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im a girl and i think i should ask.
okay i like my ex brendan.
we dated on and off until he told me he had no feelings left for me.
so its been several months and ive dated other guys.
and suddenly my ex seems very keen again.
hes doing stuff like:
- taking my stuff so i have to chase him
-always poking me and touching me in some way
- always talking to me
-hanging around me (although he HATES my friends)
and very protective.
-finding ways to hug me
-texting alot
every one says we should date again but ... he says he "doesnt" like me.
he asked me to his house to watch movies tomorrow so im not sure if that means anything or not....?
in my heart i think he likes me still but i also reckon he likes a girl in year 8 (the yr below) although she has a boyfriend.
so basically should i ask him out? go tomorrow or not? or is there anyway or telling if he likes me for certain (i already asked the question "do u like me?")
any help would be good
xoxox thanks
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Okay, so I agree with the other answer, but I also have a couple of points to make that you may want to consider:
I think that he IS jelous of all those other guys. He wonders why you like them, and seem to be over him. However, he doesn't want to seem desperate, so he says he doesn't like you. This is a guys' way of playing hard to get.
Since you have decided that you like this guy, you have to play the Game better than he can. In other words, you have to decide how to get him to ALWAYS want to be with you. To cherrish every moment of your presence. The only way to do this, is get him to realize that he can lose you.
It seems that you have been doing a fairly decent job of this, because you have been dating others, and he has showed more interest in you than before. This doesn't mean that you can't ever hang out with him and have fun! Hell, you should go all out! Be friendly, be cute, be yourself, be confident. The key is to be what no other girl is around him. This way he will see that you are different, and he will enjoy those precious moments with you.
I hope this makes sense. Anyway, sounds like you've been doing a good job, so keep it up :)
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okay babes, dont panic :)
i think he still likes you alot and it seems that way. but as you said you too have been on and off and have you done anything with him? lost your virginity? or something special? but it seems he's jealous of you dating other guys and i think he should be, leaving you broken hearted and now trying to be over protective around you, trying to give you hugs, dont accept his offers and let him go :) i understand were you coming from hun :) dont listen to what everyone else has to say just think for yourself cuz no one can tell you if your right for someone, you have to figure that out for yourself and i think your completely capable of doing that :) what i am saying is you decide hun :)
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