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Why can't guys go back to being friends?
Hi...
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So me and this guy ended up making out three or four times after the first time... the one before the last went as far as i've ever gone in my life. he ended up putting me on his sofa (no one was there and for some reason i ended up going there!!!) and taking of my bra and shirt and kissing me there... a few mins later he pulled the same trick again and put my hands on his pants, this time i was okay thinking he was sincere about what he said about being "serious" last time.
Anyway so he ended up masturbating in front of me...
two days later he txts again and i end up being super later for a friend's cause i went to his place. that's when things got weird and he revealed his perspective on the situation, in a very subtle way that suggested that i am basically a hookup...
i texted him once after and 7 hours later he answers back with plain hi...
it's been a week and nothing! he's even blocked me on msn (not that i log on all the time)
what is going on? i told him that i am okay with this as long as he doesn't say anything.... can't we be friends?
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Well, I didn't read the last question. It had a lot of words and I'm not the reading type.
Seems like he only stuck around as long as he did because he got as far as he did. Since you didn't fuck him when he got your shirt off and he doesn't expect it anytime soon, he has lost his interest in you and doesn't want to waste any more time pursuing you sexually. You will never be friends.
This may seem pessimistic and harsh, but I was a teenage boy once and I see the signs. We get really good at telling a girl what they want to hear, being so sweet and "not like those other guys." No, we're like those other guys. They're pretty good at it too.
Don't waste your time. Move on. He'll probably never attempt to contact you again.
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