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friend/boyfriend?
i'm not all guy crazy like my friends are, i don't go to the mall and go ohh hes hott! i am not like that, even close, i dont even walk by guys and judge them. there is this kid i have kinda had my eye on this past school year but again nothing major. my best friend has been friends with him forever so he is always over her house when i am there, we go swimming at night there and its a long story but she asked him and i to go swim around the pool and flirt for a while, i was glad to cause i kinda like him. so we flirted and when it was totally dark he swam by me and pulled my bathing suit bottom and then grabbed my top(he knew my strings were double knotted so he grabbed the front like my boob)it seems bad but it wasnt and i laughed so the next night we were all swimming and we kinda flirted on our own so later i had my friend say it looks like you and ash were flirting do you like her? and i guess he said yes! i want him to ask me out but how would i like cross his line between liking me and asking me out? wat could i do?
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i think you should ask him out. it shows confidence and guys liek that. or you can hint it to him. or you can tell your friend to tell him to ask you out. but i would ask him out!!! =)
ps. if you know he likes you, you know he wont say no. plus you'll feel better about yourself!
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it's not conventional, but i think in this situation it doesn't matter who asks the other out first because it's obvious that the two of you have a thing for each other. i think if you really like this guy you should ask him to do something. he's definitely gonna say yes so just do it and jumpstart the situation.
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ive got a similar issue
the best advice i can give you is to not over-flirt
i dont think you would, but sometimes when girls do they come off a little crazy. If he likes you and knows you found out and then you start acting different, he might not like you any more
and thats REALLY hard. I would just try talking to him like normal and flirt, but not anything out of your comfort zone. he should get the hint and ask you soon but be patient, guys can be pretty oblivious. Keep doing what youve been doing and he should start liking you more and more until he asks! good luck
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It sounds like you both like each other as more than friends but need a nudge to help you cross the friend line. My advice is instead of putting the effort into getting him to ask you out, you should just ask him out. Boys are often more shy than girls are, and girls mature faster than boys do, so it would be best if you asked him out.
I know that puts the pressure on you, but you already have confirmation that he likes you. He probably has no idea if you like him and would be really scared. Just get it over with and ask him out. When you two are a couple, you'll be glad that you did. This isn't the 50s anymore - girls ask boys out all the time. So do it and be happy.
Sounds like you have a fun summer ahead of you. :)
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Well, you could ask him out if you want to be that bold.
But if you're not up for that, just keep flirting. Have your friend drop some hints that you like him back and that you want him to ask you out. Have her say something to him like, 'Maybe you guys should hang out alone some time.' or something similar.
Hope this helps.
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