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Question Posted Wednesday January 4 2006, 9:40 am

i like my stepbrother A LOT 13/f he is 14 but what do i do"???

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xkymayxo answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 8:59 pm:
well liking your stepbrother is sometimes normal. my cousin used to like her stepbrother. talk things out with him. see if he likes you. if not things might be a little akward if you live together. just talk it out

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tasuki answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 6:15 pm:
Okay, a lot of people are acting like this is something really wrong. But he's your STEP brother, not your brother, right? So even if you had a relationship, it wouldn't be incest. It is perfectly normal for step-siblings to get married. Like what if you were already with a boy, and then his mother married your father? The relationship would still be legit, and it's the same in your situation. Actually, in the story Marmalade Boy, a girl's parents go on a cruise and meet another couple. The two couple's "switch", her mom marries the other man and vice versa. And then they all live together, only the other couple has a son. And the main girl and that son end up falling in love. Awwwww =)

Anyway, there is nothing in your question that even suggests you like him romantically. You said you liked him a lot. That's not a big deal. Brothers and sisters like each other a lot sometimes. But since you followed it with "what do I do???" with a triple question mark, even, I'm just assuming that you meant you had a crush on him. It may be only that--a crush. When I was thirteen I was madly in love with a different guy each week. Sometimes I would be in love with up to five of them at once. Crushes are no big deal.

If it starts to get more serious, I would be hesitant about revealing it. As you've seen from some of the responses, some people seem to react negatively to this for some MORONIC reason. Maybe you could talk to your mom or step-mom or other female role model, the same way you would with any other crush? Hopefully she will not be one of these narrow-minded people.

I hope it works out for you!! =)

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ditziii answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 4:25 pm:
well hey are you really related?? :)
not really..
do what all girls do
tell him how you fell or just express it..
are you sure that he likes you back?

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duzzie19 answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 4:23 pm:
slap yourself, go to a nunnery

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Annieisonfire answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 1:11 pm:
Well, its perfectly normal to have these kind of feelings for your step-brother, its not incest if your mam or dad had nothing to do with the making of him. He could be a little wierded out though so if i were you i would leave the idea of you too together in you head, if you do anything about your feelings it could make your life really difficult. Just try and be friends with him, you never know... he could like you too!
good luck hunny

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orphans answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 12:28 pm:
tell him how you feel.
have you seen the movie cluless? well the blonde girl (cher) she fell in love with her stepbrother. so dont think there is anything wrong with it

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skater answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 11:08 am:
the girl under me asked you more questions then you asked her ...eww hes your brother thats weird get over him not like him this will not go well soonnner or later youll be in jerry spinger ok ...noone wants that only dumb people do that ...go likesomeone else this will not work out..i dont go on this site to tell you want you want to hear im telling you the truth DO NOT TELL HIM!!! listen to me its for you and your new familys own good just dont go for him look for someone else there are plenty out there

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kriddle06 answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 10:58 am:
tell him how you feel. take action, just take a huge whirl. maybe he'll feel the same way or may be not. but look at this if he likes you the same way, how would you get around your parentand step parent it really all depends on everything. how would you feel if he don't like that way? how would you react? how would he react? what if your parents find out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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