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My boyfriend and i have been on and off with for the last month
my boyfriend i have been on and off with for the last month, he asked me out, and we dated and we broke up, we both found another person to have a relationship with... and then we coicidentally broke up with them on the same day.. and then a few daays later we start dating again... This guy has a reputation as a player, but i really love him. He cheated on me with some skank that i don't even really talk to, but she knows damn well we are dating.. i told him that i loved him and that it would hurt really bad if we broke up. We are still together, and i don't have a clue if it is going to last, what should i do?
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I assure you, as a past cheater, and most probably a future one. If we're capable of doing it once, were probably going to keep doing it. Alot of men, like myself, have no morals or hell even standards, and move from one woman to another like trading in a pair of old shoes. Why not, theres plenty of girls out there like you! :)
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Why in the rights mind are you with someone who can't be faithful? If he cheated, He will probably cheat again and again. If he has a reputation as a player, Then that should tell you something. No breakup is easy, However why put yourself through a heart break? You already know that you two aren't going to last but you don't want to except it. Cheating on your spouse makes it harder to trust and even if someone attempts to forgive and forget it will ALWAYS be somewhere in the back of your mind. If you take him back after he cheated you are telling him it is okay, Stand your ground because cheating is NOT okay. What should you do? DUMP HIM and keep it that way you are way better than that.
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I know sometimes it seems like the hardest thing to do is let go of someone. ive gone through something similar to your story and you just have to let go. once you allow a man to cheat and give him a second chance there are very few times that he atually learns his lesson.if he so called loved and respected you trust me he wouldnt have the balls to even flirt with someone your fimiliar with. making things too obvious is a huge sign on disrespect and no regretful feelings. love is such a powerful thing. and only people who have a good heart and know what it is to love them selves, can love others.the longer you continue to convince yourself that "it might work," or "maybe hes learned his lesson and will never do it again" the more time you waste in life to actually get someone to love you and only you. trust me god didnt only put one man here for you. so what are you really afraid of? actully finding the perfect guy!!!!! love and respect yourself. and the guy will come. hoped i really helped
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