Now im 16 i met a guy that was 25 he didnt know my real age and i felt bad and we start talking and we were a couple at least i thought now he later on in our relationship found out i was 16 and i found out somethings about him like he was married, had kids and he really didnt like me the way i like him he thought it was just a game and that hurt me because i had gave my heart to him and my virginity i felt stupid and i was but i still liked him i wanted to stay with him still it was like i was to deep in the relationship or whatever it was to let him go even after i found out that i mean i never liked or cared for anyone like i did him. I kept seeing him and he eventually just left and didnt tell me it was over that really hurt now hes been gone for 7 months now and i dont know why i cant get over him i want to know how i mean this is ridiculous im not this type of person to keep thinking of someone i mean since that did happen to me i really dont care for the relationships i be in now there nothing to me sometimes i wish i could see him and tell him how i feel so he can see, here and feel my pain but thats just stupid that want change anything but how do i get over him
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? eliya17 answered Thursday June 3 2010, 10:33 am: well, what you did was wrong !! but I guess there is nothing that anyone can do about it, so that makes it history which you can't change, however the future is yet to come . therefore, here is what you should do : get into some activity like dancing,sports, singing... anything to gat your mind of this terrible memory ... and start think about this person that he is not a person that loved , on the contrary he hurted you and it seemed like he injoyed doing it ... so try not just to forget about him but you should hate him.. good luck !! honey and hopfully you will get over it:) [ eliya17's advice column | Ask eliya17 A Question ]
OhMyLucyDarling answered Thursday June 3 2010, 2:30 am: Move on, For your sake of safety and he should be moving on for his sake of avoiding JAIL TIME. A person that is 25 years old should not be involved with someone who is 16 years old. You are a minor and he is an adult, He should be sitting in a jail cell in my opinion.
HE IS TOO OLD FOR YOU, Legally.
If the wrong person ever found out you had sex with someone who is 25 years old even if you agreed to it, He can be charged with statutory rape to a minor person under the age of 18, Sexual assault and a bunch load of other things. You are WRONG, He is VERY WRONG. Nobody who is 25 years old having a relationship with someone who is 16 is right in the head. A 25 year old man should NOT be looking at someone that way. Your moving on, Look at the bigger picture...He is too old for you, He's MARRIED with KIDS! Next time be smart and stick with people your own age, Sure your 16 years old but you are not a slut stop acting like one. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
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