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Boy problem URGENT
Hey im in a dilemma lol
Tomorrow is my graduation. I just happened to like a boy today. Im not going to the same high school as him anymore and hes moving out of this area. I really like him and if i spend more time with him this summer, im just going to get more attached and it would be harder for me to let go. What should i do?
Thanks, this is urgent!
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Spend time with him this summer. A lot of people are in situations like yours. I think they call it a summer fling or something like that, where you date during the summer, but you know you will have to break up once school starts.
Take advantage of the time you have. You'll regret it if you don't.
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Make sure you get his number and email address first of all. After this no worries. Just relax and let Fate handle it. Email me later with what happens next I could probably guide you through a large part of it. For now though deep breathes, relax, and get his contact information that's all I ask for now.
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In my opinion I wouldn't get to attached, considering he's moving and all. If you want have a good summer with him and fool around or whatever, just don't let love get caught up in it. I hope things work out well.
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if you really genuinely like him, then keeping in touch should be no problem when he moves. i'm assuming since you're graduating, at leadt one of you can drive. you can see eachother all the time during the summer. talk on the phone, email, even go old fashioned and write letters. haha. i'd say, keep talking to him, hang out, and have fun with him. see where things go.
nothing to lose, right?
good luck, have fun (:
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Well what I always say is don't hesitate because your afraid of getting hurt. That shouldn't be the reason. If you like this boy and you want to get to know him better. Let nature take it's course (sounds silly) but seriously. If you get to know him better either 1 you like him more, 2 you decide he isn't your type, 3 you become friends and thats how you want to stay. It's hard to say what will happen, but there is a possiblity that if you don't find out you will be at home this summer wondering what it would have been like. Just have the mindset that you are trying to get to know him, not that you want to get into a relationship. If it happends it happends. And if it doesn't work out it doesn't. At least you tried. It will be hard to let go, but you don't have to. Thousands of couples all over the world have sucessful long distance relationships. Remember that! :) Good luck!
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Hi honey, I am glad that you asked me this question. I know that you are young and you want to fall in love forever. And you might think that your first crush, could just be that person. But many of us, and I'm speaking as an adult, can look back on our lives and remember lots of people that we cared about, but for many different reasons, the relationships did not work out. But unless something really bad happened, most of us look back on it fondly. You are too young to make a committment, but not to young to have fun, and enjoy the company of a boy. Would you rather spend the summer without a romantic interest in your life? There are some corny songs that have been written just about this situation. And you'll think they're corny 'cause your young, but when you get older, you'll understand them.
"I could have missed the pain, but then I would have missed the dance." (Garth Brooks) or 'tis better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all" (Shakespeare)
Don't ever miss out on a chance to get to know someone better. People come in and out of our lives for many many reasons. Some of them tragic, and some of them, we are glad to see them go. But that is no reason not to get to know someone better. You are just learning about male and female relationships. Just keep a level head. Being "attached" to someone is better than not liking anyone. And remember he has a say in this also, he may not be attracted to you. It is not all one sided. But that is no reason not to find out. And today with the internet and free minutes on cell phones, you two can stay in touch. He may be lonely where he is going, and will want a friend to talk to, once he starts at his new school. In a few years you'll both be driving and maybe you can drive to go see each other.
I guess my point is, you never know. So my advice is to make friends with this boy, and see what happens. You can never have too many friends, and if it grows into something more, you'll both know it.
GOod luck to you
Michele
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ok, thats a tough question.......... i was in a similar situation, i liked this boy that was moving to another country, wut u might want to do is somehow get his cell phone #, and just text him,like whats up, hows it going, just small talk, thats what i do, so u dont get too attached. sorry if i didnt help that much, but keep asking me questions..............lol
hope i helped
volleyball_chik_0914 :]
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