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just moved in w/ psyco parents
my step dad died like 5 months ago and my mom left to las vegas so i was forced to live with my dad who ive never known.. ive been dumped on him and his family including his wife. she is a complete bitch who screams at nothing and is hypocritical. my bf says i should hold out till i graduate then move out but i graduate when im 17 and im only a jr. they dont understand anything about me ive tried the whole "talking to them" thing but no such luck.. i could use some sort of guidence to get through this
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if talking to them doesnt work then just ignore them. You dont have to deal with that. Go hang out with friends or something and only come home to sleep. Just hold on until u graduate. A really good way to get away from the house is to get a job, because they shouldnt yell at you for being away from the house if the reason your away is because your working. hope i helped!
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well, you have to sleep at your dad's house but you dont have to stay there all the time , and here is what you can do : get a job after school , start studying at the library every day , and at week ends or vacations just get into a slumber party or just get into camps or clubs or even sport activities after noon.... and you know, but there is nothing that you can do about having to stay at your father's house sry:( but hey goodluck with what you want to do:)
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I think that unless you have a way to support yourself (like a job) you will need to stay there. It's not because you want, you kind of have too. And I know it stinks. I also know how you feel. My mom is like that as well and talking to her doesn't help at all, instead it makes her even more upset. Unfortunately, I can't afford a dorm or an apartment (I'm a college student) so I have to stay home as well. I knwo it stinks, but I find the best way is just to let it go. If she screams, don't react. I also find that spending a lot of time at the library is helpful and productive. Headphones also do wonders and so do walks. If you feel upset just do something you love to do to calm yourself down. I know it's hard, but you can get through it if you try hard enough!
Hope that helps and best of luck with your situation!
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