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Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE! (link)
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You cannot get pregnant from a toilet seat.
Don't worry it will be back. :)
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Hi! Okay i am a really thin person....i am NOT Anorexic i swear! I eat actually alot, i just dont gain the pounds as fast! But my hands in the winter they will like turn colors...like in gym they will trun purple and red and stuff. And if you squeeze them they will turn red! Is this normal...my one friend said it could be a blood clot! Help me (link)
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LOL, you don't have a blood clot. If they turn almost black worry about it.
It is really very normal. People are diffrent.
Show your friend this test...it will show you have blood flowing in your hands.
Kinda pinch your fingernail....it will turn white. When you let go, it turns pink again.This is called capillary refill, If all is well it turns back to pink almost quicker than you can see it. So, if you get worried just do that test.
By the way,If you have nail polish on you can't see it.:)
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I have a boy friend and my perants are cool with it but then my friend said that he was going to ask me on a date my parents say that I can't date till I drive what should I do (link)
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They might let you if it was with a group. Or maybe if they were along or something. When did they say this? Was it recently or a while ago?
It doesn't hurt to ask them. If they say no then ask if they have suggestions for you to spend time with him. :)
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when do you start showing when your pregnant?? and does anyone know how much tests at planned parenthood cost? (link)
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When you begin to show usually depends on how big you are to begin with. Usually 4-5 months.
I don't know what the cost's are at planned parenthood. You could probably call them and get a ballpark figure.:)
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There is a show on TV, called America's Most Talented Kids~ and you are allowed to enter..and I want to enter...I'm a dancer, and I'm old enough. But it's in California, and if I ended up winning the audition, I (or my parents) wouldn't have enough money for me to go...And I really really want this..What should I do?!
signed,
Help! (link)
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Have you asked them what would happen if?
I think you should go for it. Even if you don't make it...it will be a great experience for you.
If you do, I bet they will getr the monet to take you there somehow! Good luck! :)
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my family doesnt pay attention to me at all... its all about my perfect sisters... i used to wear one of my sisters clothes (bc i dont have any) and my mom was gonna buy me some clothes but she gave the money to my sister bc i ruined my sisters clothes and like my parents dont do crap for me im not tryin to be selfish but what should i do?
sorry for the writing I RATE 5'S! (link)
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Ask them what the deal is.Maybe they aren't seeing what they are doing.
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There is this kid whos 15 and I really like him..but he doesnt like me only because Im younger than him. He flirts w/ me and stuff when Im alone. Only when Im the only girl around. Then when hes around other girls, he totally acts like Im not there...what is up with this? I need help on this because I dont know whats up w/ him....(hes my cousins friend) (link)
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How much younger than him?
A lot younger and he is right.
He might just be a natural born flirt.he also probably likes you as a friend. If the other girls around are older than you...that's why he flirts with them and ignores you. They are closer to his age maybe.I'm sure this didn't help much, just be friends with him for now.:)
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My boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago at school. Right after school that same day i saw him kissing another girl. I know we broke up and everything but how did he get over it that fast? My question is how can i get over someone quickly? Any tips on how to forget about someone? (link)
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He probably already had her waiting in the wing's. What a dog.
You just have to get over it in your own time. There is no quick fix. The sooner you get back into going out with your friends and trying not to dwell on what an ass he turned out to be the better. :)
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One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!
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I don't think it would hurt to say something to him maybe. Did he realize he'd made those girls cry? Are they maybe a little to sensative? If he know's and doesn't change his ways then i'd let someone else know. Maybe one of your parent's. It's just probably his bad personality and not anything deliberatley mean.:)
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Hi I'm 13 and I have never been very popular and I have never had many friends at school. I was always the straight A student and the goody goody and thats just how I was. But this year I decided to try to make friends. A lot of friends. I started to bend the rules a little bit. Once I found out that I could get away with anything because I was comsidered the good child I just couldn't stop. I became very popular and started not doing my homework. I figured whats wrong with that? I'm just like evryone else I'm not weird I'm cool. But now I'm rude and I don't care about my work at all. I ruined my straight A's and now I don't know what to do. I just want to go back and be able to control my self and not have the pressure to keep my so called frineds. What can I do? (link)
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You just go back to your old ways! Being popular isn't everything. Once you get into the real world...it get's you nowhere. Straight A's might!
And you know what? One good friend to tell dreams with is more than plenty. Hard to have the same intimacy with a whole group of people around. Good luck to you, and get back to studying! :)
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There is this guy and he supposedly likes me!!! and I like him a whole lot! My friends have asked him if he lieks me nad they said that he said he does.. and then some ahve asked him if he is gonn ask me out.. but he said that like Wednesday.. and he still hasn't... I am still wondering if he is going to.. and should I tell him I like him myself? and What should I do about if he likes me??
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We flirt a bunch and stuff and he is in some of my classes... and he alwasy stares at me in them .. but he hasn't asked me out yet.. am I over reacting? PLEASE give me some pointers on how to Help him like me (link)
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Just be yourself and keep your friends out of it.
Having someone's friends constantly bugging you could be a real turn off. If you want to know something, start talking to him. It doesn't have to be much at first.
The thing is, when you have your friends and his friends all giving and sending messages for you...well, how do you know what you can believe?
And he probably wonders does she really like me or are the friends just saying she does? She hasn't said anything to me. Boy's have the same doubts you do.....give him something to work with! :)
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well.. um heres the problem my frinZ dont get along! well not all of them -one of my best frinz and one of the guys im practicualy goin out w/ dont get along i mean they fight so much its rediculous evrey time their around each other its horriable, but the guy im practicualy going out with called one of my best friend a name and she got mad but she called him a name and he got mad ! what should i do they can*t get along.
please help lilpinkpig (link)
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You can't make people like each other so there really isn't much you CAN do......except stay out of the line of fire!
Just don't get in the middle of it.You'll make them both mad at you. Don't let their fighting keep you from not liking one of them. It's their problem not your's. :)
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omg! i already had a question about this kid Brandon, (who i like and is 15)..he is my cousins friend, and im younger than him..well last time i went over there and my aunt and uncle weren't around, he started touching me..i mean, my butt, my chest, stuff like that..omg and i havent told my parents! what should i do?!!! (link)
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How old are you?
Just keep your distance if you see him again.
If you are a bunch younger than him by all means tell your parent's. If you are just a little younger and don't want to say anything then don't. Just stay away from him in the future.And, I'd definatley say something to your cousin.:)
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i was lead on by a guy. i liked this guy he told me how he felt but in the end when i finally got the courage to ask him out he said no (i asked him out the nest day online) and he said because he still likes his ex what should i do? he told that he loved me and all this other stuff and in the end i get turned down. plz help me.
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Actually he did you a favor. If he still has feeling's for the ex let him get over that first.
Rebound type relationships usually don't work out very well.He would just be using you to get over her. Understand what I mean? Sure hope so!
He must think a lot of you to do that. So remain friends as you are now and maybe once he's over the ex HE will ask you out. :)
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Ok..i went out with this guy the other night..i think it was last friday. It was our first time meeting eachother because before that we had talked on the internet and really hit it off. Well when i met him i got very shy and didnt talk much. Soo a few days went by and he didnt really talk to me after that date. So then i told him oneday..that the other night i wasnt myself.and maybe we can hang out again..like another chance. He said ok thas cool..but just as friends. Did i get rejected or what? (link)
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Sound's like he just want's to be friends. That isn't a bad deal though because it's always good to be friends first anyway. Beside's, it will take some of the pressure to impress each other away. So go out again and just have fun.Who know's what will come of it down the road! :)
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Ive been down in the dumps lately about alot of things..first off my parents split up after a 22 yr marriage..then i didnt make my aau softball team that i make every year...and then things didnt work out with the guy i thought i liked. I really am depressed..i know i am..the symptoms are all there. I need something that will hype me up a little..ne suggestions? (link)
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You don't need anything to hype you up. Wouold only make matters worse.
You have a right to be in the dumps. Sounds like you have been through a lot recently. It's perfectly normal to feel the way you do. And, one thing just kinda led to another.
Just remember that your parent's still love you and their getting a divorce had nothing to do with you. And, there is nothing you could have done to make it work out for them.
You probably didn't make the team because of all the stress your dealing with at the moment.And the guy, well...he just wasn't the one for you. A new one will wander by soon.
Believe it or not everything will work out. It will take time though. Hang with your friends and cry on their shoulders when you need too. Take it easy on the folks because they probably feel pretty rotten too. Cheer up soon okay? :)
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i had my first real boyfriend last year and we got really serious, we said we loved each other and we did it lasted about 6 months but he moved, and i never thought i wouldnt be able to get over him like this or would miss him this much, its been like a year sence we broke up, and i still miss him bad, how do i get over him?
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Time. Everybody's diffrent. You probably shouold go out more and be with others. Do you have any contact with him at all? writing letters or email? If not you could do that, at least keep up a friendship.:)
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I was having a semi-asthma attack on the phone with my boyfriend, and if you've ever had an asthma attack you aren't able to talk without hurting yourself. My boyfriend was asking over and over if I could breathe, well obviously not? I wouldn't answer because it hurt for me to talk and I finally answered with "No!" Then he takes it all defensivly and was like "Sorry! I was just trying to help, but you keep shutting me out." I wasn't shutting him out was I? I was just trying to be able to breathe... Any Advice? (link)
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Let him know what you experience during an asthma attack. If he's never seen someone have one he probably just need's it explained to him.:)
No, I don't think you were shutting him out...Just breathing as best you could!
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don't bother reading if you can't manage, but 5's to any singly word of response because i really really need some advice here...
i have this twin sister- we're both 14- and she is really immature and selfish and just a totally disgusting and impossible person. sometimes i love her, but alot of times i could just explode! she is just so hard to take!
the main problems with her are that she is really into herself but at the same time extremely insecure and self-consious...and the second is that she just can NOT get over things...like tonight she was trying to get me to remember something by repeating like the same vague amature description over and over and I was like, OK I DON'T REMEMBER CAN WE DROP IT OR CAN YOU GIVE ME A BETTER CLUE?!?!
See its little stuff like that, but I just want to rip my brains our and throw them at her face!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE sharing things with her when I just don't really like her as a person...and she really harms me as a person, because I spend so much energy being infuriated at her or trying to ignore her pesty existence.
I really feel like we are the only people in this world that each other has, so we need to get along...but I just cannot tolerate her at ALL! Its like her brain is so many pages behind, and I can't stretch to reach her and make her stupid accomodations.
Is there any way I can coexist with her as a step towards actually liking her? There are some people in this world that I just cannot ever like, and that's okay, but I really don't want her to be one of them...and how can I vent my feelings in a healthy way? lol i've been sitting in my room screaming (literally) for the past 20 minutes...ew and I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone so don't go there....
snaps to you for reading this!
xox and SOS (link)
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LOL, sorry.....The twins I know are so alike in personality it is scarey!
I think as you grow older you will get along better. Right now what you are going through is normal.I sure can remember thinking mine was all ate up with stupid at one time!
Maybe when she just get's to be to much you can go run or go for a walk.Just get away from her for awhile. That is probably a lot of it too. You guy's are SO close you may just need to get away from her now and then. I mean you're in the same class, you probably hang with some of the same people etc...Too much togetherness maybe. So don't feel guilty about just getting away from her now and then. It's perfectly normal.
One day.....I know it's a way's off yet, you will actually look back together and laugh about all this! :)
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They come big in random spots- under my hair- in my eyebrow- under my eye. They're huge. They don't go away. It feels like there are lumps inside of them and they stay for months. When they finally do go away they leave a big old hole that you could stick a pin into with a black old cloud underneath. Crap squeezes out of it until it bleeds and scabs over. This whole thing can last for like three months. It's so weird.
What the hell is wrong with me and how do I make them stop??? I eman there's never more than one of them at once but they're ugly and they hurt and they suck. (link)
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It really sounds more like a boil than a zit.
When they finally break is it full of really dark red blood (at first)? And leave almost a dent? They last a long time. Never really heard of getting one on the face before but I suppose it's possible.
If thats what it is the best way to treat yourself is to put really hot compresses on it until it eventually breaks on it's own, they are really painful aren't they? Then when it does break wash the area really good with antibacterial soap. Cover it with a bandage if at all possible because that runny stuff can cause a new one.
Now someting that works on pimples too if you care to try it is this: Boil some water. Then drape a towel over your head and really steam your face good. Helps clean junk ouot of your pours. If it's to hot just back off a little until it's comfortable for you. I think you can buy a face steamer but this is cheaper and works just as good. Give yourself this as a "beauty treatment every few day's and see if you notice a diffrence.
Hope that helped some. Pimple or boil will work the same on both. Let me know if it works for you! :)
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