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what would you do if the love of your life walked away, is never coming back, and you didnt get to say good bye?
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i would try to get ahold of them, and if not then it wasnt meant to be. then you have to move on.
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call him up to say goodbye for the sake of closure, it'll be painful, but it's necessary. Or you could write all the things left unsaid into a letter (wether you send it or not is up to you) or channel all this into something creative, put all this negative energy and feelings into a sketch or a painting or a poem. Then you need to let go. Write all your grieviences about all this shit that happened, and go to a peaceful palce where you feel relaxed and comfortable, then burn the list and let the ashes all blow away, taking your heartbreak and sadness with it.
Either way it'll get better, and everything happens for a reason, and if it's meant to be, your paths will cross again, and that will be easier to deal with of you're comftorble woth how it ended this time. Or you'll find a whole new much greater love, you never know.
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If he's the "love of your life" he wouldn't have left.
Unless he's the "love of your life so far" and you're both young so he had no choice about moving in which case: there will be others. I promise.
Probably not what you wanted to hear, but I bet you could ask every girl you know and she'd be able to tell you about someone she once considered the "love of her life" who is no longer as important to her as he once was.
I'm sorry you have this to deal with, because yeah: it is pretty tough. And not getting to say goodbye the way you wanted to is the kind of thing that can eat at you for a long time. You just can't let it.
What you CAN do is keep in touch with him through letters, emails, talking on the phone; develop a friendship based on communication and let your feelings stem from a new stage of your friendship, instead of letting your feelings stem from these new feelings of loss and regret. Because these sad feelings won't last, and those newly developed feelings will be based on something a lot more substantial.
And if, after trying to keep in touch over 1,000 miles doesn't work out or you change your mind about him, revisit this question, laugh at yourself, and enjoy the rest of your day knowing you no longer have to pine over him.
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i'd run after him. show him what he was running from.
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Instincts say to hide from the world and cry till you have nothing left to shed, but what you really should do is get out and try to get your mind off of it. I've been there and I'm sorry that youre feeling what you are, but if he left without a goodbye chances are you werent the love of his life. Don't cry over someone who wont cry over you; theres always someone better out there... Promise
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I'd let my emotions out and cry. I would try to get over him since he isn't coming back though.
If he died then you can write me back and i'll try to give some tips on getting over a death.
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I wouldnt consider him the love of my life.
UNLESS you mean; he died?
I'd cry for ever.
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