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About me...hm. Well, there really isn't much to say about me. I'm tall. I live in colorado. I'm an amature video producer (to YouTube haha). Life is good, a good life is better; that's my motto. My name is Vollya. Many people call me stubborn, mean, and strange. I don't mind. People can say anything they want about me. And if it just so happens that they're too scared to say it to my face, why care about what they say? Anyway, I'm not really sure what else to write here. If you want to know me better, email me or message me on here or something. Thats about it. Oh and my favorite quote:

"Anything that happens, happens.

Anything that, in happening, causes something else to happen, causes something else to happen.

Anything that, in happening, causes itself to happen again, happens again.

It doesn't necessarily do it in chronological order, though." -Douglas Adams
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okay i like my ex brendan.
we dated on and off until he told me he had no feelings left for me.
so its been several months and ive dated other guys.
and suddenly my ex seems very keen again.
hes doing stuff like:
- taking my stuff so i have to chase him
-always poking me and touching me in some way
- always talking to me
-hanging around me (although he HATES my friends)
and very protective.
-finding ways to hug me
-texting alot
every one says we should date again but ... he says he "doesnt" like me.
he asked me to his house to watch movies tomorrow so im not sure if that means anything or not....?
in my heart i think he likes me still but i also reckon he likes a girl in year 8 (the yr below) although she has a boyfriend.
so basically should i ask him out? go tomorrow or not? or is there anyway or telling if he likes me for certain (i already asked the question "do u like me?")
any help would be good
xoxox thanks (link)
Okay, so I agree with the other answer, but I also have a couple of points to make that you may want to consider:
I think that he IS jelous of all those other guys. He wonders why you like them, and seem to be over him. However, he doesn't want to seem desperate, so he says he doesn't like you. This is a guys' way of playing hard to get.
Since you have decided that you like this guy, you have to play the Game better than he can. In other words, you have to decide how to get him to ALWAYS want to be with you. To cherrish every moment of your presence. The only way to do this, is get him to realize that he can lose you.
It seems that you have been doing a fairly decent job of this, because you have been dating others, and he has showed more interest in you than before. This doesn't mean that you can't ever hang out with him and have fun! Hell, you should go all out! Be friendly, be cute, be yourself, be confident. The key is to be what no other girl is around him. This way he will see that you are different, and he will enjoy those precious moments with you.
I hope this makes sense. Anyway, sounds like you've been doing a good job, so keep it up :)




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