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all alone
I am home for summer from college and all my frieds, and when i say all i mean literally all my close girlfriends, have gotten boyfriends and it seems they dont want to have anything to do with me because i am single. I am happy for them but i have been spending all my time alone for the past week and a half. I could get a boyfriend too but i dont want to settle id rather wait for the right person becuase i dont think i need to have a boyfriend to be happy( The guys my friends date are really mean to them but its a whole other story). the point is that i dont understand why none of my friends want to put any effort to see me!
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okay, tell you what girl, you should seriously get some new friend, but I am not saying to forget about your old friends but trust me, if a friend doesnt give you your right as a friend when he or she is under pressure then he is not a real friend or at least best friend....but wait dont try to get new friend and use them to get beck at your old onesvor else every thing will blow up in your face!! and when it comes to get in a relationship with a man then you just have to wait for the right person ... goodluck:)
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You shouldn't wait for them to approach you, instead you should just try to make new friends. If you have a job, start getting friendlier with the people you work with. Or if you don't have a job then consider getting one for the summer. That way, you'll have something to do for the summer, make money, and not sulk over losing friends. If they don't want to hang out with you then don't make it seem like you're desperate for their friendship, show them that you've moved on and see if they come after you. If they don't, then whatever, they aren't worth it and you'll make better friends.
And I agree with you, don't start going out with someone just to go out with them, wait until you find someone you actually like and want to be with. Otherwise you'll be in a really sticky situation.
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they're taking you for granted. they think that no matter what, you'll always be there for them. but they want to keep they're boyfriend so they're hoping that you'll understand. i lost my best friend because of this. it's your choice to either forget about them or be there for them when their hearts are broken.
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