move.
You should either talk to him about what you are and what you would like to be or you could just make move. You don't have to be really aggressive at first, just ask him to hang out one day that you're both off. When he sees what you're like outside of work, he may start to think about what it would be like to see you outside of work more.
Just make sure you tell him that you would like to be more than friends, but you're willing to give the 'just friends' thing a shot until he decides if he wants to be more.
Hope this helps.
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if you had sex in a hot tub and there was a high level of chlorine in the hot tub but you're boyfriend cummed inside of you could you still get pregnant or is the chlorine still affective inside of you? (link)
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I know you've probably heard the lie about not being able to get pregnant in a hot tub about a million times, but I'm here to say that it IS NOT TRUE!!
Even with a high level of chlorine. Sperm is smaller than the fibers in your underwear, which means that it can go through the molecules of the chlorine just like it can go through your underwear and give you a pregnancy scare.
So, yes it is very possible to get pregnant in a hot tub. Don't stress about it though until you actually have to or you'll just miss your period anyway. Next time, I suggest that your boyfriend put on a condom before getting into the tub. You should find some with spermicide in them so its better protection in the water.
Hope this helps.
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how long do you get your period for? like is it 4 days or a week? i get mine for only 3 days and it gets ligter every day. is that normal? (link)
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Yes, that's completely normal. Different girls have different types of cycles. They may have them for a longer or shorter period of time with heavier or lighter flows. I usually have mine for about four to five days, starting with a very heavy flow and ending with just spotting a little bit. Hope this helps.
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im 16yr old male and my penis is bent over to the right im worried what my girlfriend will think
is this normal? (link)
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Well, it is normal for your penis to point towards one side or the other. It is very rare that one will point absolutely straight. Don't worry about it, your girlfriend probably already knows this and won't think twice about it. Even if she doesn't you still shouldn't be worried about it. She probably hasn't thought much about which way your penis will point, so you shouldn't either.
Hope this helps.
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Okay, so I wanted to date sombody so I went to this site, but the problem is, I don't know how to use it! It doesn't have any directions or anything! Could somebody help me with this?! PLZ?! (link)
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Fill out your profile; you can edit it anytime you want. Then you can click on the 'spin' at the top of the screen in the menu bar. You can adjust your settings for the spinning so you can find someone around your age within so many miles of your zip code. When you find someone that you think you would click with, add him to your match list. Then if he thinks you might click, then he will add you to his. Then he will be added to your mutual match list and you can instant message him through the site when he's online, or you can exchange emails or whatever you feel comfortable with. Hope this helps. If you need more info, just ask.
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Heyy I was just wondering how do you lose Fat/Weight off my face?
I`m going to be in grade 7 soon and my sister is going to be in high school school and she`s 2 years older then me and it looks like my face is fatter then hers.
I was hoping you could tell me how to lose some of the fat off of my face a little but not the part when I smile it will show the dimples,without taking surgery.
I want to lose the fat in my face in about a month or 2 for a wedding. (link)
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Well, you have to use those muscles a lot to lose the weight, just like you would if you were trying to lose weight in your thighs or stomach.
Take time out of your day to move your facial muscles as much as you can. Smile, frown, open and close your mouth, etc. You can do this whenever you're alone, at night when you're in bed, etc, etc.
Hope this helps.
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My cousin asked me to play on his team in softball this year for the 4th of July (traditional event). I said yes. Then my cousin told me that my crush was going to be on the same team. I thought this might be a really good chance to talk to him. Do you have any pointers? Ice breakers? Anything that can mean us talking like friends? (link)
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Ask him if he wants to practice with you before you actually have to play the game. Or you can have your cousin round all the players up for a practice game. That way you can have a chance to hang out with him before you actually have to go to the game. This way, you'll know a little about him beforehand and can talk to him easier on the fourth.
Hope this helps.
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i'm not all guy crazy like my friends are, i don't go to the mall and go ohh hes hott! i am not like that, even close, i dont even walk by guys and judge them. there is this kid i have kinda had my eye on this past school year but again nothing major. my best friend has been friends with him forever so he is always over her house when i am there, we go swimming at night there and its a long story but she asked him and i to go swim around the pool and flirt for a while, i was glad to cause i kinda like him. so we flirted and when it was totally dark he swam by me and pulled my bathing suit bottom and then grabbed my top(he knew my strings were double knotted so he grabbed the front like my boob)it seems bad but it wasnt and i laughed so the next night we were all swimming and we kinda flirted on our own so later i had my friend say it looks like you and ash were flirting do you like her? and i guess he said yes! i want him to ask me out but how would i like cross his line between liking me and asking me out? wat could i do? (link)
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Well, you could ask him out if you want to be that bold.
But if you're not up for that, just keep flirting. Have your friend drop some hints that you like him back and that you want him to ask you out. Have her say something to him like, 'Maybe you guys should hang out alone some time.' or something similar.
Hope this helps.
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i have something that looks like a rash on my left leg, near my testicles. it's not on my testicles or penis, but i was wondering if anyone knew the cause of it? i've been tested for all std's about 6 months ago and it came back clean and i'm still with the same girl. is there any way something just didn't show up on the std test? and if not, could it just be from my testicles rubbing against my leg? (link)
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Master_Betty is right about the fact that it could be a heat rash. But it is also possible for it to be from your jeans or something rubbing against your leg. It's more likely if you have bought a new pair of jeans or something, because the denim's rougher the first few washes. Just do what she suggested below and it should start to get better whether it's the former or the latter.
Hope this helps.
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There's this guy I met online and he threatened to kill me last night because I cancelled plans with him and went to the club with my friends. I don't want to tell my brother because he gets fucking PISSED and I don't want to deal with him. My cousin is the strongest guy in the tristate area and he's a bouncer at a club in philly, so what should I do? I'm freaked out even though i've been through this before. (link)
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You should report the incident. You never know what people are capable of, especially if you don't know them that well, so you should tell someone just to be on the safe side. If you don't want to go to the cops, just tell your cousin. That way he'll know what's going on. That way if this guy follows through with his threat and attacks you and you call and hang up, your cousin will know to come right away. But if you really think that this guy might actually go through with it, you need to keep yourself protected. Keep pepper spray and a bullhorn with you. You can use one of those and will be able to run for help.
Hope this helps you.
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what can i put in bubble tea? like tapioca and umm? (link)
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Bubble tea is a mixture of tea, milk and ice with balls of tapioca at the bottom. You can mix the tea, milk and ice in a blender, then pour the mixture over the tapioca balls.
If you want to buy different flavor syrups for your bubble tea, try this site:
http://www.bobateadirect.com/
Hope this is what you were looking for.
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Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for just over 2 years.
When we first got together I gave him headjobs without condoms on. Stupid I know but it's all good.
Anyway, the main reasons for that is because I was too scared to ask him to put one on. Then one night I bought a packet of condoms and he suggested to put one on the stop his cum from going everywhere.
I've never given him a headjob without a condom since. The thing is he's been asking if I would give him one without a condom on..
I am more then happy to do it in the shower lol but I don't like the taste or smell (after a long day) of his penis. Not to mention the taste and smell of cum is horrible!!
I'd like to give him a headjob without a condom but I can't bear the taste or smell.. how do you girls put up with it?
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Make him drink pineapple juice or eat pineapples a day or two beforehand. It makes it taste a little sweeter. Make sure he doesn't eat onions or garlic or anything like that though. It's kind of like when you can taste them when you kiss him, you can also taste them when you go down on him. About the smell, it should help with that a little too, but ask him to cleanse himself or take a shower beforehand.
Hope this helps.
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why is it that when you love something you let it go? what the hell (link)
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Well, if you love them, you want them to chase their dreams and be happy, right? That's why you have to let them go to do that. But it's also said that if they love you, they'll come back. Which means that even though they have found happiness, they want to share it with you.
Hope this helps.
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Moments ago I made french fries, I was looking for an alternative to ketchup (because it gets old) and came up with garlic ketchup. More simply, it's ketchup with garlic powder mixed in. It's not bad.
My question is, however, what are some weird foods/combos that are enjoyable? (link)
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Banana or chocolate pancakes with peanut butter instead of syrrup. Regular pancakes with peanut butter and mustard is also very good. I know it sounds gross, but just try it. You can pretty much add peanut butter to anything, like carrots or baked potatoes. It's the same way with pancakes, you can add anything to them, like gravy or salsa.
Just take anything in your kitchen for example. What are two things that you love but would never think of putting together? I bet it would taste delicious.
Think pickles and french fries on toasted bread with salsa as a condiment.
Tuna salad with mozzarella cheese inside of a baked potato.
Use your imagination and you can find tons more.
Hope you like these too.
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Hey im in a dilemma lol
Tomorrow is my graduation. I just happened to like a boy today. Im not going to the same high school as him anymore and hes moving out of this area. I really like him and if i spend more time with him this summer, im just going to get more attached and it would be harder for me to let go. What should i do?
Thanks, this is urgent!
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First, you need to find out how he feels about you. If you both like each other, I'm not really seeing a problem. I know he's moving out of the area, but if you can see him this summer, you could surely see him when school starts back up again.
It depends on how far away he'll be living, too. But, he has friends there, though, right? It only makes sense that he'll be spending some time with them too. You could make friends with them and you might be invited to hang out with all of them when he comes to visit.
If you both want to put in the effort to make a long distance relationship work, then I say go for it. But if you're just afraid of getting your heart broken, then you shouldn't even be thinking about this at all. Because, frankly, you will get your heart broken at some point, but that doesn't mean that this guy is the one that will do it.
Hope this helps with your decision.
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I put a video on youtube of me dancing, but i took it off. A ton of people saw it- and this one guy told a bunch of people that it was a video of me STRIPPIPNG! Then this one girl who was told that told EVERYONE else! Now everyone in my dance studio thinks i'm some stripper whore.
What can I do about this? i feel terrible and guilty. and i'm not even a stripper! (link)
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First of all, you have nothing to feel guilty about. They are the ones that have absolutely no life, or they wouldn't spend all their time talking bad about you. That is pathetic.
But onto your problem, don't get all upset. Tell them calmly that it was actually a video of you dancing, not stripping. If they don't believe you, show them the video.
If this doesn't work and they still keep going on about you being a stripper, just blow it off. Gossipers get really frustrated when the people they are spreading rumors about don't seem to care at all. When confronted about it, just say something like, "Wow, that is so sweet that you care so much about me that that's all you want to talk about." Or, "Wow, I can't believe that your life is so boring that you can't find anything to talk about but me."
Hope this helps.
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well...there is this guy that my friend is trying to set me up with and all and he is really cute but i havnt really talked to him but he seems sweet...well the thing is i need some pointers on how to talk to him and what to say...and also is it wrong to want to start liking him so i can stop liking another guy that i have liked for over a year and a half???pleeze help me!!1thanx (link)
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You can't really make yourself stop liking some guy no matter how hard you try to. Sometimes there are these guys you find that are basically perfect, but they're just not perfect for you, i.e. the guy your friend is trying to set you up with. If you want to go out with him too, then that's great, but if after your date you still don't really like him as any more than a friend, you have to be honest with yourself and him. If you like this other guy, you should go for that. You only get what you settle for, and you're not going to be happy settling for second best.
But, then again, you might even like him better after you get to know him better. You'll just have to go out with him to find out. If you're not feeling it after date two, then say something. And I say date two instead of date one, because people are nervous usually on their first date, so they act a little off but if you give each other a second chance then you could really like the guy that he actually is.
Good luck with your decision and I really hope this helps.
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I'm 20 and my sister is 19. Our parents have passed away long time ago and we're just living together in our small flat.
Anyway, I didn't yell or say any single word and I just shutted the door slowly... I realize at our age it's very normal for us to have such healthy sex drive (But that doesn't change the fact that I'm a bit worried and angry to see my sister doing "that" in our very own flat!)... I also have sex with my girlfriend and she knows that also... do you think this is a way of revenge? What would YOU do?
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She is not having sex to get revenge on you. I doubt she cares that you have sex with your girlfriend. She expects it. You're both adults. This being said, lay off it. If you guys are comfortable talking about sex and things like that, then fine. But if she doesn't want to talk to you about her sex life, then forget about it. It's not really any of your business what she does in the privacy of her own room. It's not like she yells at you for having sex in your room. She's an adult too, so it's perfectly normal for her to be having sex. Most girls lose their virginity around 15, so consider yourself lucky that she waited this long.
hope this helps.
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I was just wondering why are girls so uptight bout admitting that they masterbate cause guys are open about it...thanks (link)
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Well it just depends on the type of girl. Some are sexually confident while others aren't.
Guys are more comfortable talking about masturbation mostly because it's been out in the open for a really long time. But that isn't true for girls. For a really long time people thought it was disgusting for a girl to be doing this to herself. Since it wasn't out in the open that we do it too, girls generally thought they should keep it a secret.
Even in our time, girls generally only admit they masturbate to their best friends or their boyfriend/sexual partners.
Hope this helps.
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okay, so there is this guy and we both like eachother and we both know it to. (( like i know he likes me and he knows i like him )) and well now im really starting to like him and want him to ask me out, but im not so sure if he like wants to wait till summers over or if he is just shy. doesnt anyone know how i can speed things up a bit without me asking him out. (link)
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Just casually mention that there's a movie on that you want to see or something similar and that you didn't really want to go alone.
If he's smart, he will get the clue and ask you if you want to go with him. But if he's shy, you're going to have to be a little more aggressive in the way you say it.
Hope this helps.
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