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What would you do if you accidentally saw your own little si
I'm 20 and my sister is 19. Our parents have passed away long time ago and we're just living together in our small flat.
Anyway, I didn't yell or say any single word and I just shutted the door slowly... I realize at our age it's very normal for us to have such healthy sex drive (But that doesn't change the fact that I'm a bit worried and angry to see my sister doing "that" in our very own flat!)... I also have sex with my girlfriend and she knows that also... do you think this is a way of revenge? What would YOU do?
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She is not having sex to get revenge on you. I doubt she cares that you have sex with your girlfriend. She expects it. You're both adults. This being said, lay off it. If you guys are comfortable talking about sex and things like that, then fine. But if she doesn't want to talk to you about her sex life, then forget about it. It's not really any of your business what she does in the privacy of her own room. It's not like she yells at you for having sex in your room. She's an adult too, so it's perfectly normal for her to be having sex. Most girls lose their virginity around 15, so consider yourself lucky that she waited this long.
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dude live with it. it's part of growing up. and she's gonna keep doing it for a while. get a lock on her door, and learn to knock or something. setup a system. necktie on the door means they're busy. it's not hard man.
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I would get over it.
You enjoy having sex with your girlfriend right? There in nothing about that that should make your sister angry or worried right?
No, of course there isn't.
There is nothing about masturbation that should make you angry or worried about her. It's normal, it's healthy, it's perfectly fine.
She isn't out for revenge. Don't be so vain. Her choice to do this has NOTHING to do with you. I promise. She probably just enjoys it. Just as you enjoy your time with your girlfriend. You aren't sleeping with her to piss anyone else off are you? You are just doing it because you choose too, and enjoy it.
It's her home too, and your judgement of her because of this, although understandable, is unfair.
You might suggest she get a lock for her door to protect her privacy. In my appartment with several twenty year olds we have a firm rule of "No sex in the kicthen!" which sounds silly, but it is good to set these bounderies. Other then that, get over it! You have absolutely NOTHING to be angry or worried about.
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You two are adults. It's normal for both of you to be having sexual relationships. Though it was probably very strange for you that you seen her, it was also a complete accident, and something you should probably try to block out of your mind completely in my opinion. She's 19 and has a boyfriend- I'm sure she wouldn't be having sex with him just because of you. Don't flatter yourself =]
If you want to, talk to her about it. Apologize for walking in on her and talk to her about how you're feeling. You are both grown people, you should be able to talk with each other calmly and rationally about what happened.
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