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Why can't my girlfriend cum?
Hello,
I am a male (18) and I've been having sex with my girlfriend for five months now. As the title says my girlfriend has trouble cumming. I am not sure why this is, the past five months she has never had an orgasm. I can however give her a clitorial orgasm, but not a vaginal one. I haven't yet tried fingering her to that point and she refuses to finger herself.
I wonder if there's anything I can do to make her get her orgasm. She is really getting frustrated during sex, she actually gets to the point when the orgasm should come, "but then everything disappears" she says. These frustrations occur multiple times during sex, followed by an emotional breakdown(on her side).
I real feel bad about not being able to give her an orgasm, so please, are there any tricks/tips/suggestions?
Thanks in advance!
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women's and men's bodies just aren't the same...
many women don't acheive orgasm from regular penetration, it is direct and concentrated stimulation to her clitoris. If regular penetration and stimulation doesn't do it, try oral, straight to the clitoris. I think you'll have her pleased in no time if it is done correctly... if this does not work, try seeking a specialist to give you guys the desired sex life you both deserve. Best of luck,
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Chill out buddy. A high percentage of women can't achieve orgasm via intercourse. She's not alone, you're not alone, etc. Stick to oral.
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It all has to do with her muscle. You can't just make her orgasm... she has to squeeze her muscle during the peak of sex. Try having her on top and let her do the work. Just put it in really deep and let her do the rest. This should help. Also, make sure you do a lot of foreplay, as it will excite her more and make it easier to go.
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Sometimes, it just will not happen. My girlfriend has never had one either, and we've been together for over 5 years. No one could make her do it before, and she can't do it herself either. Oral stimulation brings one up pretty quickly, so we've just adjusted our sex style. She comes, I come, everybody wins. It's just not at the same time.
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