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Urgent Boy Problem
Hey im in a dilemma lol
Tomorrow is my graduation. I just happened to like a boy today. Im not going to the same high school as him anymore and hes moving out of this area. I really like him and if i spend more time with him this summer, im just going to get more attached and it would be harder for me to let go. What should i do?
Thanks, this is urgent!
(14/f)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Tell him how you feel about him. If he knows how you feel, things could get easier & you can get it off your chest now.
If you just keep it in & never tell him, you'll regret it.
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Either way, he's going to leave. I suggest that you spend time with him, just enough to the point that you'll feel like you're giving him a nice goodbye, but not too much to where you feel like you're becoming too attached. I would say that maybe once or twice a week would be sufficient.
Does that help?
--Jack
(15/m)
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First, you need to find out how he feels about you. If you both like each other, I'm not really seeing a problem. I know he's moving out of the area, but if you can see him this summer, you could surely see him when school starts back up again.
It depends on how far away he'll be living, too. But, he has friends there, though, right? It only makes sense that he'll be spending some time with them too. You could make friends with them and you might be invited to hang out with all of them when he comes to visit.
If you both want to put in the effort to make a long distance relationship work, then I say go for it. But if you're just afraid of getting your heart broken, then you shouldn't even be thinking about this at all. Because, frankly, you will get your heart broken at some point, but that doesn't mean that this guy is the one that will do it.
Hope this helps with your decision.
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