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we're both too shy to kiss...
We both went off to differnt schools. We still talk to each other over the phone. We arrange to go round each other's houses. My friend said that he wants to kiss me. He told her because he was too shy to tell me. Which is fair enough!
I really wanna kiss him hold hands or something like that he's really shy and so am i.
Should i take charge or should i wait until he's said to ME he's ready...?
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Go for it! Your both intrested in each other! Just think of it this way, if you kiss him first, it will break the ice and he'll go ahead and kiss you more often. Its just the initial awkward first kiss feeling. It'll pass and everything will be okay! Good luck!
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Take charge don't wait a great opportunity pass you by like that. if he is shy then he is waiting for you to help him since he is still deciding whether to kiss you or not, so kiss him and let him know its okay to do so.
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Nobody is getting kissed unless one of you makes a move. Unfortunately both of you are extremely introverted. He has however given you an open invitation to plant one on him by telling your friend.
That's as big a step he's comfortable with without you rejecting him. He likes you and obviously you like him and he's hinting so why make it complicated? Stop analyzing it and just do it. Once you've done it work on the relationship.
This is the only way. I know it's hard for you but nothing worth having or wanting comes easily. Your confidence will soar afterwards and you'll have yourself a boyfriend. Nothing bad will come from it. You can also ask him to kiss you. Either way you look at it you've got to say something to him at least and break the ice. Let me know what happens. Good luck!
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Take some charge, for sure! Guys like it when girls have the initiatives. If you're nervous or shy about it, just make sure when the moment is nice and sweet for the both of you and start leaning in slowly. Think of it as you trying to get closer to his face; don't think about kissing if it makes you embarrassed. He'll eventually get the message, and it'll happen. Good luck!
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My advice is to just go for it. One of you has to take charge, and it might at well be you. This will be a good chance for you to break out of your shell a bit, and get closer to your boyfriend. He will repect you for taking the first move and you will feel good about yourself.
If you are still unsure, maybe start a conversation with him about kissing, and ask him if he wants to kiss you. If he says yes ask him if he wants to kiss right now, and if he says yes then kiss him! But if he says no, dont take it personally, he's probably just be not ready or too shy to take that step. One day it will happen and it will be natural and hopefully you will both feel the love :)
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