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When i shave uh "down there" why does it get really itchy and bumpy. it sometimes hurts really bad, is there something that i am doing wrong? (link)
you still need to get yused to the feel. after a while, it wont become itchy and red.
Alicia


i like my stepbrother A LOT 13/f he is 14 but what do i do"??? (link)
tell him how you feel.
have you seen the movie cluless? well the blonde girl (cher) she fell in love with her stepbrother. so dont think there is anything wrong with it
Alicia


i'm 17/f and i'm having a baby boy and i was just wondering if any of you had any cute names??
you can either list a few of sites would be nice too.
thanks :) (link)
www.babycenter.com
www.americanbaby.com
new.babynameindex.com/boys
www.babynamesworld.com/boys-names.html
www.babychatter.com/irishboysnames.html
123-baby-names.com

there are some links
good luck finding one!
ALicia


my male teddy bear hamster as been acting very tired and less active latly also he has not been eating as much is there anything wrong with him???
Also my hamster chews on the metel bars of the cage is that bad what should i do (link)
your hamster chewing on metal bars is fine. he just needs to saw down his teeth a little. the reason he is tired and less active is either because there is no way for him to get ENOUGH excersize (try adding more things which he can explore). his diet may not be diverse enough, or he also may be becoming old
Alicia


If you want a divorce but your spoude refuses to sign the pepers, are you still married until they sign them? Or can they be forced to sign them? Or do they even need to, to be fully divorced? Thanks all! I rate! (link)
if they wont sign it, you'll be still married. if it was THEIR fault, like they cheated on you, you can automatically get a divorce. You can also go to court, and explain your situation.
Alicia


with all that i hear going around especially in the media, its difficult for me to decide whether sexual orientation is a mental, psychological, or conscience choice. do people decide to do it out of their own free will? is it both? any help is appreciated - will rate (link)
well people are gonna tell you that "you're born that way" but in all honesty as a guy or a girl you make the decision whether you want to end up sucking dick or munching carpet. people will say it's psychological and that it's something you can't control but it's something you decide on. a guy has to make a choice if he wants it up the ass or if he wants some poon. and a girl has to decide if she wants to ride a cock or ride a strapon. i mean there are psychologial factors involved with the emotional aspects of sexuality but in the end sexuality is ones sex life. the key word there being sex. and it's all about not whom you want to love or whom you want to be with. it's whom you want to have sex with. love and sex are two totally different things, as is who you feel you belong with and who you find sexy. emotions are not tied to sex, emotions are seperate from sex. sex is a physical act pure and simple and not til after sex do emotions hit you again. and when these emotions hit you a sense of satisfaction or disgust can take over. and i honestly think no one is gay until they've tried both sides of the fence and found out what gives them the best sexual experience. because sexuality and your sexual orientation is all about who or what you want to have sex with. be it man, dildo, woman, or dog. the fact is we all make a choice in whom we want to have sex with this and only this determines sexuality, sexual preference, and sexual orientation. the act of deciding whom we like to fuck.


Ohkay, my winter dance is coming up soon. I've been trying to lose weight for it. Let's just say at the time of the dance, I'll be 160 pounds and 5'5. Does anyone know any dresses that would look cute on a girl that size? links to specifc sites would be apprectiated.

*THIS IS AN OPINION QUESTION. ALL ANSWERS THAT PEOPLE PUT EVEN SOME DEGREE OF THOUGHT INTO WILL GET 5'S.* (link)
You can go to D.E.B
Or some store in the Mall


okay me and my friend fantasize about doing things with girls...but we like guys....are gay??? (link)
you're not gay, you're not bisexual. you're just growing up and during the young stages of adolesence one gets knowledgeable about their own sex organs, and all the growing and changing involved with growing up. it's not that you're bi it's not that you're gay it's that you're growing up and becoming a woman. so many people on this site are so quick to say someone is gay or someone is bi or someone is debating their sexuality when the fact is between the ages of 11-16 we're growing, changing, and discovering ourselves and part of self discovery is discovering what others are going through as well. from our best friends to members of the opposite sex . it's what happens, it's discovery, it's not instant homosexuality.


Can someone please gimme a site that has gilmore girl layouts with custom modules for xanga. please help, i rate high (link)
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Gilmore_girls_STUFF
This has all this great stuff for gilmore girl fans, like icons and layouts.
Hope It Helped!
ALicia


what is a booty call? (link)
it's when someone calls someone else and asks them for sex with the person being called for sex usually agreeing to it. like if a girl were my bootycall she'd basically be the girl i called when i wanted some action and that would be it.


How can I delet an Xanga ? (link)
go to your account information (http://www.xanga.com/Private/editaccount.aspx) there is a tab that says shut down site.
Alicia


I'm really not liking my advicenators name anymore. Its so corny XSugarpieX77, i mean come on. I have a 4.95 rating, should I make a new site? or, is there a way to change my username but keep my advice page?
thanks.

-Brina (link)
i wouldnt make a new one, especially since you have a high rating. but yea, you cant cange it, so if you are unhappy with it, you'll have to make a new one
Alicia


does anybody know where to get a cute trucker hat for girls real cheap anywhere?


kthx


-cami (link)
von dutch trucker hats are real sexy ;)
you can buy them on ebay for REALL cheap
Alicia


15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.

we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.

I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I know I need the practice so I can get my liscense, and My parents, of course, are with me, and they are okay with me driving my brother and his friends. But I will be getting my liscence in 5months, and I want him to want me to drive him. I want him to look up to me, and like it when I drive him or pick him up from places. I do try to set a good example too!!

Any tips? Is he just going through a stage? How can I be more tollerent when he is bad??

thank you so much in advance!!

-Kelsey-
k2204 (link)
He's 12, Same age as me (Ima girl though)
I dont know what its like to have an exact older sibling (But i do have one)
He's going to through (Id never admit this too my parents tohugg,haha) ""Im 12, Almost 13 and i dont need you, I can rock out to my music, do what i want, aslong i fallow your rules"" stage of sort. But what i think would be most important, is talk with him. I mean dont go all sappy, on him. But tell him, "Im your older sister, And i really dont feel like it" And stuff you know.
And the only reasons he's being bad is beacause one hes a "teenage" boy. And too He may not feel comfortable with himself yet.. (I dont know, Im just going along with what i know from hanging with 12 years olds at school all day).. So yea.. Just give him a little talk.


I'm really not liking my advicenators name anymore. Its so corny XSugarpieX77, i mean come on. I have a 4.95 rating, should I make a new site? or, is there a way to change my username but keep my advice page?
thanks.

-Brina (link)
Fresh new start- make a new one.


Ok, I need to know what is a good car to get. I don't have much money and need a type of car that doesn't suck up a lot of gas! Can anyone help me?

P.S. I am getting a used car not a new one if that makes a difference!

HELP! (link)
all the cars the person before me mentioned are shitty cars and i would never reccomend any of them you want something cheap, that gets good gas mileage and since you're 16 something to goof around in.

mazda miata 89-96
nissan 240SX 89-94
volvo 960 94-98
mercedes benz 190E 87-92

all of these cars get good gas mileage, offer good performance, and a nice amount of style as well. they're by no means bland and no means boring. there are few cars for a good price that offer good performance and decent gas mileage. if gas mileage weren't a factor i could give you a list a mile long of cars with V8 power and a lot of speed. but this is what i can offer with these circumstances.


My best friend and I were going to go to the same college next year since we both got in and it's a good school (UT). Well I was talking to his mom today and college came up and she said that she was sorry that we wouldn't be able to go to the same school. I asked her what she was talking about because the plan was that both of us would go to UT. Well, it turns out that he had changed his mind a few weeks and go and now wants to go to Tx State.


This really upset me becuase I don't know why he didn't tell me about it. I'm not mad that he doesn't want to go to UT. If he thinks Tx State would be a better school for him and he really wants to go there then fine. But why not atleast share that info with me?


I can't believe I had to find out from his mom in a random conversation I had with her. Why do you think he didn't tell me? Should I ask him about it or wait until her brings it up (IF he brings it up)? (link)
It must be a bummer. I'd confront him.
I think theese are reasons why he may not have told you. He was scared to ruin your plans. He maybe though you wouldnt understand. He was waiting for the right time. He was neverous?
I mean i dont know him personally, so i cant tell you exactly.
But good luck in college


what would you do if the love of your life walked away, is never coming back, and you didnt get to say good bye? (link)
I wouldnt consider him the love of my life.

UNLESS you mean; he died?
I'd cry for ever.


From a female,
When you are sexually active is there supposed to be hair uhh "down there"? or do you shave it off or what? sorry if this is like a stupid question or whatever but i'll rate. (link)
Depends if you like it there or not.


The pores on my face are so big, therefore, my face gets so oily. I wash my face 2 times a day. About an hour after I put on my makeup after I washed my face, my face gets oily and my make up wears off. My make up is OIL FREE too. What home remedies that work for you would you suggest to me to tighten and reduce the size of my pores and to eliminate excess oil? Don't give me that stupid google bar, I've tried google. (link)
GOOGLE. kidding.
Erm, A toner could help.
But for during the day with better more advanced make up, to make you look amazing, You can use Bare Minerals,




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