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I think the last time I asked this question it wasn't worded correctly, because I didn't really get the answer I was looking for. Its not that I'm scared to tell a future boyfriend what I need to orgasm, because I'll eventually build up the courage to have that talk when we're ready.
Here's my real concern: Is it abnormal that I can only reach orgasm when I squeeze my butt and thigh muscles while I'm being stimulated? If I don't tighten those muscles, I can't orgasm. (link)
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i understand were you coming from babes :)
i sometimes have to tighten my thighs and sometimes i have to push him deep inside for me to actually hit my G stop :) i would suggest on doing different positions :)
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Hey ! so in a week or so, a group of my friends and i are dying are hair w/ kool aid. i have blonde hair but its sort of brown in the back (yes. this is natural) i wantd to do just my tips either blue or purple but i didnt know if either of those would look good with my hair. my red haird friend did the boiling idea on one strand with cherry red and it turnd out great and it stayd in for a month or 2. wat color wuld look good and will it stay that way with my hair? thanks a lot! (link)
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I would suggest on blonde's to go purple tips, or even red tips cuz that would look lovely :)
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okay i like my ex brendan.
we dated on and off until he told me he had no feelings left for me.
so its been several months and ive dated other guys.
and suddenly my ex seems very keen again.
hes doing stuff like:
- taking my stuff so i have to chase him
-always poking me and touching me in some way
- always talking to me
-hanging around me (although he HATES my friends)
and very protective.
-finding ways to hug me
-texting alot
every one says we should date again but ... he says he "doesnt" like me.
he asked me to his house to watch movies tomorrow so im not sure if that means anything or not....?
in my heart i think he likes me still but i also reckon he likes a girl in year 8 (the yr below) although she has a boyfriend.
so basically should i ask him out? go tomorrow or not? or is there anyway or telling if he likes me for certain (i already asked the question "do u like me?")
any help would be good
xoxox thanks (link)
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okay babes, dont panic :)
i think he still likes you alot and it seems that way. but as you said you too have been on and off and have you done anything with him? lost your virginity? or something special? but it seems he's jealous of you dating other guys and i think he should be, leaving you broken hearted and now trying to be over protective around you, trying to give you hugs, dont accept his offers and let him go :) i understand were you coming from hun :) dont listen to what everyone else has to say just think for yourself cuz no one can tell you if your right for someone, you have to figure that out for yourself and i think your completely capable of doing that :) what i am saying is you decide hun :)
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hello.....well im 13 and a female and ive had this crush on this guy since i was in year 5...the thing is that this year he is in year 11 and gay!! and im in year 8...ive always known he was gay (he does ballet and stuff) but everytime he walks by me he smiles at me and its like superly cool :p anyways he is also my brothers best friend....when i was going out wth my last boyfriend he would actually get jealous if i talked bout him so that means that liking someone else doesnt work... what should i do?? (link)
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Sounds like you two are way too young to even consider the fact that you're gay. Thats my unprofessional opinion. Probably thought being gay is a way to get chicks. Do something that wouldn't appeal to someone that is truely GAY, and see how he acts.
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What's the worst thing that could happen at that court? I'd it just to put you on probation or can you go to juvi? If so, what the longest you can be in juvi for? (link)
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I was in the Texas Youth Commission (Juvenile PRISON)and the kicker to these "programs" are you are "sentenced" until your 18th (or 21st) birthday, and you have to work your way out of the program, usually getting your GED, etc. basically they have all the time they want and need to change you. Do not take these places lightly, they suck, times have changed, there is no get out of jail free card for being under 18 anymore.
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year.
The thing is, sometimes we'll have a shitload of fun together and I'll be the happiest human in the world. Those days, we'll have good conversations, probably spend a lot of time together, and just have a lot of fun wherever it is that we go. But then there'll be other times when things between us are just tense and we'll just have a very heated argument about stuff that's barely even important (probably because we're both stubborn and refuse to change our minds). Or on weekends, he won't even bother communicating (calling, AIM) for days in a row. On those days, I'm just asking myself why we're even together.
What the hell do I do? I feel like our relationship has bipolar disorder or something. (link)
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It's perfectly normal for people in relationships to not always see eye to eye. But, you to should sit down and TALK, talk being the key word about what is bothering you and how all the fighting is making you feel. And that you don't like it when he just doesn't talk to you. Communication is the key to any relationship. I hope I helped.
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I am considering committing suicide and killing myself. I am need of easy suicide methods that are relatively painless so I do not suffer any more than required for death. I am in a bad situation in my life. I did some very bad things that cannot be forgiven. I figured it was best to commit suicide now before I make any more bonds with my surrounding community members. I live alone, am not married, and have no children to leave or hurt by my death. I found this site and felt it may be helpful in getting my deserved rest from this world. I do not want to continue to make mistakes in my life and dying will prevent me from doing wrong again.
Please, help me. (link)
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I am not going to give you methods of killing yourself. You need to talk to a professional about how you feel and what's going on.
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alright, so i've been talking to this guy for a couple weeks now over texting and stuff and we decided to hang out the other day. (we're both really shy), so it was kind of awkward at first especially because he had other friends around but after awhile we left his friends and watched a movie and relaxed and began to talk a little. meanwhile, this couch was huge and we were sitting RIGHT next to eachother, shoulders leaning one eachother.
we text everyday and he tells me i'm cute and tells me to "come over and snug" (he doesn't mean this in a "booty call" type of way, he knows i can't drive to his house, i take it as a more "i want you here" kind of message) and just alot of cute things like that. he's alot like me and we're both sarcastic and it's great and i'm starting to really like him, i'm just not sure if he feels the same way. we were talking the other day and he apologized for not being able to hang and that he's busy and broke but i just need to be patient and then he mentioned something about he'd prefer to pay (i have no idea if he was talking about dates? i didn't want to ask and seem cocky or something).
i get the vibe that he does like me and then other times, i'm not so sure. i'm just looking for second opinions and how to go about making my interest known a little more. (i tell him he's cute and things like that, i'm too nervous to flat out say i like him). (link)
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I think he likes you, if you don't want to ask him, you could get a friend to. But, until you really know where you to stand, your going to be asking yourself a million questions. So, I know your shy, but I think you should either ask him if he likes you, or just hint in your texts or when your with him that you like him. You don't have to flat out say it, just hint towards it and see what he says.
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Ok, this just happened a few weeks ago. i have a group of friends that i have had since high school, we've never had any fights or anything. but recently i've let in a another girl, and i'm not mentioning any names. but we were really good friends last year and got along really well. she wasn't a best friend but we were good friends. so i let her in and things were going fine for a few months and now recently my birthday's coming up and i want to invite my whole group. so i was going to my table where i usually sit and was about to tell them the news when this other girl- you could call her the leader. she told me to go away and asked me why i was invading their group. i was confused and moved away and then some of my closer friends came and sat next to me. i asked them what was my friend's problem. they shrugged and said they didn't know. later on one of my besties told me that she was shopping with this other girl from the group and she said that the girl i let in didn't like me because i was loud and immature. i was extremely hurt by this because the girl i had let into our group was now making the rest of my group hate me. and i didn't understand why they would hate me just because of one person. and then later on i talked with some of my friends on the bus and they treated me just fine as usual. so now i'm confused this girl hates me and is making the leader of my group hate me. i don't think that's all there is to it for if that's the only reason that's pretty retarded. so i told some of my other friends on the bus that i was having a party and they got all excited and was all 'i can't wait.' i was happy about that but when we got to school the rest of my group ignored me. my besties sit with me now. i really want to ask my friends about this but in all the classes i'm in with my friends that girl who hates me is in it too and they always sit together so i don't know how to ask them. and i really haven't said anything mean or done anything. i feel really confused and angry and frustrated. do any of you have any suggestions that may help? (link)
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I think that you should just forget about those other girls. I know that you want to be their friend, but they aren't true friends. If they are so easily turned against you by someone they barely know, then they will take about you when you aren't around, and continue to act how they are. Trust me you won't be the only one they do this to. I'm sure you didn't do ANYTHING to deserve this kind of treatment. You should just hang out with the girls that have stayed loyal to you through this, because they are the ones that really care about you anyway. They are the ones that will be there for you when you need help. I hope I helped
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im 13/f
hes 13/m
i like this guy so much i think i might be in LOVE with him. but IF we ever get together, how do i talk to him?
Whenever i see couples in the halls, there always kissing and hugging. And i hate PDA (public display of affection) I just dont want ppl to see us kissing and making out. So what do i do? What do i tell him. PS: we arent together.......yet.
Please help. Thank you in advance.
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I'm sure you hear this all the time, but you're young, and although you believe the feelings you are having are so strong that it MUST be love, its just your undeveloped emotions running amidst... oh yeah PDA is the bomb yo!
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my boyfriend i have been on and off with for the last month, he asked me out, and we dated and we broke up, we both found another person to have a relationship with... and then we coicidentally broke up with them on the same day.. and then a few daays later we start dating again... This guy has a reputation as a player, but i really love him. He cheated on me with some skank that i don't even really talk to, but she knows damn well we are dating.. i told him that i loved him and that it would hurt really bad if we broke up. We are still together, and i don't have a clue if it is going to last, what should i do? (link)
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I assure you, as a past cheater, and most probably a future one. If we're capable of doing it once, were probably going to keep doing it. Alot of men, like myself, have no morals or hell even standards, and move from one woman to another like trading in a pair of old shoes. Why not, theres plenty of girls out there like you! :)
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My boyfriend says we have a normal relationship. I try to tell him it's not. He expects me to tell him everyone I pass in the hall way at work, what they say and send him pictures. If they come in my office he says they only made an excuse to come and see me that things should be controlled differently and men should not be able to just walk in my office. He takes these things out on me as well. Last Friday my boss called me in his office because he was about to leave for the day. When the boyfriend called I wasn't at my desk. he called and left vmails that were rude and ugly and when i called him back and explained he Said "you were in the office w/ 2 men?" "What else happened" Would you feel as if he is suggesting that something un professional could have happened by saying something like that? I'm at wits end and he seems to think he is doing no wrong. He says he has the right to know who I talk to and what is said and where I am and thinks if I have a problem w/ it then I have something to hide. (link)
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Sounds like a highly insecure, controlling and, in the future a highly probably abusive person. Get out while you still can, you can't fix him.... only years of medication and/or therapy can.... If you don't go through physical abuse, I'm willing to bet the emotional abuse will be worse.
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I think the last time I asked this question it wasn't worded correctly, because I didn't really get the answer I was looking for. Its not that I'm scared to tell a future boyfriend what I need to orgasm, because I'll eventually build up the courage to have that talk when we're ready.
Here's my real concern: Is it abnormal that I can only reach orgasm when I squeeze my butt and thigh muscles while I'm being stimulated? If I don't tighten those muscles, I can't orgasm. (link)
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I dont see why thats a problem, you're having a orgasm more easily when you squeeze because you're tightening the muscle there... keegals or whatever is an excercise women do, and from my VERY expansive experience in this field, I'de say most women do tighten up during orgasm, whether they like it or not, its hard to just sit there relaxed while you're having the most intense pleasurable feeling in the world... you're fine... relax and... wait no don't...
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We both went off to differnt schools. We still talk to each other over the phone. We arrange to go round each other's houses. My friend said that he wants to kiss me. He told her because he was too shy to tell me. Which is fair enough!
I really wanna kiss him hold hands or something like that he's really shy and so am i.
Should i take charge or should i wait until he's said to ME he's ready...? (link)
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Take some charge, for sure! Guys like it when girls have the initiatives. If you're nervous or shy about it, just make sure when the moment is nice and sweet for the both of you and start leaning in slowly. Think of it as you trying to get closer to his face; don't think about kissing if it makes you embarrassed. He'll eventually get the message, and it'll happen. Good luck!
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I was dancing for a performance and during a scene where we were supposed to be "chaotic," I ran into another girl on accident (it looked choreographed so the peformance was saved) and I think she hit me in the chest with her arm or something.
Now, it hurts to breathe really deeply and when I laugh, it makes me cry because the pain is really bad. Is this just a bruise that might go away in two/three days? Or should I make an appointment with my doctor? I have another performance on Friday, the 21st, so do you think it might go away by then? (link)
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well your hearts in your chest region, and thats whats keeping you alive. Do you want to risk it? it sounds serious so go to the doctor, and if s/he says its something minor, then you're ok. If however, its something serious, well then atleast you caught it out early instead of finding out when you decide to call 911.
Hope i helped :)
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i have been extremly contipated and i have a juicer and always juice.
which vegetables/fruit are the best to juice to make you go to the batroom.
i know beets r goodf rot hat but what else? (link)
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when you juice, its just the liquid, and the fibre is what'll get you to the bathroom, but the fibre is left in the compartment that you throw away. So just eat fruit- apples are good for fibre, prunes are too. Pineapple also.
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what does jacked off mean?
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played with his willy until his peter felt silly and it spit on him
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How can I get real good revenge on my ex boyfriend? He dumped me b/c he got too horny and we started to do stuffthen "god" told him to break up with me... which is a load of shit... someone help plz.. thanx a lot.and nothing that will kill him or hurt him too too bad :D thanx (link)
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date his best friend haha
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i had asked my mother to get a book for me at the library called "dante's inferno: the 9 circles of hell". she got me a book called "dante's inferno" but it wasn't the same one. i can understand how she thought it was the right one, but now i'm wondering who the book i really wanted was written by. the one she got was written by sarah lovett. does anyone know the author of the book i was looking for? thanks in advance. (link)
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i dont think there is a book called "dante's inferno: the 9 circles of hell"...i cant seem to find anything on google. The only book i can find is the one you have?
Hope i helped :)
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no one likes the sounds of chalk scraping across a board, but whenever i see, touch, or even think about chalk or chalk boards, i freak out. literally. i'll start twitching like crazy and cover my ears to keep from hearing things. i go to an art school and when we had to use chalk to draw a picture i couldn't do the work. i kept flipping out and on several occasions, nearly had an anxiety attack.
is this normal? is there an actual phobia of chalk? i know this question isn't really important but chalk isn't leaving my life anytime soon and i'm wondering if there is something i can do about it. i don't react like this to any other substance. (link)
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you aren't alone, its called Cretaphobia- phobia of chalk. If it interfered with everyday life, you can see a psychiatrist/psychologist or something, otherwise, try really hard to avoid it?
i tried researching it, but there isnt much info out there, maybe you could try? Hope i helped :)
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