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Septate Hymens
Hey, I am 16 femal and i am i a relationship, i have a septate hymen but im not ashamed to tell my boyfriend and my mum, when me and my boyfriend are being intimate he goes down and he is able to fit 4 fingers in, i am very worried that when we do have sex which i know will be soon that my Septate hymen will split and bleed uncontrolably, i dont want to go and see a gyno cause my mum will know im having sex but i need to go and get this sorted in the mean time i want to have sex with him,,, what do i do? if i bleed will i die???if i go and see my doctor could they do it there?? please give me some advice me you are my only hope...
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i would say just go to a gyno, because of doctor patient confidentiality the doctor cant say anything to your mother unless you authorize it. i wouldnt just not pay attention to it and have sex beacause it does require surgery to fix and it something bad happens and you end up n the hospital your mom will defiantley find out, so just talk to a gynocologist
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I'm reasonably confident that you won't die or bleed to death. Actually,this type of hymen isn't uncommon. Usually, they do minor surgery to correct it at birth.
Why you never had yours fixed is something to discuss with your mother. She won't assume you're having sex. Tell her you read about minor surgery to correct it and would like it done because you're embarrassed by it and concerned about what would happen in the future when married.
You have a right to ask her about it. Tell her that you can't use tampons easily or how it affects you whenever you look at it. Either way it's common and some people bleed during sex and others don't. I can't say what would happen if left unfixed but I know you aren't going to die from it. And if you could... well news that would come as a shock to me.
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