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i need advice about boyfriends and girlfriends at age 13
A guy i like asked me out and i wanna say yes but am i too young at age 13??? i have no idea what to do! please help me!
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The answer depends on how mature you are and whether you can handle all the emotions and sometimes bitter disappointments that come with dating.
Boys at this age haven't matured as fast as girls in puberty or development. They may say they want a girlfriend one moment and still want to ignore you and play with action figures instead.
There's too many games being played so I would say dating someone else 13 isn't a good idea. You should wait a bit longer but keep him as a friend and tell him you're not dating yet.
Your emotions and feelings will only get trampled on by inconsiderate guys at this age. Relationships with people that young seldom work as one partner is mature and the other is still acting like a kid.
Talk to your parents and get their opinion. Nobody can stop you from saying yes to this guy or your true feelings but you do need to consider if he's mature or still acting like a little kid half the time.
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13 is a good age to start dating. Many teens have their first date at around this age. I had mine when I was twelve in the sixth grade and I also started wearing makeup at that age. I think an innocent relationship would be cute for someone your age and your level of maturity. If I were you, I would ask your parentals. It would probably be easier if you ask them with a scenario question such as "What if I wanted to go on a date with a guy in my class, could I go or should I wait until I'm a little older?" That way your parents could help you prepare for your step up into adulthood.
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