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Boyfriend issue.
So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year.
The thing is, sometimes we'll have a shitload of fun together and I'll be the happiest human in the world. Those days, we'll have good conversations, probably spend a lot of time together, and just have a lot of fun wherever it is that we go. But then there'll be other times when things between us are just tense and we'll just have a very heated argument about stuff that's barely even important (probably because we're both stubborn and refuse to change our minds). Or on weekends, he won't even bother communicating (calling, AIM) for days in a row. On those days, I'm just asking myself why we're even together.
What the hell do I do? I feel like our relationship has bipolar disorder or something.
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It's perfectly normal for people in relationships to not always see eye to eye. But, you to should sit down and TALK, talk being the key word about what is bothering you and how all the fighting is making you feel. And that you don't like it when he just doesn't talk to you. Communication is the key to any relationship. I hope I helped.
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This is exactly how me and my ex boyfriend were! Well I made the dumbest decision and broke up with him! Don't mess up like I did. You two need to sit down (face to face) and talk all of your problems out. NO ARGUING! Just talk and if you feel like you are about to get mad just excuse your self for a couple of minutes and calm yourself down. Y'all seem like you have a GREAT relationship and trust me you don't want to lose that because it hurts when the person you really care for and love is gone! Well hope my advice helped. Write back and tell me how it goes!
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LOL @ your relationship being bipolar...To me it sounds like theres nothing wrong with your relationship.I mean ofcourse after a year your going to be a little sick of eachother and if you didnt have those heated arguements id probably think there was soemthing wron with the relationship. all these things are what makes the relationship real.to me it sounds like you enjoy eachother's company so dont throw it awya because of your arguements.you need to be strong.youv got this far why not work at it a little bit longer?
talk to him and ask him what he wants.do you know how he feels?ask him not to get angry with you because you just wnat to have an adult conversation to see how we both feel and what you both want.maybe even make a list or pros and cons and weight out the odds.are the arguements the only thing thats bothering you?because if so thats not a good enough reason to break up.If you stopped loving him or werent happy and felt that the spark has completely gone then i would question the relationship
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