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I'll just cut right to the point. I'm nervous about going down on a guy and having sex. I've never done it, and I don't know how to do it or anything. Was your first time very nerve-wracking? Did you know what you were doing? Any tips? (link)
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well i can say yes i was totally nervous the first time i went down on a guy. you dont know what you are doing and you want the guy to feel pleasure so you do what you hear from what other people have told you. if they havent told you anything well im pretty sure you know what you have to do. i can say that it gets better with time. you may not know what you are doing the first time but you just do whatever and you will find out what he likes. the first time for everything is always nerve wrecking but it will be fine. dont sweat it cause he can tell when you are nervous.
as for the sex part i havent done it yet so i cant say much. but i do know that losing your virginity is serious and scary because its the first time you are actually doing it. again just dont worry. chances are he is just as nervous as you are.
hope i helped, good luck!
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Okay. So my boyfriends been wanting to finger me for awhile. So I let him, and it hurrrt. He could only put like one finger in haha. Well we were dirty texting later and he was gone for the weekened so he asked how he "could make it up to me". I said "maybe a few fingers could settle this ;)" and he was like "hahaha a few?? You can't even handle two :P" Yeah he was joking but don't guys waaant their girls to be really tight?? (link)
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seeing that it was your first time with that then yes you would be tight. he is just teasing with you and it was just fun teasing. you just have to get use to it and the more that you do it the more fingers he can use.
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I'm not sure how, i've done some before, and it feel likes I am taking way to long, i feel like the guy is just laying there rolling his eyes, and i just feel akward, like I'm failing or somethings.
What do i do? How can i be better? (link)
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well it depends on what you are doing right now? most of them like you to switch it up alittle. suck the tip at times but then suck the whole thing. they normally like you to suck the whole thing but you can switch it up alittle bit by sucking hard for alittle bit and then get harder. getting better comes with practice but he for sure is not rolling his eyes, you are pleasuring him and he will like it no matter what.
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Okay well, i have a boyfriend, Name is John. And im loosing feelings for him, and im starting to get feelings for this guy Chance. I know, break up with John.
Yeah, well its not that simple. Me and john are VERY close, AND weve spent a year and two months on each other. And i just dont wanna hurt him.
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if you truly have feelings for another boy and you think that boy has feelings for you then you should go for it. i know a breakup with john will be hard. breakups are never easy and they arent meant to be but if you are feeling for another boy then its what needs to be done. you can try doing it simple and im sure he will understand. there is no way that you cant hurt him. but if you keep dating him you will hurt him even more than you already will now.
if you want when you breakup with him, suggest that once he is moved on that if he would like to be your friend. seeing that you two were really close you would want him to be a great friend in your life.
i hope i helped :) if you need more advice just ask
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Me and my ex broke up about a year ago and i still havent gotten over him he was my first love and i miss him very much especially since i never really got to say bye im dating someone new now and they make me really happy but im scared that theyre gonna leave me the way my ex did i havent seen him since we split up but anyways i wanna give my heart to the new person im with but i cant because a part of me is still holding on to my ex im tired of crying over him i want to let go but i dont know how what can i do to get over him??? (link)
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there is no one way to get over him. you always will have some feelings for the first person you loved. since you didnt get any closure that is some part of why you are holding on. i felt the same way you did and i never got any closure from him but if you are still in contact with him then if you really want closure im sure you can just meet up and get it.
and i get that you are scared about giving your heart to a new person but its a part of life. we all get hurt and no matter what you will be hurt in the end. you can try to avoid it but it doesnt quite work out.
i think that crying over your ex is silly. all girls are great and some guys are stupid and they pass up on it but you have a new boy and im sure he cares for you a lot. just keep going with that and when the time comes maybe you will fall in love with him too. you never know where life takes you but dont worry about it.
your ex is gone and he was a part of your past. you will never fully be over him. im still not over my ex but that doesnt mean it should stop you from anything.
hope i helped, sorry its long :)
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my brother just passed away about a week ago and I want to name my first born after him. his name is richie. so obviously if my first born is a boy that would be the name. but I need a girl version of the name richie. any ideas please? (link)
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richelle is very pretty. a girl would love a name like that :)
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i have a macbook pro so i have the built in webcam....
when i go on websites that you can use your webcam on and it says "this site is trying to access your camera" and you click allow or deny it doesnt work. i click allow but it still wont work.
does anyone know how to fix this? (link)
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i have the same computer and you may just have to restart the webcam. but it may just be the way its set up, like when it says allow im pretty sure there is something you can click to change the settings and you should be all set.
but also if you ever have photobooth open at the same time it doesnt work because it cant be on the same time as when you are trying to cam with someone else.
hope i helped..!
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Ok uhh so when is it normal that when i use a tampon on my period it like doesnt last a whole week? it seems like it goes by alot faster..idk how to explain it ahha but is that weird or is just me idk! ahah thanks (link)
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it goes by faster because you dont need to put many in as where you have to constantly put a pad on every 3 hours, just depends but i know what you mean.
but its a good thing it goes by faster.
hope i explained it.
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