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alright, so i've been talking to this guy for a couple weeks now over texting and stuff and we decided to hang out the other day. (we're both really shy), so it was kind of awkward at first especially because he had other friends around but after awhile we left his friends and watched a movie and relaxed and began to talk a little. meanwhile, this couch was huge and we were sitting RIGHT next to eachother, shoulders leaning one eachother.

we text everyday and he tells me i'm cute and tells me to "come over and snug" (he doesn't mean this in a "booty call" type of way, he knows i can't drive to his house, i take it as a more "i want you here" kind of message) and just alot of cute things like that. he's alot like me and we're both sarcastic and it's great and i'm starting to really like him, i'm just not sure if he feels the same way. we were talking the other day and he apologized for not being able to hang and that he's busy and broke but i just need to be patient and then he mentioned something about he'd prefer to pay (i have no idea if he was talking about dates? i didn't want to ask and seem cocky or something).

i get the vibe that he does like me and then other times, i'm not so sure. i'm just looking for second opinions and how to go about making my interest known a little more. (i tell him he's cute and things like that, i'm too nervous to flat out say i like him).

look if that happened exactly the way you describe it then he does have something for you , but I am not sure what it is try to make a move just a small move to make every thing clear, just a small one

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style name for a prom dress thats short in the front and long in the back with a train.whats the style name?

they just call it : Short Front Long Back dress
I just dont think that it has a name

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I'm 14 and I'm a girl. I started going out with this guy a week ago and I thought he really liked me. But I found out that the first time we kissed that he got paid to do it. I really like him though and I want it to work but I'm not 100% sure of what to do. Oh I'm one grade above him but were the same age. Please help?

look it might be hard for you if you really like him,but you have to stay away from him just to keep your degnity up , AND if he comes back reject him , because I dont know you but what I do know that any boy would be lucky to kiss any girl and if he likes you 1% and he respects you he would have accepted getting paid for it , I am sry if you really love him but that would be the right thing to do,bye

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my step dad died like 5 months ago and my mom left to las vegas so i was forced to live with my dad who ive never known.. ive been dumped on him and his family including his wife. she is a complete bitch who screams at nothing and is hypocritical. my bf says i should hold out till i graduate then move out but i graduate when im 17 and im only a jr. they dont understand anything about me ive tried the whole "talking to them" thing but no such luck.. i could use some sort of guidence to get through this

well, you have to sleep at your dad's house but you dont have to stay there all the time , and here is what you can do : get a job after school , start studying at the library every day , and at week ends or vacations just get into a slumber party or just get into camps or clubs or even sport activities after noon.... and you know, but there is nothing that you can do about having to stay at your father's house sry:( but hey goodluck with what you want to do:)

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I am home for summer from college and all my frieds, and when i say all i mean literally all my close girlfriends, have gotten boyfriends and it seems they dont want to have anything to do with me because i am single. I am happy for them but i have been spending all my time alone for the past week and a half. I could get a boyfriend too but i dont want to settle id rather wait for the right person becuase i dont think i need to have a boyfriend to be happy( The guys my friends date are really mean to them but its a whole other story). the point is that i dont understand why none of my friends want to put any effort to see me!

okay, tell you what girl, you should seriously get some new friend, but I am not saying to forget about your old friends but trust me, if a friend doesnt give you your right as a friend when he or she is under pressure then he is not a real friend or at least best friend....but wait dont try to get new friend and use them to get beck at your old onesvor else every thing will blow up in your face!! and when it comes to get in a relationship with a man then you just have to wait for the right person ... goodluck:)

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Now im 16 i met a guy that was 25 he didnt know my real age and i felt bad and we start talking and we were a couple at least i thought now he later on in our relationship found out i was 16 and i found out somethings about him like he was married, had kids and he really didnt like me the way i like him he thought it was just a game and that hurt me because i had gave my heart to him and my virginity i felt stupid and i was but i still liked him i wanted to stay with him still it was like i was to deep in the relationship or whatever it was to let him go even after i found out that i mean i never liked or cared for anyone like i did him. I kept seeing him and he eventually just left and didnt tell me it was over that really hurt now hes been gone for 7 months now and i dont know why i cant get over him i want to know how i mean this is ridiculous im not this type of person to keep thinking of someone i mean since that did happen to me i really dont care for the relationships i be in now there nothing to me sometimes i wish i could see him and tell him how i feel so he can see, here and feel my pain but thats just stupid that want change anything but how do i get over him

well, what you did was wrong !! but I guess there is nothing that anyone can do about it, so that makes it history which you can't change, however the future is yet to come . therefore, here is what you should do : get into some activity like dancing,sports, singing... anything to gat your mind of this terrible memory ... and start think about this person that he is not a person that loved , on the contrary he hurted you and it seemed like he injoyed doing it ... so try not just to forget about him but you should hate him.. good luck !! honey and hopfully you will get over it:)

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