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I think the last time I asked this question it wasn't worded correctly, because I didn't really get the answer I was looking for. Its not that I'm scared to tell a future boyfriend what I need to orgasm, because I'll eventually build up the courage to have that talk when we're ready.
Here's my real concern: Is it abnormal that I can only reach orgasm when I squeeze my butt and thigh muscles while I'm being stimulated? If I don't tighten those muscles, I can't orgasm.
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i understand were you coming from babes :)
i sometimes have to tighten my thighs and sometimes i have to push him deep inside for me to actually hit my G stop :) i would suggest on doing different positions :) <3 have fun x its perfectly normal for girls to tighten up to get an orgasm, go ahead and tell him he won't mind, i promise :) <3
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I dont see why thats a problem, you're having a orgasm more easily when you squeeze because you're tightening the muscle there... keegals or whatever is an excercise women do, and from my VERY expansive experience in this field, I'de say most women do tighten up during orgasm, whether they like it or not, its hard to just sit there relaxed while you're having the most intense pleasurable feeling in the world... you're fine... relax and... wait no don't...
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I have to do that too so I don't think it's abnormal. Putting it simply, guys don't care how it happens they just want it to happen. lol
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It's not unusual at all. Everyone has their little ticks (I need to be holding a pillow!). Some women even need to be on their stomachs. Consider yourself lucky that your needs are easy to fulfill while you're in the process :)
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