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hey. my name is evan. im 15 years old and a freshman in high school. i have been diagnosed with malignant melanoma which is a skin cancer for the 2nd time. im tired of trying to keep the secret that im sick again. im gonna do chemo this summer but i feel like im gonna burst if i dont tell my friends. my parents said not to cause i already get made fun of alot and i dont wanna get teased about this. what should i do? should i tell my friends or keep the secret like my parents want. i just feel like i need to talk to someone. thanks for the help.
~evan n (link)
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if you feel close to your friends then there shouldnt be no problems with you telling them. i wish you nothing but the best of luck. i feel so bad for people that have to go through things like this. but ive always said you guys always show us how great life is. how much we should be greatful. i thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. God has alot in store for you. God Bless
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Hey, I am 16 femal and i am i a relationship, i have a septate hymen but im not ashamed to tell my boyfriend and my mum, when me and my boyfriend are being intimate he goes down and he is able to fit 4 fingers in, i am very worried that when we do have sex which i know will be soon that my Septate hymen will split and bleed uncontrolably, i dont want to go and see a gyno cause my mum will know im having sex but i need to go and get this sorted in the mean time i want to have sex with him,,, what do i do? if i bleed will i die???if i go and see my doctor could they do it there?? please give me some advice me you are my only hope... (link)
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i would say just go to a gyno, because of doctor patient confidentiality the doctor cant say anything to your mother unless you authorize it. i wouldnt just not pay attention to it and have sex beacause it does require surgery to fix and it something bad happens and you end up n the hospital your mom will defiantley find out, so just talk to a gynocologist
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what are you supposed to say when a guy says he like you??? (link)
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well it all depends on if you like him too. now if you do then you go right along with it and try to make something out of it. but if your not feeling the same way then you need to let him know so you dont give him any mixed signals
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Any chance of getting pregnant by getting fingered? With the guy being fully clothed?
Sorry im just very parinoid with this stuff..DX (link)
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as long as he hasnt jerked off or even touched his penis and with the same hand fingering you then your completely fine. i know a few people who have gottin pregnant from pre-cum and thats why you wouldnt want to be touched by the same hand hes been touching his penis with. other then that you great
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how far should you go with a guy at age 13...and don't say "however far you wanna go"--thanks (link)
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i wished that me telling you to keep yourself pure would actually make a difference. unfortunally its not that easy. now a days girls are so pressured to do soo much that it becomes over whelming. i tell you this from my experience. i lost my virginity at the age on 18. i waited so long to be with someone that i cared for. the worst part about that is that so many guys act like they care for you and will always be there until you give it up then there gone. i couldnt have been any happier that i waited. i was about the only girl that every man wanted. and not the young boys. men!!! men who wanted a respectable girl. once i got with someone i couldnt believe all the respect i was getting. im no longer with the boy but i dont regret it. he til this day calls me and admits that hes in shock that i found a girl like me and that he sometimes wished he never messed up. im so greatful for being so different and doing things my way.
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my boyfriend i have been on and off with for the last month, he asked me out, and we dated and we broke up, we both found another person to have a relationship with... and then we coicidentally broke up with them on the same day.. and then a few daays later we start dating again... This guy has a reputation as a player, but i really love him. He cheated on me with some skank that i don't even really talk to, but she knows damn well we are dating.. i told him that i loved him and that it would hurt really bad if we broke up. We are still together, and i don't have a clue if it is going to last, what should i do? (link)
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I know sometimes it seems like the hardest thing to do is let go of someone. ive gone through something similar to your story and you just have to let go. once you allow a man to cheat and give him a second chance there are very few times that he atually learns his lesson.if he so called loved and respected you trust me he wouldnt have the balls to even flirt with someone your fimiliar with. making things too obvious is a huge sign on disrespect and no regretful feelings. love is such a powerful thing. and only people who have a good heart and know what it is to love them selves, can love others.the longer you continue to convince yourself that "it might work," or "maybe hes learned his lesson and will never do it again" the more time you waste in life to actually get someone to love you and only you. trust me god didnt only put one man here for you. so what are you really afraid of? actully finding the perfect guy!!!!! love and respect yourself. and the guy will come. hoped i really helped
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