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My friends are hating me for no reason
Ok, this just happened a few weeks ago. i have a group of friends that i have had since high school, we've never had any fights or anything. but recently i've let in a another girl, and i'm not mentioning any names. but we were really good friends last year and got along really well. she wasn't a best friend but we were good friends. so i let her in and things were going fine for a few months and now recently my birthday's coming up and i want to invite my whole group. so i was going to my table where i usually sit and was about to tell them the news when this other girl- you could call her the leader. she told me to go away and asked me why i was invading their group. i was confused and moved away and then some of my closer friends came and sat next to me. i asked them what was my friend's problem. they shrugged and said they didn't know. later on one of my besties told me that she was shopping with this other girl from the group and she said that the girl i let in didn't like me because i was loud and immature. i was extremely hurt by this because the girl i had let into our group was now making the rest of my group hate me. and i didn't understand why they would hate me just because of one person. and then later on i talked with some of my friends on the bus and they treated me just fine as usual. so now i'm confused this girl hates me and is making the leader of my group hate me. i don't think that's all there is to it for if that's the only reason that's pretty retarded. so i told some of my other friends on the bus that i was having a party and they got all excited and was all 'i can't wait.' i was happy about that but when we got to school the rest of my group ignored me. my besties sit with me now. i really want to ask my friends about this but in all the classes i'm in with my friends that girl who hates me is in it too and they always sit together so i don't know how to ask them. and i really haven't said anything mean or done anything. i feel really confused and angry and frustrated. do any of you have any suggestions that may help?
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I think that you should just forget about those other girls. I know that you want to be their friend, but they aren't true friends. If they are so easily turned against you by someone they barely know, then they will take about you when you aren't around, and continue to act how they are. Trust me you won't be the only one they do this to. I'm sure you didn't do ANYTHING to deserve this kind of treatment. You should just hang out with the girls that have stayed loyal to you through this, because they are the ones that really care about you anyway. They are the ones that will be there for you when you need help. I hope I helped
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