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cant get over this gay guy


Question Posted Thursday June 3 2010, 3:56 pm

hello.....well im 13 and a female and ive had this crush on this guy since i was in year 5...the thing is that this year he is in year 11 and gay!! and im in year 8...ive always known he was gay (he does ballet and stuff) but everytime he walks by me he smiles at me and its like superly cool :p anyways he is also my brothers best friend....when i was going out wth my last boyfriend he would actually get jealous if i talked bout him so that means that liking someone else doesnt work... what should i do??

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pandorainaboxx answered Friday June 4 2010, 5:23 am:
Actually, the other person was right. Being gay takes a lot of sexual experience with both men and women to truly know your sexuality if you are questioning it. He may think he's gay, but he won't know until he's had sex with multiple of people. That said, go for him. Even gay people sometime fall for straight people and vise versa. Things can change. Maybe talk to him about it? Scary, I know, but it can clear up a lot of confusion. Also when he smiles he might just be being friendly. And a male doing ballet does not immediately mean he's gay.

In response to your feedback: I'm only fourteen. And I didn't say to forget about it. On the contrary, if you like him go for him! Or atleast, talk to him about it.

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orphans answered Friday June 4 2010, 3:22 am:
Sounds like you two are way too young to even consider the fact that you're gay. Thats my unprofessional opinion. Probably thought being gay is a way to get chicks. Do something that wouldn't appeal to someone that is truely GAY, and see how he acts.

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